Because of the particularity of the family, there is a saying that "it is difficult for honest officials to make decisions about family affairs."

After hearing what happened just now, Liu Zhifei sighed softly, "Why friends are easier to get along with than family members, this is the reason. At our level, we pursue simple things in everything we do. Good friends can contact us frequently, ordinary friends can contact us less, and those who don't want to date can ignore us or make scenes."

"Relatives are different, they are related by blood. Whether they want to get along or not, they have similar blood in their blood vessels. This cannot be erased. But your statement is correct, leave this problem to your mother to solve."

"We should accept it if she is willing to make peace with them, after all, it is the business of the older generation."

Long Jianhua shook his head, "My mother is willing to reconcile with them, so I should welcome you. But it is impossible to ask me to reconcile with them and treat them sincerely. Blood relatives are not as good as bone relatives."

Zhengyu immediately asked, "Dad, what is bone kiss?"

He smiled and said, "Dear, take me as an example, you are the ones who are you and you two."

Qinglan blinked, "Mom doesn't count? Not aunt either?"

He turned his head and looked at him, "Mom and you are a bone-kind, not me. Aunt and I are blood-kind, the kind that is closest."

Qinglan understood in seconds, "Oh, then my mother and grandparents are intimate relationships. So we have to come back to see Diadea, grandparents and the others every month."

Long Jianhua wanted to test the two of them and asked, "What should you do if you encounter this situation?"

Qinglan immediately responded, "We don't have those problems, so there is no need to think about these things."

Zhengyu then said, "Don't spend too much effort on things that can be solved with money. However, I think you give too much money, which is more than ten times higher than their salary, and will cultivate parasites."

"Especially, Dad, you didn't formulate a systematic reward and punishment measure at all. This is too general and bad. There is also a flaw, that is, you have to deal with our generation. However, you have not taken care of the children of two aunts. This is unfair."

Liu Zhifei glanced at him and laughed, "That was decided by your wife, your father just paid the money."

Qinglan giggled, "This is called killing the rich and helping the poor. The two aunts have money, so they don't give it; they don't give it, so they give it. Does my sister also have the idea of ​​'married women, splashing water'?"

Liu Zhifei slapped her in the face, "You can just talk nonsense. Your aunt was in the research institute very early. Your aunt Yuehua joined later and also distributed the shares to her. As for Yuehe, we paid for the money she started a company. We also paid for all the expenses for the three of them studying outside."

She continued to ask with a smile, "What do you think if we share some shares in the group?"

Both nodded in agreement.

She immediately said, "The group shares are very valuable. Once they leave, we will lose more."

Zhengyu Dulu, "That's your money, the right to distribute is in your hands."

This little guy knows a lot.

Of course, this is just a tentative matter, and there is no intention to distribute the shares of their group at present.

The small family did not go back to Shichahai Siheyuan directly, but came to the hotel and met several shareholders of the hotel group to discuss the development of the hotel group and the jade group last year, as well as the dividends last year...

After Long Jianhua and the others left, the aunt pulled her mother into the bedroom, told her what she had said to Long Jianhua again, and then looked forward to her reaction.

After shed tears for a while, my mother said, "Sister, I don't blame everyone for drawing a clear line at that time, but I can't stand it when I treat my mother like that. How could such an ungrateful wolf appear in our family? If it weren't for Jianhua, would there be my mother now?"

Now, my aunt was a little embarrassed. She also had some responsibility for the situation when the old man had such a situation.

She paused for a while before saying, "Little sister, it was forced by the situation at that time."

My mother waved her hand, "There are also situations on our street like us, and no one has received such a letter. To put it bluntly, it is because of the lack of family affection that we can do such a thing."

"Fortunately, the Long family has a good family tradition. My mother-in-law and father-in-law didn't treat me differently because of such a thing; the matter of looking for my mother was actually what my mother-in-law told Jianhua privately, and I didn't know."

"That family style, like ours, is completely in the same sky and underground. Although my mother-in-law is very well-off, she is also very good to Yunyan and is better to me, her daughter-in-law."

The aunt smiled and said, "So, Jianhua and Yunyan are very promising, and Haoyuan is also very promising."

My mother shook her head, "The Long family attaches great importance to family affection. At that time, transportation was inconvenient, and the two brothers had to write at least one letter every month. Hao Jun used to be so far away that he had to go home for the New Year every two years, and the family of four squeezed into the train for three or four days. Later, my brother and sister were injured and could not go back to Hunan to celebrate the New Year, but they all had to write letters to report good news and not bad news."

"I used to write a letter, and it would be nice to receive a reply if I could write ten letters; later, all my letters were returned and I also received a clear line."

When it came to that time, she was a little excited.

The aunt sighed, "Little sister, let the past go."

My mother shook her head, "Sister, you have never experienced that kind of thing and can't feel that kind of pain. Forget it, it's all over... If the second sister is willing to come, then have a meal here tonight. It's okay to go to the restaurant."

The aunt asked tentatively, "Why don't we go to her house to see it in the evening? You two haven't seen each other for more than 20 years."

My mother shook her head, "I won't go. I'm here to wish my mother a happy new year, and I have no intention of wishing others a happy new year."

This other person refers to these brothers and sisters. After visiting Kyoto for so many years, I have never seen them. Adding that letter, even if there is family affection, it is very quiet.

She paused and continued, "Often they may not know that I am here, but every year I come to pay New Year's greetings to my mother every year, either the second or third year of the year. They don't know? I don't know the house in Hunan, and I don't know the house in Shichahai? I just think about me going to pay New Year's greetings to them and sending respect to them?"

"I agree with Jianhua's words, 'Some relatives are not as good as ordinary people'. If you have a little blood relationship, you seem to have to maintain them together. How can you do that? Everyone can live according to their own ideas, why can't I?"

My aunt sighed and didn't say anything else.

She remembered what Zhao Taihang said, "The people in this family really don't have much affection, and she is a little reluctant to admit it." Today, when she heard what her younger sister said, it would be impossible not to admit it."
Chapter completed!