Maybe Lao Qi was really lucky to be born into a large family with a relatively warm and harmonious environment, so I once naively thought that most families were probably like this... But it wasn't until now that I realized that I was a little bit wrong.

...

I really didn’t expect that the plots that were supposed to exist in TV dramas and novels would be played out in reality, and that there would actually be so-called relatives and elders who are greedy, shameless, and have no quality at all.

Because of the entanglements of their previous generation, they did not hesitate to use this dissatisfaction and resentment to sarcastically name us younger generations at the wine table, in order to realize the little bit of their inability to live in their own lives.

The poor desire for control and the so-called face are achieved, and it is rare to be happy during the New Year.

But in reality, because we have too many scruples, we cannot slap someone in the face like the protagonist in the novel and enjoy the grudge.

This is a very sad and helpless thing.

But what makes me feel fortunate is that Lao Qi's daughter-in-law was born on the edge of such a family, but she did not grow crooked under the influence of this big dye vat.

Husband and wife are of the same mind, and the home is peaceful.

This is Lao Qi's biggest motivation and booster in his life, and he can calmly face these losers who have lived a long life and still don't understand.

Out of curiosity, I asked some friends and even book friends around me, and found that there are quite a few people who have had similar experiences in life, especially during the holidays, and most of them just swallow their anger.

, while a few who are strong-willed just go back head-on and bear the subsequent consequences and greater counterattacks.

I can't comment on whether these actions are right or wrong because I have not experienced what they are going through.

However, Lao Qi once read a sentence that he still believes deeply, that is, when people reach middle age, they must learn to let go and not invite too many people into their lives, just to make themselves fulfilled. In fact, many people

They are just passers-by in our lives, and there is no need to care or pay attention to them at all.

For these people, especially those so-called relatives and elders who say they are good for you but are actually eager to see your jokes, give them the minimum level of 'respect' on the surface, show your bottom line, and be prepared to realize that the worst case scenario is that we will never interact with each other until we die.

Can.

The better off we are, the worse off they are.

There are many kinds of slaps in the face, the most severe kind...

Let me succeed in the end.
Chapter completed!