"My sister-in-law, although the old saying goes, "raising a man with poverty and raising a daughter with wealth", this kind of wealth is not just about giving money.

We also need to find ways to enrich our daughter's knowledge and enhance her ability to live.:::

""

"When I went to Hong Kong Island and the Lighthouse, I met some children from rich families. They were all very independent and were deliberately cultivated from a young age to "value exchange" and could only get pocket money by doing housework...::.

"Although overseas cultural habits are different from ours, and I don't fully agree with the practices of those overseas, some ideas can be learned from...

Li Ye moved a chair and patiently sorted out the "paper-raising method" with his younger sister Li Mingxiang.

In fact, when he went to Hong Kong Island and the Lighthouse, he did not see many rich children, but when he went to college and mixed-in-one in his previous life, he had seen many children from wealthy families.

After observation, Li Ye found that the children of those who won the lottery and relocated households spent a lot of money on weekdays, and the probability of their girlfriends changing their luxury car cars was higher.

Many of the children from families who started through production and trade "living hard", and occasionally a few of them have enough money and limited wealth. They are definitely not the "young masters of chaebols" in TV novels.

Girls may be better. After all, girls need to be raised with wealth, and the family provides sufficient living expenses, but they are definitely not a piece of clothing worth tens of thousands of yuan. Bags are all luxury goods.

Many boys are in a bad mood. They are affordable and their shoes are even worse than those of many children from ordinary families. The monthly salary is only two or three thousand, and it is good to be able to give parents of five thousand. If the monthly salary exceeds 10,000, then he must have a very "dormant" mother.

Li Ye once asked a classmate like this, and the explanation he gave was that he was still in the stage of "not making money" and did not have a thorough understanding of the acquisition and control of money.

At this stage, if the family gives too much money, his parents will worry that he "all problems are solved by money."

This leads to the loss of interest and ability to learn other life skills.

Li Ye suddenly realized that those young masters who spend tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands of pocket money every month still have the intention to study and think?

He took out a stack of money and immediately turned into the dormitory's adoptive father and the love prince. He was surrounded by various adopted sons and young ladies with fair skin.

What homework, attendance, and emotional value are all filled at once, and you can’t understand what “struggle” is or what “work” is.”

After hearing Li Ye's words, Li Mingxiang said in a very entangled way: "Oye, I know I shouldn't spoil my children, but your uncle and I worked hard to earn money. Didn't it just for her to spend it? You can't bring it to the coffin, right?"

"How many money have you made? You feel like you are rich?"

Grandma Wu Juying said sarcastically, "Have you ever met a rich man? Has you met a rich man in half of the county's land belonged to his family. If the county magistrate wants to do something, he has to discuss with their family. There are relationships with him in the court.

But even such rich children have to go to the ground to weed and work by cutting wheat. If they don’t learn well and become lazy, their father will still be whipped around the ground with a whip:::::: Can you Zhao’s family compete with others?”

"Mom, don't belong to the Zhao family, my surname is Li!"

Li Mingxiang was annoyed by Wu Juying's mouth "You Old Zhao Family" and mustered up the courage to speak to me.

But Wu Juying immediately replied: "Don't say that, our old Li family has no young lady, young master,

Is Ono no better than you? Is Xiaoyu better than Xiaowen's family background? Why are they not so spoiled?"

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Li Mingxiang, who had just ignited his fighting spirit, completely extinguished the fire. The money she made this year was unimaginable before.

Her husband Zhao Yuanchao also had a smooth career and was definitely a Brahmin level in the county town, but if compared with Li Ye and Wen Leyu..., don't compare! It hurts self-esteem.

"Mom, I'm wrong, I know I'm wrong."

Li Mingxiang was depressed and betrayed, and said with a little resentment: "I will tell Xiaowen later that her family still owes a large loan and is famined with a bag of pants, so she will have to support herself in the future and will have no food to eat if she doesn't work...

"

"My sister-in-law, you're wrong again."

Li Ye quickly comforted Li Mingxiang: "My sister-in-law, you have made a lot of money and my uncle's work has gone smoothly. This is all Meiwen's confidence to hold her head up and her chest up. No matter what difficult things she encounters, she is not afraid.

How much money you earn in the future can you reveal to Meiwen so that she has no worries, but also remind her,

If you don’t have the ability to make money, you will not have the qualification to inherit assets...::.:

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"And if you always hide it from Meiwen, it is easy for Meiwen to misunderstand her own conditions and will not be able to accurately position herself when dating others in the future."

Li Mingxiang was stunned for a long time before asking Li Ye in confusion: "What does it mean if you can't get your positioning?"

"that is.:

?

Li Ye thought about it for a while and felt it was really hard to say.

But in his previous life, he heard his classmates talk about a failure example of "poor son".

The boy's parents were engaged in the kind of "making a fortune in silence". They were not exposed or exposed, and they gave outsiders the feeling that they were not much different from those small vendors who got up early and went to bed late, but in fact, the family had already accumulated tens of millions of dollars.

However, boys' parents are afraid that their son will be promiscuous, so they have been constantly instilling in him the idea that "you are a child from a poor family, you must be self-improvement" since childhood, and they are "harsh" to their son in terms of life expenses.

For the specific situation, please refer to Happy Twist's film "Catching Dolls", in which Shen Hong plays a billionaire pretending to be poor and asks her son to pick up waste, and the parents of this family are not much better.

The boys are very similar to the children in the movie, very motivated. They worked hard to study and got into a very good university. The day when they received the notice, their father and mother celebrated each other, lamenting that their training methods were extremely correct, and even showed off to their familiar business partners that their years of hard work were not in vain.

But just two years later, the old couple regretted it.

Because their son brought back a girlfriend, height, appearance, IQ, temperament, family, etc., no aspect can match.

The old couple strongly opposed it because an excellent daughter-in-law would directly affect her grandson and granddaughter, but the boy's resistance was also strong. Even if the old couple introduced a better partner to the bastard, he would never stop marrying her until he died.

The boy's mother cried and asked, "Why?"

The boy replied: "I felt the gentleness and respect from her. Others laughed at me for being poor but she didn't dislike me. Others joked about me for being stingy, but she encouraged me...:::

When the boy said this, there seemed to be a "light" shining on his face.

A young man who had lived in an extremely poor and arduous environment for more than ten years was easily captured by a girl.

More than ten years of experience of "raising poverty" has indeed made this boy strive for self-improvement, but it also left a low self-esteem that is difficult to erase in his whole life in his heart.

Therefore, although the monthly living expenses of the rich children Li Ye had encountered were very limited, they had a basic understanding of the family's financial conditions.

They never feel inferior because of money, and they have very accurate discernment skills for friends or opposite sex who actively approach them.

After the "learning to make money", they will gradually take over the wealth of their families, but at that time, they will not squander every penny at will.

Therefore, the prince’s private visits and travels all over the world through private visits is a common way for parents to raise their children. They will not let their children fall into depravity because of money, nor will they lose their normal self-esteem.

Leaving the sufferings of the people all over the world is a copy of hell with completely ingrained consequences.

Perhaps in a difficult environment, children can become an extremely excellent Doudi-level master like those gods who started from scratch.

Perhaps because of the mentality, children are obsessed with the dullness of others, and are even more introverted than some ordinary families who grow up happily.

"Ono, please tell Meiwen these words! I don't know what's wrong with this dead girl. I've been disgusted by my words over the years. I can't tell her for a few minutes, but she believes in your words the most. If you ask her to go east, she won't go west...

After hearing Li Ye’s explanation, her younger sister-in-law Li Mingyue was also moved, so she asked Li Ye to persuade Zhao Meiwen that her daughter is old and she dares to talk back to her, and she is also very worried.

"Okay, I'll leave this to me. Let Meiwen come here often in the future. If you suffer any grievances, talk to Xiaojuan and Xiaoyu, don't be alone in your heart...::

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Li Ye took over the entrustment from his sister-in-law. After all, he was a blood-related cousin. You can't watch her go astray, right?

Zhao Meiwen has been studying in Beijing Medical College for the past four years. She is too far away from Li Juan, Wen Leyu and Li Ye’s Jingda, so she has less contact with each other.

In the future, as long as she often contacts Li Juan, Wen Leyu and Fu Yiruo, she will gradually become "close to Zhu Zhe Chi" and change some of her own ideas.

In the evening, Wen Leyu and Li Ye talked about the issue of "raising a girl with wealth".

"Li Ye, should you pay more attention to your daughter? Xiao Dou'er has loved money since she was a child, and she will pay it back if she is older? You can't help others with one trick, but your daughter let go...:...

"I don't care!"

Li Ye looked at Xiao Dou'er who was eavesdropping next to him and said deliberately: "It is indeed a problem for Xiao Dou'er to like money. She is so young and can't spend money at all. It's easy to waste it. Otherwise, she will leave all the crushed money to you to keep!"

"Okay, I'll be 1 tomorrow

"

Before Wen Leyu could finish his speech, Xiao Dou'er thrust over and hugged Li Ye's thighs.

"Dad, I can spend money. I can buy candy for one cent, I can buy an ice cream for five cents, and I can buy a small train for eight cents... I won't waste a penny...

Li Ye said in surprise: "You remember the price quite clearly, but you haven't even memorized the 99 multiplication table, so how could you spend money?"

Xiao Dou'er's eyes: "But I can press the calculator!"

Wen Leyu immediately said angrily: "Did you do the arithmetic problems you did this afternoon with a calculator?"

"No, really, I counted my fingers...:::

Xiao Dou'er quickly denied it, and subconsciously covered her little butt with her two little hands.

Many children in the 1980s and 1990s could recite Tang poetry before going to school, and Xiao Baoer could recite it. Xiao Douer felt that he could not compare with his brother in memorizing poetry, so he chose arithmetic in a wrong way and showed good talent.

But now it seems that she is walking too erratic.

Li Ye stopped Wen Leyu and smiled at Xiao Dou'er and said, "This is it! You can give the New Year's money to your mother in the future. When you grow up, I promise that my mother will pay you twice. You give her one hundred, she will give you two hundred...

Xiao Dou'er's two big eyes began to blink quickly, and she seemed to be calculating what the annualized rate accumulated over the past decade should be.
To be continued...