【109】Parenting and Gynecology Handbook
Wen Renxu looked at Xiaocao. Although he didn't say it clearly, the urging in his eyes was very obvious. It was completely different from the casual attitude before. It was obvious that he was very important to the child.
"Let's go." Xiaocao has seen this situation many times, and Xiaocao can understand how parents feel at this time.
"Fourth sister, you said that this child is fine, why does he suddenly show signs of illness? Your sister-in-law looks at the two children as if they are eyeballs. There are at least two people around to take care of them at all times. They are not cold or cold.
I'm hot, not hungry, and I haven't eaten enough, so why..."
"Brother," Xiaocao said helplessly, "it's normal for this person to be sick. No matter he is young or old, it's just a minor problem, not serious. You don't have to worry so much."
Wen Renxu also knew that he had overreacted, "The main reason is that both children are in good health and have never been sick. This happened suddenly, so I became anxious."
This is quite normal, especially if you are a first-time parent. If your child has a little problem, it will scratch your heart and even make you cry. After a few more experiences, you will probably be able to calm down. Of course, this kind of thing
The less you experience, the better.
After taking the medicine, Xiaocao wanted to tell him something, but after just saying a few words, Wen Renxu took her arm and said, "Fourth sister, you told me so much, I can't remember it, and I'm afraid
I misremembered it, or you made a hard trip and asked your sister-in-law to call a few more people to listen, and then you gave your nephew a closer look?" He looked at Xiaocao with some hope.
Xiaocao was a little dumbfounded, "Chengcheng, I'll go with you." If she explained clearly carefully, if there was anything wrong at night, even if they just felt it, they would rush to her.
run.
Youshi was a little happy when she saw Xiaocao. Apparently she and her husband wanted to go together.
As they wished, Xiaocao checked the children carefully and found that it was indeed just a minor problem. Then she told them what situations might arise and how to deal with them. She also told them some scientific knowledge about raising children.
These are some relatively common and effective methods.
Xiaocao was wondering if it was possible to compile parenting knowledge into a book. The reason why she had not done so before was mainly because most of the people she came into contact with were ordinary people with very low literacy rates. They could not understand it even if it was written down. Most of the time,
You can only explain and demonstrate on the spot, but they may not pay attention to it. It is different now. It would be strange if the people you meet now say they are illiterate.
What should have been a simple thing to accomplish, Xiaocao was stunned to spend half an hour on it because of the parents who loved their son so much.
It was decided that the next focus would be on this book. She was tired every time she met such parents.
Xiaocao is a full-fledged activist. After finishing all the things that need to be done on the second day, he started writing. Last night, he had figured out a rough framework structure and divided it into chapters. He only needed to slowly fill it in.
Just the content.
After just writing a few words, Youshi came over with her youngest son in her arms, "Where are the fourth sisters busy?" Youshi was a little embarrassed. She was counting the time and felt that Xiaocao was almost free before she came over.
But obviously some people may be busy at any time, and her sister-in-law is one of them.
"Sister-in-law." Xiaocao stood up and took the child in her arms over, "Brother Hong, let aunt see if he's okay." While playing with the child, he did a check-up, "Brother Hong, we
My body is in great shape." I took a sip of fragrance on his face.
Little Douding giggled, still shouting "coo coo coo".
Before Youshi could speak, Xiaocao had already finished what she wanted Xiaocao to do. In fact, her purpose was obvious, but it was still a little embarrassing. After all, she herself could see that her son was full of energy, but
Because of what happened last night, she didn't trust her own knowledge so much that she had to let Xiaocao confirm it before she could feel at ease.
However, it is really good to have someone who knows medicine at home. Some situations can be detected in advance. In case of emergency, there is no need to rush out to find a doctor. It is almost like having a Dinghaishen needle installed.
"I'm sorry, fourth sister, I just..."
"It's okay, sister-in-law, you don't have to be like this. I can understand it. Brother Hong is fine. In fact, sometimes you don't have to be too nervous. It's actually better for this kid to be more solid."
Youshi nodded, everyone understands some of the truth, but sometimes we just can't help but care too much.
Raising children is not the same, everyone has their own methods, and Xiaocao won’t go into details.
"Fourth sister, I see that you are busy, so I won't disturb you. I will take the children back first."
"Okay. Sister-in-law, if you need anything, just come to me. We are all part of the same family."
Youshi nodded in agreement.
However, after returning home, Youshi still picked out a few good things from her private treasury and planned to deliver them to her husband in the evening. Don't take anything for granted. The reputation of a medical woman is not good to hear. If her family opened it
A bad boss really treats her as a low-level medical girl. Wouldn't outsiders do the same? There is no respect at all.
However, Xiaocao didn't think so much at all. Originally, if someone in the family was sick, just check it out and get well as soon as possible so as to avoid suffering. It was that simple. So, there was indeed a difference in thinking.
So in the evening, when Xiaocao received the things from her brother and sister-in-law, she accepted them calmly. It was difficult to accept the things from outsiders because they were too expensive, but in her opinion, it was a good idea for her family to accept some gifts.
It was a normal thing, I didn’t even take a second look at it.
Pages of parenting knowledge written by Xiaocao were scattered on the table. Wen Renxu was attracted by the handwriting at first. I have to say that it was really good. It was much better than the other two sisters, especially
In contrast to the seventh sister, her handwriting was like a dog scratching her hand. Wen Renxu looked at it and said it unceremoniously.
Xiaocao laughed and said, "Sister Seven will hear what I said, and she will have to worry about you."
"If you're anxious, be anxious. That girl is just a young girl. She has many emotions, sometimes windy and sometimes rainy. Even if she cries, it will be fine after she finishes crying." Wen Renxu said as if he didn't care.
.
Youshi pinched him slightly in a funny way, "Have you ever said that about your own sister?"
"Don't I have two biological sisters? You see, these two are very good. I didn't say anything."
This was a roundabout way of praising Xiaocao, which made everyone laugh.
"Huh?" Wen Renxu seemed to finally notice what was written on the paper, "What the seventh sister wrote is..."
"Parenting manual. Some things about raising children. In addition to what I told you last night, there are also some things about the children's diet, and based on some of their external states, to confirm the health of the body and the self-control of minor injuries and illnesses.
Treatment, first aid for unexpected situations, using massage techniques to promote digestion, prevent colds, relieve pain, etc. Finally, we will also add the issues of educating children of different ages. Of course, this last point is for reference only."
Youshi's eyes lit up after hearing this, and she quickly picked up another book on the table to read. Wen Renxu was obviously also very interested.
"Fourth sister, when will it take you to finish writing this?" Qi Qi asked eagerly, holding the paper in his hand as if he had found a treasure, wishing he could take it away right now.
"It depends on the situation. It can take as long as ten and a half months, or as low as five or six days."
There is a lot of content, but it is all written concisely and concisely. It is not like the lengthy descriptions in the previous books. Classical Chinese can express a lot of meanings in one sentence, so it really doesn’t take too long. Of course, Xiaocao didn’t write anything either.
It's very complicated, there are no professional terms, it's very easy to understand.
"After the seventh sister finishes writing, she must give me a copy as soon as possible."
"Well, after writing it, I will print a few more copies. If you need it, you can get one."
"Anyone who doesn't have children, if they know about such a good thing, they will rush to get it. I tell you, the fourth sister can take it to the bookstore and publish it directly, and it will definitely sell well. Although it is said that if a wealthy family brings a book
There are people to take care of the children, and there are many experienced elderly people. I see that some of the experiences are very vague, and the methods are even contrary to what you wrote, Fourth Sister." Wen Renxu raised the paper in his hand, "Especially when illness occurs
Special attention should be paid to the correct handling of accidents. And for young parents who do not have the support of the elderly, this manual is even more important."
Regarding Wen Renxu's last words, Xiaocao agreed very much. The medical conditions are not good and the child's life is too fragile. Even if it is just a small problem, it may kill someone. "It can be considered."
In the past, I was determined to popularize medical knowledge, but conditions did not allow it. Moreover, many doctors paid attention to inheritance and cherished their own knowledge. Xiaocao's idea was not accepted by them. Now the situation is different, maybe we can slowly consider this matter.
"Actually, when the fourth sister has free time, she can also write more. Not only for children, but also for adults, they still don't deal with many of their own problems." Youshi said with a smile.
"I had written a gynecological manual before, but after I finished it, I found that no one in contact with it could use it, so I had no choice but to shelve it. When I remembered that I was writing a parenting manual, I also found that manual. Sister-in-law, do you want it?
The first one to take a look?"
"That's really an honor." It is difficult to talk about the secret problems of this woman, and even if you ask the elders with a blushing face, you may not get a solution. If there is such a manual...
Xiaocao picked up a white paper from the table and handed it to Youshi.
You Shi hurriedly flipped through it, and Wen Renxu also stuck his head out curiously, but You Shi pushed it away, "This is my daughter's book. What are you men reading? Just go ahead."
Wen Renxu reluctantly backed away.
When Youshi saw this, she couldn't help but be fascinated. The problems she knew were not only about herself, but also about her handkerchiefs, her sisters, and even her elders. The answers can be found on them.
There are even various body maintenance, dietary taboos, preparation for conception, not only the most fertile days, but also body positions. There are also various precautions for pregnancy, confinement, and lactation, which are comprehensive and can be
That's very considerate.
Youshi's cheeks turned red and her eyes couldn't help but secretly glance at Xiaocao. Fourth sister, this girl's family...
Xiaocao saw Youshi's eyes and could probably guess what she was thinking, but it didn't matter. The reason why she wrote down all the things about how to get pregnant easily was because she knew the importance of children to a woman in the current environment. After getting married,
Everyone wants to have children regardless of their lives. Considering this, I added those.
"What are you looking at? Your face is so red." Wen Renxu approached Youshi again.
Youshi was startled, "Let's go as we go. - Fourth sister, can you give me this book? I'll make a copy, and I won't let anyone know..."
Xiaocao waved his hand, "It doesn't matter if you know. Isn't it normal for those who study medicine to know more things than others? Since you want to learn the best and do the best, some things always have to be put aside.
"Xiaocao can't say that those things were too normal in her previous life. Not to mention written in books, they were discussed in public, right?
"This is because I am narrow-minded. How can someone like Fourth Sister, who has a broad mind, lofty ambitions, and benefits thousands of people, be viewed with a vulgar and narrow vision?" You said with a look of awe.
Wait, why are you giving her such a high hat again? She's not, she didn't, she really just wrote very ordinary things.
Xiaocao couldn't laugh or cry, "Sister-in-law is really too complimentary, I..."
"Fourth sister, there is no need to be modest. This is what you do."
Xiaocao sighed helplessly, okay, whatever you say is what it is. After all, the high hat is actually good for her. She is naturally willing to leak this manual to benefit more women, if she can suffer less criticism.
, she is quite willing.
As everyone knows, this parenting manual and gynecology manual have been passed down to later generations, and many of the contents have even been widely used directly, and are regarded as classics in parenting and gynecology. This is also a manual that unifies the two aspects of knowledge into a complete and scientific volume, which has great significance.
The high research value, together with other books written by Xiaocao one after another, will last forever.
This makes the reputation of "Wen Renxuan" more prominent than other miracle doctors whose names have been recorded in history.
"With these two books, when we get there..." Youshi's voice stopped suddenly, and she looked at Xiaocao, feeling a little at a loss.
But Xiaocao understood, "Sister-in-law, do you want to follow your eldest brother to take office?" Seeing Youshi's face turning a little pale, "There's nothing wrong with this. This young couple should be together, and so are the parents.
They are still young and do not need you to serve and fulfill their filial piety. I believe that with you taking care of them, they will feel more at ease."
Chapter completed!