She is quite respected and loved in the Sword Sect, and there are indeed many people close to her, but there are not many people who can talk to her privately.

So, who should she ask this question?

Thinking of this, Long Yan couldn't help but feel a little sad.

She found that she had too few friends. Over the years, she had been addicted to cultivation and rarely interacted with others.

It was a little better when she got to Jian Zong, but it was still different. She still had some idol baggage and was too embarrassed to ask the disciples of Jian Zong.

"well!"

"Why do you sigh, sister?"

Coincidentally, when Long Yan sighed, Zhang Chi happened to return to Jianzong and saw her sighing.

Since she has something on her mind, as her well-behaved younger brother, she should naturally step forward to resolve it.

"Eh?"

Hearing Zhang Chi's voice, Long Yan was also startled, and then she reacted and replied: "It's nothing."

"Sister, there must be something bothering you. How about you tell me about it?"

Zhang Chi took the initiative to show concern, making Long Yan unable to refuse.

She thought about it and realized that asking Zhang Chi wouldn't be a bad idea either.

Of course, she had to change her way of describing it.

"Didn't you say that there is still a month left for me to find my favorite Taoist companion? But I still don't know what it feels like to like someone, so I just want to find someone to ask."

"Well, if you talk about how it feels to like someone, I happen to know."

Long Yan: "..."

Why do you suddenly feel that this sentence is a bit heartbreaking?

Long Yan endured the discomfort, smiled slightly, and said, "Then tell me."

"This is easy to judge. If you like a person, you will also appreciate his appearance, agree with his views, and admire his character."

Long Yan: "..."

All of them were successful, and she was already getting nervous.

But of course Zhang Chi would not define it so simply. He explained: "At this point, the appreciation and liking between friends have been satisfied."

Oh, it turns out they are just friends.

Long Yan felt more relieved.

"If you want to upgrade to the level of love, some other emotions will appear, such as pity. You will worry about his misfortune and be troubled by his predicament."

Hit again.

"Of course, close friends will also have this kind of feeling. These alone are not enough to prove whether it is friendship or love. The only thing that can really distinguish the two is the most critical point."

Long Yan's heart was also aroused, and she asked eagerly: "What is it?"

"That is possessiveness. You will regard this person as your own private property. Possessiveness can be strong or weak. The stronger the possessiveness, the more you like him."

Zhang Chi further explained what possessiveness is.

"For example, if you find that he likes someone else, you will feel sad; if you find that he is closer to someone else, you will feel sour.

All in all, if you don't have possessiveness, your love will just stop at the stage of friendship. After you become possessive, you really fall in love with him."

Long Yan was silent, she had been hit by everything Zhang Chi said.

It's just that when it comes to possessiveness, she wasn't that strong before. It was only after Long Yi asked her to find a partner that she gradually developed this emotion.

But Long Yan was so obsessed with the authorities that she didn't realize this.

Many people's relationships actually originate from misunderstandings.

Misunderstanding that you like the other person, or misunderstanding that the other person likes you.

This misunderstanding will continue to deepen as you pay more attention to the other person, and in the end, it will become true love.

And now, Zhang Chi is instilling wrong perceptions into Long Yan...
Chapter completed!