Chapter Thirteen, Healing a Lifetime Childhood
(The question Wang Taika tested Snowball in the last chapter can be regarded as an interaction with book friends. Now the answer is revealed. I wonder if anyone has guessed it correctly. If you can use your own way of thinking to guess it correctly...
Then I really recommend you see a psychiatrist, no kidding!)
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"Well, tell me your answer."
Wang Taika looked at Xueqiu: "You don't need to directly talk about the results, but talk about the process and how you judged it."
Xueqiu replied: "Oppa has always said that we should pay attention to details. I thought about it and found that there is a lot of information in what Oppa just said. A child from a single-parent family has been insecure since childhood and is afraid of being abandoned. In order to prevent
Being abandoned makes me become very good, but even so, I am still afraid of being abandoned and have an inferiority complex that is not easy to detect."
After a pause, Xueqiu continued to analyze: "And just now Oppa mentioned two people, her boyfriend and best friend, who were very important people in her later life. Then I thought, these two people must have abandoned her.
She, that’s why she’s like this.”
Wang Taika nodded with satisfaction: "The idea is right. I have studied mental illness for so long, and I actually discovered a very interesting thing."
Snowball nodded, listening carefully.
"Childhood determines a person's life. Some people are healed by childhood throughout their lives. Some people are healed by childhood throughout their lives."
When Wang Taika said this, he couldn't help but think about his family. If he didn't have a happy childhood, the setbacks he experienced when he grew up would be enough to destroy him. And the core that supports him is not bullshit.
not love, but family affection that is hard to let go of.
When a person is so desperate that he wants to die, he should think about his family, the pain and sorrow they feel when they know that he is dead, and the scars that will be difficult to heal for many years to come. Even the most cold-blooded person will not
The solution is to think about it selfishly.
Therefore, Wang Taika belongs to the former. He has been healed by his childhood all his life. He is grateful to his parents for condensing his body, to his parents for their tenacity to shape his soul, and to his parents for their care, which allowed him to spend the happy time of childhood with little regret.
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If Wang Taika is the former, then the girl in front of him is the latter.
A lifetime of good things can hardly heal your childhood. Your parents divorced, you were pushed around like a burden, and finally you were simply given up. This unfortunate childhood, no matter how good you are when you grow up, it will be difficult to smooth away the inferiority and inferiority deep in your heart.
fear.
Xueqiu said: "I think maybe her best friend and her boyfriend betrayed her, but Oppa clearly said that her boyfriend loves her very much, so I don't know what to think about next."
Wang Taika smiled and revealed the answer: "You have obviously found the core? But you didn't think about it further. Do you think that the core that made her become like this is betrayal? But in fact, I just said that all of this
The root cause actually comes from her unfortunate childhood? That inner inferiority and loss of security. Do you have to think from this perspective? Otherwise, it is just a failed relationship, which will not let a person be like this. There must be something going on? It has further destroyed it.
Her sense of security."
Snowball shook his head: "Unexpected."
"I just said, she is a very excellent person? A goddess-level existence in the school." Wang Taika smiled and said: "So combined with these prerequisites? A person with a deep inferiority complex, if she is excellent now,
If she can't change her inner panic, what will she do?"
Snowball suddenly realized: "Test!"
"That's right!" Wang Taika said: "So the fact is, even if she has a boyfriend who loves her deeply? She still doesn't believe that this good luck can come to her? She feels inferior, and she is not worthy of love.
. And her boyfriend is with her only because of her beautiful appearance. So she is afraid that if she gets old, she will lose everything. So her best friend gave her an idea, can you make her look ugly? Come and test the man.
Love you or not."
Wang Taika said calmly: "So this girl went to meet her boyfriend without makeup for the first time, and her boyfriend still loved her. But her best friend was still trying to persuade her? This was just without makeup. So the girl continued to test and put on a very ugly makeup?
Her boyfriend still loves her. Then her best friend is still trying to persuade her, saying this is not enough."
"So the girl went crazy? She wanted to know if her boyfriend loved her. So the next time? She deliberately fell and hurt her face? The next time she deliberately drank water and stayed up late, making her whole face swollen like a pig's head. But she
Her boyfriend still likes her very much. But the more determined he is, the more she wants to test her further."
"In the end, she cut her face with a knife and even allowed the wound to fester and rot. When she finally rushed to her boyfriend, he pushed her away in horror and called her a lunatic. Then she laughed happily and felt
She verified the fact that her boyfriend didn't like her. But when she wanted to tell her best friend the news, she found that her best friend was already with her boyfriend."
Xueqiu was covered in cold sweat after hearing this, and felt extremely horrified: "This..."
Wang Taika waved his hand and the poor girl left. Then Wang Taika continued: "You can think of this, which is pretty good. In comparison, she is actually quite normal."
Xueqiu knew that Wang Taika's so-called "comparison" refers to the other people under his command. So many terrifying mental illnesses were actually driven by Wang Taika alone. This ability almost completely destroyed those so-called beliefs.
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"How did Oppa do it?" Snowball asked.
Wang Taika smiled and did not answer.
What the hell, now it’s just a small test to get started. Snowball is not someone that Wang Taika truly trusts. Being able to tell her this is already the limit. If Wang Taika also teaches how to control other people’s psychology, then
He is such a jerk himself!
The cat became the teacher of the tiger, but the skill of climbing trees still had to be retained. Wang Taika accepted Snowball so much now because he just felt that Snowball had no such talent at all, and... maybe
Can I really pass the snowball and destroy the function?
Wang Taika smiled. He didn't hate functions, he even liked them a little. But if he couldn't get what he liked, he might as well destroy it himself. It was really selfish to the extreme.
Snowball asked: "Why is Oppa laughing?"
Wang Taika said: "There are seven sufferings in life: birth, old age, illness, death, resentment and hatred, separation from love, and failure to seek what you want. But I think, if we destroy them all, will we no longer have this trouble?"
"Oppa is so extreme." Xueqiu curled his lips.
Wang Taika looked at Xueqiu: "Do you still use this title?"
Xueqiu thought for a while and changed his words: "Teacher? Speaking of which, after debuting, I really haven't called anyone that. Oppa is also the only teacher now."
Wang Taika nodded: "I'm tired, you can go."
Snowball continued to ask: "Teacher, am I your only student?"
"I'm not really a student, I'm probably a disciple, haha..." Wang Taika felt that his current relationship with Xueqiu was a bit strange.
"Okay, so I am a follower of the teacher. If the teacher is a religion, then I am a believer." Snowball narrowed his eyes, thinking of something very happy at all, and said with a smile: "Compared to hypocritical gods,
, I feel that listening to the teacher’s words makes me feel more comfortable.”
Wang Taika heard this and asked strangely: "So you, what happened to you that made you so good that the s.m little princess didn't do anything, but you wanted to learn such a terrifying psychology from me?"
Snowball put a finger in front of his lips: "Shh! Teacher, this is still a secret for the time being. But now, I really won't be so scared. After all, there seems to be nothing scarier than you, teacher."
"Thank you for complimenting me!" Wang Taika rolled his eyes.
Xueqiu tilted his head and asked happily: "Then can I come to the teacher often?"
"Yeah, okay."
Wang Taika felt that Xueqiu was a little strange. It would take a normal person a while to recover from what he just saw. But Xueqiu seemed to have suddenly lost his memory. He forgot about it all of a sudden and looked happy again.
Heartless and cute.
Wang Taika was confused and asked casually: "Aren't you scared after reading what happened just now? Why do you feel like you are not affected at all?"
Snowball replied: "Of course I am afraid. But showing fear at this time will make you look weaker. It is better to pretend that you don't know anything. Forget about it and hypnotize yourself, as if these things are not your own experience.
In this case, at least this moment won’t be too uncomfortable.”
When Wang Taika heard this, he was amused by such self-deceptive remarks, but the next moment he suddenly thought of a terrifying thing, and his hair stood on end and cold sweat started to flow down his face.
Chapter completed!