Chapter 355: It will come(1/2)
The closer the production period is, the more nervous Qin Guanglin is.
It feels like I am about to be a dad...well, I really want to be a dad.
Why not get up several times every night because of pregnancy. Every time there is a little movement, Qin Guanglin would wake up with her, help her get out of bed and put on slippers, and then follow her to the bathroom door and wait quietly.
The slippers have been replaced with thick-soled cotton tows, which will not slip. They will use dry laundry every time they take a shower in the bathroom - this child cannot tolerate any surprises. Children in ordinary families are treasures, and their children have extraordinary significance.
If something goes wrong, why not even if you don’t collapse, you will regret it for life and become an incurable heart disease.
"Do you want to be with the child?"
"If you don't mind, I want to accompany you."
Qin Guanglin was worried that she was staying inside alone, while she was waiting outside.
The matter of childbirth was not popular at first, but later, as demand increased, many hospitals added this business, but in recent years, some hospitals chose to cancel this project due to various reasons.
On the one hand, the husband is prone to leaving shadows, on the other hand, the pregnant woman is emotionally unstable. If someone is with her, she may be encouraged, and she may become more delicate and fragile. She could have given birth naturally but was affected to turn into a caesarean section, which varies from person to person.
He believed that what was wrong, and he would not become more delicate because he was around him. On the contrary, he could feel at ease only if he was by his side. Needless to say, he knew, just as he wanted to see what was wrong with being at ease.
When it is most painful, you must always have a support instead of fighting alone.
"Aren't you afraid of leaving a psychological shadow?" Why bother asking.
"Did I accompany you last time? Is there any shadow?" Qin Guanglin was too lazy to think and asked her the answer directly.
If you didn’t accompany me last time, you must accompany me this time; if you stayed with me last time without any shadows, you must accompany me this time; if there was a shadow last time... then just stay with your eyes closed.
Anyway, as long as he agrees, he has to go in and stay by the bed - unless he doesn't want him to see her most embarrassing side, he will respect the choice.
Qin Guanglin has already understood the benefits and disadvantages of childbirth very thoroughly. Not only childbirth, but everything from waiting for childbirth to postpartum confinement, he has read countless examples and information in his spare time. He has a clear understanding of it. It can be said that he has taken everything into consideration and only looked at the choice.
As expected, why not shake your head and say, "Last time, I didn't want you to see the ugly side of me, and I didn't let you in."
"But I don't want to wait outside. Although I haven't experienced it, that kind of waiting must be very uncomfortable."
Qin Guanglin just thought about the scene where he stood outside the delivery room and looked at the lights on the door, and was so anxious that he rubbed his hands and stomped his feet, and he felt unbearable.
After a pause, he continued, "I heard that some of the fastest ones only take a few dozen minutes, and those slower ones take a few hours... Do you have the heart to let me wait outside for a few hours?"
“I wasn’t that slow last time.”
"You didn't have overnutrition last time."
"...Okay, you can go in with me then." He Dian smiled and touched his face, "I have already thought about it. You will be with me this time."
Everything, nothing cannot be shared, so is happiness and embarrassment.
The two of them are not distinguished from each other.
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New Year's Day is the Gregorian Year. In previous years, I would have had some meals together. This year, it was very simple because it was not difficult to wait for delivery. It was no different from usual.
In the afternoon, Qin's mother came over and moved into the room she had prepared for her with her changing clothes. From then on, she began to take care of her daughter-in-law until the end of her confinement period.
Both children are parents for the first time, and they are inexperienced - Qin's mother thinks so, and she is always worried that Qin Guanglin is not caring for her. After moving here, she sees Qin Guanglin skillfully taking her for a meal and walking, so she has settled a lot. She checks the house everywhere and has already packed up the sharp items she should have hidden, and thick sponges are stuck to the corners of the table and walls, which is more attentive than her, a mother.
"The due date is still ten days, right? Should I go to the hospital first?"
At that time, Qin's mother always gave birth at home and didn't know much about the current hospital delivery process. She hesitated to ask Qin Guanglin and the others.
"No hurry, the doctor said everything is normal and I will go there two days after my child."
Qin Guanglin had such a consideration before, thinking that it is better to take care of the hospital at all times than at home. He didn't listen to what he said. He pulled the doctor to ask before giving up his plan and explained to Qin's mother: "The hospital ward is cleaner than ours, but those corridors, corridors, toilets, etc. are not necessarily there, and there is that... that puts pressure on pregnant women, and eats, and work and rest... the familiar environment at home is better for pregnant women."
"Oh...so."
"You don't have to worry about these things. If you have a baby... we are not panicked, let alone panicked. Everything is arranged properly." Qin Guanglin helped He Dian knead his swollen calves and patted his chest to ensure that.
If it is not necessary for him to be a father, he does not want others to participate. Even if it is a person of the previous generation, his mother is not willing to refuse, so she can only do everything herself.
It is no longer easy to pull him up. Now he has children himself and doesn’t want to bother the elderly anymore.
Qin's mother has been thinking about being a grandmother for a long time. No matter whether it is reasonable or not, she should help take care of her daughter-in-law's childbirth, and she cannot stand by. What's more, she is happy to participate. So a family of only three people - to be precise, three and a half, makes her feel the feeling of the stars supporting the moon.
I can only enjoy the time when I was a child.
Starting from New Year's Day, Qin Guanglin began to live like a year, paying attention to the fetal movements every day. He bent down and approached her stomach to listen to the movements. The originally nervous mood was dispelled by his reaction, and he relaxed his mind and waited quietly for the day of labor.
Qin's mother has always been familiar with this new home, kitchen, egg beater, juicer, and milk warmer... These are all quite fresh. She had never tinkered with these things when she lived in an old house with Qin Guanglin. She didn't care so much about the quality of life. Now she can't help but feel relieved when she sees their exquisite life. Each generation is better than the next. This is the wish of every parent.
On the seventh, He's father arrived in Luocheng and only told Hezhe in advance that he wanted to come. He asked about his due date, but did not explain when he would come. He got off the train and let the two know. Qin Guanglin quickly drove to pick him up. He discussed with Hezhe on WeChat on the way and temporarily placed him in a hotel next to the street. There was only the master bedroom of their couple and Qin's mother's room at home. In addition, the small room prepared for his daughter, so he naturally could not move the small room into the first place. He couldn't sleep with the small bed, so he could only stay in the hotel temporarily.
On the 10th, why not start the pain at 2:00 in the afternoon? Qin Guanglin did not delay for a moment, and took the delivery bag and checked his ID, medical insurance card, and cash. He helped him with his mother. He's father sat in the passenger seat and the whole family headed straight to the hospital.
"How do you feel? Are you going to give birth?"
While waiting for the traffic light on the road, his palms were already soaked in sweat. He tightly held the steering wheel and looked at the two women in the back seat through the rearview mirror.
"It's just a pain, not that fast..." Why don't you feel inexplicably calm at this time, hold Qin Ma's hand tightly and feel the pain in your body.
The child is ready to come.
Qin's mother felt her grip strength, and her palms were covered with sweat stains. She looked even more nervous than the worst. Her heart was tightened, and a layer of sweat oozed out of her forehead in the middle of winter. What's wrong with sweat, the pain caused by her sweat caused by nervousness.
"Don't panic, I'll be at the hospital soon."
Dad He looked very calm, but his hands that kept rubbing his trouser legs still exposed his inner uneasiness.
I always felt that my daughter was still young and was still a little girl. Even if I got married, she was still the little girl who called her father. As a result, she wanted to be someone else's mother in a flash.
"Guanglin is here, don't be afraid, it will arrive soon..." He didn't know what to say, so he could only comfort him softly.
It’s not that my father is here, but that Guanglin is here. He can tell who is the most important thing for his daughter now.
"Yes, I'm here."
Qin Guanglin nodded vigorously, stared at the front with his eyes tightly, and while paying attention to the road conditions, he drove the car quickly and steadily, and headed straight to the hospital.
It was afternoon, and there was not much traffic on the road and there was no traffic jam. The family successfully rushed to the obstetrics and gynecology hospital. After the car was parked, the two elders helped me get down. Qin Guanglin took the lead and ran to the emergency room to register.
By the time the doctor diagnoses, why not see any redness?
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"It's normal for pain, don't worry, natural birth will cause pain...you go to the hospital first."
After the diagnosis, the doctor comforted Qin Guanglin and sent him to go through the procedures.
"Those who do not have pain need to have caesarean sections. Please relax... Everyone has different physical constitutions, and they can take more than ten hours to one or two days. Go and be hospitalized for observation first."
It was still the middle-aged female doctor who had been responsible for helping with prenatal examinations since the beginning of her pregnancy. She had already become familiar with them from the moment they were pregnant to the point of delivery. Seeing Qin Guanglin's impatient appearance, she said a few more words.
"Thank you! Thank you! I'll go right now!"
Qin Guanglin has always been trotting, registering, completing procedures, and jogging to get hot water for drinks.
"It's getting soon. The doctor said everything is normal. The pain is normal. Hold on... If you feel it hurts too much, you will bite me. I have a lot of flesh on my hands..."
"I know." Why not push his hand away weakly, "Take away your stinky hooves, it smells so smelly."
"Yes, yes, so smelly!"
"I want to drink water."
"Give."
"hot……"
"Wait, I'll pour it for you."
Qin Guanglin, who was about to enter his thirty years old, was so nervous that he was like a child at this moment. He held two cups tightly and poured the hot water around, and blew hard with his cheeks.
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The pain lasted for eighteen hours, and Qin Guanglin remembered clearly that he stayed with him for eighteen hours.
Eighteen hours later, the interval between the pain gradually became regular, so why not be sent to the labor room? He could not enter, so he could only walk back and forth in the corridor, look up from time to time, take a deep breath, go to the bathroom to wipe his face back and wait.
"Let's have some supper. I only drank some porridge from yesterday to today. Don't be hungry."
He's father brought the fast food he packed to Qin Guanglin. He and his mother went to rest on that day and night. Only when Qin Guanglin could not persuade him, he could not eat the porridge, but he took it over and helped him drink it.
Qin Guanglin subconsciously wanted to push and refuse, so he glanced at the door in the direction of the delivery room, but still took it to his hand and opened it, and started to eat it with a big mouthful.
"Am I over-neglect?" He was stuffed with food in his mouth and smiled embarrassedly.
No matter how nervous others are, they are not like him. Before they start giving birth, they are already panic when they enter the labor room after suffering pain.
"It's okay, I understand." Dad He nodded, "It's the first time... I'll be nervous, but you're a little more responsive and relax. There are so many people giving birth to children every day, and nothing happens."
"Well, relax, relax."
Qin Guanglin ate a big mouthful and responded vaguely.
Although he knew everything was normal, he could not suppress the inexplicable panic in his heart, not the panic about childbirth itself, but the sudden worry in his heart when he stepped into the hospital.
Why not be an ordinary pregnant woman? All this is achieved by the couple now.
She escaped time and went back to the past ten years and tried to recover the accident a few years later.
He is just an ordinary person, not knowing whether there are gods and Buddhas, or whether there is reincarnation, everything is unknown. When his mind is in a mess, he can no longer remain calm.
To be continued...