Chapter 2190 Dilemma
Chen Shiying took a sip of water.
He continued, "Her mother gave up everything in order to find him, not only physically but also mentally."
Yunhua nodded, "It's understandable."
Chen Shiying took a deep breath and said, "No matter what, finding it is a good thing, and it is also a good thing for Chu Yu. Chu Yu has always had a knot about his childhood. He feels that he was abandoned, and now he knows him. His mother has paid so much to find him, and has been looking for him all the time, and has never given up..."
Chen Shiying smiled, "I can feel that the old wounds in Chu Yu's heart have healed. I am really happy for him, really, sincere."
"Of course I know you are sincere, so why is his mother not satisfied with you?" Yunhua asked again, "Because of your job?"
Chen Shiying nodded, "He. His mother has been looking for him for so many years, and her family has been broken up. She has bought everything. She has mental problems. His father has already started a family, and only he is alone. His mother is still alone, but his grandfather's family is very good, and his uncle is developing very well now. They can't control him. When his mother looks for him, she can only let her take care of her when she can't support her. Now that she has found Chu Yu, his grandfather and uncle are also very happy. His uncle has also cowarded a house for them, and written it under Chu Yu's name. His mother's mental condition has also improved a lot."
"What else?" Yun Hua asked.
Chen Shiying pursed her lips, "He. His mother is biased against artists in the entertainment industry. She believes that I am not a good person in the entertainment industry. She said that if I want to continue to develop with Chu Yu, she must quit the entertainment industry and get married and have children as soon as possible. Because Chu Yu is still active and has tasks often, she is afraid that she will not know when she will be able to hold her grandson. But I don't plan to get married so early."
Yunhua frowned. These problems are indeed not easy to solve.
"Actually, it's nothing to get married and have children. I can take a year off and come back after giving birth. I can take less work in the future, such as a drama a year, so that I can spend at least half of the time every year. I think it's OK. But his mother insists on letting me quit the entertainment industry completely. How is this possible? I like acting, what else can I do if I quit the entertainment industry? Go to work? Be a housewife? I can't draw. Even if I can tolerate such a monotonous life for Chu Yu at the beginning, it won't work over time. I understand myself, and I will go crazy if I have nothing to do. I don't think of that time, using these things to wipe out our feelings. If it's really... if it's really irreconcilable, I would rather not get married."
Chen Shiying was very confused.
Yunhua looked at Mingchen.
Mingchen spread his hands, "Don't look at me, I can't do anything about it. This is her private affairs, I can't control it. However, from a private perspective, I think Shiying chose right. She loves acting job and wants to regard it as a career for her life. She is not a little woman like a dodder. She can't abandon her work and stay at home to take care of her children all day. If she has to force her to do that, it will only make her more and more depressed, and of course it will also affect the relationship between the couple. The relationship now will eventually be finished again, and by that time it will be a resentful couple. If she really can't find a solution, it's better to break up, and the pain will hurt. Now, at least her feelings for Chu Yu are still at the best time, and it won't be wiped out into resentment. What do you think?"
Yunhua nodded and looked at Chen Shiying again, "What did Chu Yu say? The key to this matter depends on his attitude. His mother's thoughts, you can't control it, and it's not convenient for you to come forward, but he can. This kind of thing should be left to him to solve. If even his mother can't solve it, you really don't need to be together."
As he said that, Yun Hua was silent for a moment, "In my impression, Chu Yu is not such an irresponsible person. But..."
She paused and glanced at Chen Shiying, "You can definitely understand him. His mother's situation is quite special. You can say that in order to find him to ruin his life, you also talked about him. Mom may have some mental problems, so in this situation, it is better not to stimulate him too much. Mom is better, Chu Yu must be in a difficult situation. You know him best after his relationship with you for so many years. Now, on the one hand, I ruined the whole mother of my life for him, and the other is the woman he loves the most... Both choices are difficult."
Chen Shiying couldn't help but turn her head and wiped her tears secretly.
Yun Hua sighed, reached out and hugged Chen Shiying's shoulder, without saying anything.
Mingchen took out a tissue and handed it to Chen Shiying.
Chen Shiying took the tissue, wiped her tears, blew her nose, took a deep breath, adjusted her emotions, and said, "I know everything you said. I know he is in a dilemma, so I don't want to force him. If this kind of thing is on me, I will be in pain, and I don't know what to do. So no matter what he does, I won't blame him."
"Anyway, you are not in a hurry to get married, you can wait." Yun Hua thought for a while and said, "Chu Yu doesn't have much time to stay at home. He still spends more time in the army. How do you contact each other?"
"Write a letter, or call me when he can make a call during the break." Chen Shiying said.
Yunhua nodded, "Then you can continue to contact this in the future without going through him. Your mother's consent is that he should be filial to him after he returns home. Mom will be filial to him. Mom. Now he. Mom has just been found, and his mood has not improved so quickly. You can wait slowly. Maybe your mind will be over and after life is normal, her mother's mood will improve and her spirit will improve. You can wait slowly for your affairs later."
"But his mother is anxious to hold her grandson." Chen Shiying said, "He. His mother has been introducing girls to him on blind dates, wanting him to get married as soon as possible, and she will be worried all day long if he doesn't get married."
Yun Hua frowned, "If this happens, it depends on what Chu Yu will do. In fact, Chu Yu can say that he has just broken up with you, and he is not in the mood to talk so quickly, so let him. Mom give him some time. Anyway, he only has a month's vacation a year or so, and he is usually in the army. He. Mom has no way to go to the army to go on a blind date for him! If he delays this for a year or two, his mother will gradually know her son's wishes, and maybe she will change..."
Mingchen nodded, "I think Yunhua is right. Besides, it's just a blind date. It's not easy to make the other party fall in love with him, but it's not easy to make the other party look down on him? If Chu Yu doesn't want the other party to fall in love with him, it's simply simple, and there are so many ways!"
Chen Shiying blinked, and her eyes became more energetic, "This...this is the case, when I call him next time, we will discuss it."
Yun Hua said, "Yes, you two should discuss and think about countermeasures in this kind of thing. Don't be so stupid that you will do it. There is no need."
Chen Shiying smiled, "Well, I will communicate with him well after listening to you. My father hasn't told him anything about it yet, so I will tell him. In fact, his job is pretty good, otherwise, I'll be busy, and I'm not fixed when I go home, and I'm not fair to him. Now he doesn't have much vacation, so we're fair to each other."
Yunhua shook her head helplessly, "You are really used to it. When you rest, you will be sad when you want to find someone to accompany you."
Chen Shiying is in a good mood when she has a little brow.
The three of them were very happy to chat.
However, after solving Chen Shiying's affairs, it was Mingchen's turn again.
"Drawing, you have a good relationship with Yixin, why not help me?" Mingchen said, "I have proposed to Yixin for many times, but she has never agreed."
"Did you propose to her?" Yun Hua was a little surprised, "So many years have passed, and there are no ones around you?"
"What do you mean? Am I that kind of person?" Mingchen looked at Yunhua speechlessly, "You don't know who I am? I'm not that kind of playboy, I'm changing one by one."
"Oh." Yunhua nodded and smiled, "Oh, I just said that. After all, you are the boss of a media company. If you think about it, even if you change a beautiful star every day, it will be fine every day for 365 days. Who knows that you can't stand the temptation or temptation?"
Mingchen stared at Yun Hua speechlessly.
Yun Hua quickly apologized, "Okay, okay, you can withstand the temptation. Can't you do it? I really didn't expect that after so many years, you are still devoted to Yixin. Tsk, it's really rare."
Mingchen rolled his eyes directly, "I asked you to help me, not to let you speak sarcastic words here."
"But how do I help you? Can you propose to you? Could it be that I still want to propose to you?" Yun Hua was speechless.
Mingchen pursed his lips and looked at Yunhua, "Can you help me persuade her to return to China? To put it bluntly, one is in China and the other is abroad. In fact, she doesn't have many job arrangements abroad. She is now famous and famous, and has developed well in Hollywood. At the beginning of this year, she even won the Academy Awards. Although she did not win the award in the end, she is also the first Chinese. I don't understand why she refuses to return to China. China is developing very well now. I think it is much better to be convenient in many places than abroad... I can see that she also yearns for China, but every time she mentions the topic of returning to China, there is no following..."
Yunhua was silent.
Mingchen continued, "It's okay if she has many job arrangements abroad, or if she has anything else, but she has very few job arrangements. She is very cautious now. Sometimes she only shoots a movie a year, and sometimes she may not be able to shoot a movie a year. She doesn't understand advertising or commercial performances. However, this is the norm for Hollywood stars. For example, those Hollywood movie stars with high influence, basically don't accept many advertising endorsements. This is also the difference between Hollywood and the domestic entertainment industry. If the domestic entertainment industry accepts advertising and commercial performances, it means that you are popular, while Hollywood will take advertisements and commercial performances. If you take advertisements and commercial performances, you will be considered to be short of money and think it's relatively low. So you said, why don't she return to China so idle?"
"Maybe she is already used to life abroad. Some people have lived abroad for a long time and are not used to the country. Besides, if she is abroad, she can let go of vacations and other things, and it won't be any more photographed by reporters. But if she is in China, do you think she dares to go out? She doesn't dare to go out on the streets with full armed forces!" Chen Shiying said, it was obvious that she empathized with this kind of thing.
In China, let alone Chen Shiying and Jian Yixin's level, even if a star of 18th tier is recognized by someone after going to the street, it will immediately attract a large number of people to watch and take photos, etc., and soon traffic will be paralyzed, and even more serious incidents will occur.
This is also why celebrities in the domestic entertainment industry like to go abroad for vacation. When they go abroad, they don’t even need to wear masks because no one knows them and cares about them. They can go shopping and date like ordinary people.
Mingchen shook his head, "I thought she was used to life abroad at first, so I didn't want to come back. But after being with her for so many years, can I still not understand her? She is not used to life abroad at all. For example, the most intuitive thing is the food abroad, and she has never been used to it. She basically doesn't go out to eat, and often cooks Chinese food at home. But she doesn't have a good cooking skills and is very upset every time she cooks. Most of the time she asks her assistant to go to a Chinese restaurant to buy her food. Sometimes she can eat happily when I bring it from China, but she still hasn't finished eating."
"Also, sometimes she relaxes and tells me that she wants to eat domestic pancakes, says that the things made abroad are not authentic at all, she also says that she wants to eat bean juice, stinky tofu, rojiamo, and hot pot, etc. Oh, by the way, she also secretly follows many food bloggers, all of which are domestic. She also tells her assistant what is delicious in China and what is deceiving..."
Mingchen said, "I overheard these, but her assistant is from M and doesn't know what she is talking about. Moreover, she celebrates all lunar festivals, Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, Spring Festival, and even Qingming Festival. During the Qingming Festival, she will burn some yellow paper herself in the garden of the villa. I don't know where her yellow paper was bought from, maybe she bought it from some shops on Chinatown."
Yunhua said nothing.
Chapter completed!