The second update is to ask for pink.

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After hearing Daliangzi's wife talk about Yingzi's family affairs for a while, Lian Man'er pulled Zhang Caiyun out of the study. Instead of returning to the front hall to accompany the guests, they walked to the backyard, and each moved a small stool and sat in the middle of the flowers and trees in the yard to bask in the sun.

In early summer, the sun is not so harsh and there is a breeze blowing on your body, which is very comfortable.

"Oh..." Lian Man'er sighed and said the latest chapter.

"Oh..." Zhang Caiyun also sighed.

The two girls looked at each other and laughed.

Zhang Caiyun had a straightforward temper, so he spoke first.

"My mother and I said at home that Zhier's sister is lucky... She suffered when she was a child and brought out her whole life's share. From now on, everything will be smooth."

When Lian Zhier suddenly mentioned that she had a good life, Lian Man'er understood what Zhang Caiyun was thinking. It was the family affairs of Yingzi's family that she heard in the kitchen just now that Zhang Caiyun felt moved, and she might have thought of herself.

Even though he is broad-minded and as stingy as Zhang Caiyun, he still has some uncertainty and panic about the future, that is, marriage, and marriage. And Lian Man'er also has a lot of feelings at this moment.

Being a woman, especially in this era, is really difficult. Look at Yingzi's mother, she has been beaten and scolded by men for most of her life. In front of her man, her status is similar to a domestic dog. Her cringe expression and arched back all tell her suffering. And to this man who beat and scold her, her behavior was like a dog. She seemed to have no resentment. She only had fear and obedience.

Yingzi's mother was at a disadvantage when Yingzi's father and Lianhua'er were tearing each other. When she was kicked down by Yingzi's father on the official road, she got up quietly and continued to follow Yingzi's father.

Lian Man'er thought of the two little puppies she raised. She thought it was not appropriate to compare Yingzi's mother to a dog. At least no one in their family would kick and beat two little puppies. Those two little guys were very favored.

And Yingzi grew up in such a family environment, it is no wonder that she would have developed such a shameless personality.

Yu Yingzi's mother, Lian Man'er, thought of Zhang and Zhao. One of the reasons why the Lian family has a kind reputation in a village of 100 miles is that the men of the Lian family never beat their daughter-in-law. Even if the old man Lian was so angry that he wanted to vomit blood by Zhou, he had never touched a single finger of Zhou.

Zhou scolded his daughter-in-law and treated her harshly in life. But she never beat her.

Even Shouxin and filial, they did not dare to defend Zhang in front of Zhou when they saw Zhang being wronged. However, behind their backs, Shouxin was willing to lower his figure and coax Zhang. The couple was very affectionate. Zhao was also abused by Zhou, but she did not give birth to a son. Shouli never blamed Zhao for it, and the couple lived a very harmonious life.

Like Zhang Qingshan's family, Li's mother-in-law is a good-natured person and never deliberately makes things difficult for his daughter-in-law. There are not many families with harmonious family members, and families like the Lian family are even good families mentioned by everyone.

If Lian Shouren had not sold her to live for life, Zhang was pushed down by Lian Xiuer and almost died, and she had made so much effort to separate the family, then even the old man and Zhou family would not be able to separate the family. Zhang, Zhao family, and their children would continue to live in the shadow of Zhou family. They would also have to "carry on long-term life" for Lian Shouren, who lived without self, dignity, numbness and tragic.

The most tragic thing is that even though he is living such a tragic life, he does not know at all, and he even feels happiness or belonging, and is loyal to the people who constantly exploit them.

For example, Yingzi's mother, and the former Lian Shouxin and Zhang.

Now sitting in my own yard, surrounded by flowers and trees, Lian Man'er, who is comfortable in the sun, feels creepy whenever he thinks of that possibility.

However, even under such social conditions, will women inevitably be unfortunate?

This is not the case either.

"It's up to people. Sister Caiyun, no matter what it is, it depends on the individual." Lian Man'er said slowly, "For example, I don't have a son. Look at my third uncle, and even Ye'er is like a little bitch... Ye'er has grown up in the past two years, better than before. But the big car shop in Taicang, the family where my brother Sanlang married into, is different... They live a life, and know how to plan for themselves. What are you afraid of without a son, and they don't think they are inferior to others. They can raise their daughter as their son. Now that I have recruited my brother Sanlang, I will be in the future for retirement and death, and it will be no worse than those with those with sons."

"And my sister-in-law in the lobby. She only gave birth to a daughter of Niu Niu during the years she got married. She is still the most decent daughter-in-law, and she must not be left behind any good things."

"Yingzi's mother was beaten for life, and her children didn't have good education. Isn't it just because Yingzi's father is not stupid? Look at my maternity, it's not easy to mess with. But when my sister-in-law Xiu'e entered the door, she subjugated my second uncle and my second uncle. She choked with my maternity and never suffered any loss. She lived home several times, and she would do whatever she should do when she came back. Who dares to underestimate her? Now she has a daughter, so she should do what she should do."

"Just like to give an example, it's not that my sister-in-law and sister-in-law Xiu'e and the others did everything right."

"Anyway, it's up to people. If a different person encounters the same thing, then the life they live will be different. The key is that we have to be successful ourselves!" Lian Man'er finally said to Zhang Caiyun.

"Yes, Man'er, you're right." Zhang Caiyun's little sadness was gone when Lian Man'er said this.

Lian Man'er smiled. Her words were not only to enlighten Zhang Caiyun, but also to herself.

In this era, men are superior to women, and they suppress women in all kinds of oppression and injustice, but so what? You have to work hard and make your own decisions and live a wonderful and happy life.

Lian Man'er and Zhang Caiyun sat in the backyard for a while, and Zhang and Wulang came over.

"Come in the house, let's discuss something. Caiyun is here too, and this is not your back." Zhang said.

Zhang Caiyun smiled and said to go to Xiaoqi to play, and ran to the front yard. Zhang, Wulang, Lian Man'er and his son entered the landlord's house and sat on the kang.

"The two families have sent gifts. It's May Day soon. Let's discuss what to return to these two families?" Zhang said, "I really don't want to accept your aunt's gift. She is not ordinary. If we put it on this time, I would have no shame to come again."

"My aunt, I haven't opened the bag anyway, so I'll just take it back as soon as possible." Lian Man'er thought about it and said.

"This is how..." Zhang did not respond immediately. She was gentle and always wanted to give people face in everything.

"It's OK to do this." Goro nodded.

"Then, that's it." Both the eldest son and the most thoughtful little daughter said this, and Zhang nodded.

"That's the Song family?" Zhang asked his son and daughter about their opinions.

Lian Man'er's family had actually communicated with each other for their contacts with the Song family.

It turned out that the Song family had decided on Lianhua'er, but they had very little contact with the Lian family, and even the basic etiquette was extremely perfunctory. Then it would be better to meet the room, let alone to them.

The Song family gave gifts and showed goodwill, but after Shen Liu came to Lian Ji. Then, with the imperial archway, the Song family's gifts became thicker and more frequent. Now, when Wu's doctor got Tong Sheng, the Song family immediately sent a generous gift. From the attitudes of Song Hailong and Lian Huaer, the attitude of the old lady of the Song family towards them can be seen.

The Song family treated them so politely, one because of the Shen family, and the other because of Wulang.

And if they had no need to keep in touch with the Song family just because of Lian Huaer, there was no need to keep in touch with each other. The old lady of the Song family might not have understood this, but she would have to send Lian Huaer to the table every time, which was a matter of courtesy. Of course, there might not be no hope to bring the two families closer by relying on Lian Huaer's blood relationship with their family.

In short, there is no need to be close to the Song family. If the Song family comes, they will just go there.

The mother and the other two discussed the gifts to the Song family and then returned to the front.

The food in the kitchen was cooked, and the table was placed in the front hall, with a table of male guests on the ground and a table of female guests on the kang. After eating and drinking, Song Hailong asked for goodbye first.

Lian Shouxin and Wulang kept it a little, so they gave up and took out the gifts one by one, asked someone to move into the car from the Song family, and asked Song Hailong and Lian Huaer to ask the old lady of the Song family on their behalf, and then sent the person away.

Outside the door, a small episode happened when Song Hailong, Lian Huaer and Lian Lan'er were about to get on the bus.

When they came, Lian Lan'er was in a car with Song Hailong and Lian Hua'er, and followed Aunt Sun and Xiaohong, who were serving, and took another car with gifts. And when they went back, Lian Lan'er naturally thought about the same car as Lian Hua'er.

Then Lian Huaer asked Aunt Sun to invite Lian Lan'er to a car behind him on the grounds that she sprained her ankle.

Lian Man'er saw everything and smiled in her heart.

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On the official road leading to Jinyang County, two carriages of the Song family galloped forward and backward. In the car in front, Lian Huaer's eyes turned on Song Hailong, and then he sighed.

"It's all my fault this time. If you can't be ashamed, you shouldn't agree to my aunt come with us." Lian Huaer said quietly.

Song Hailong snorted and said nothing.

"You haven't seen it yet. My aunt offended my fourth uncle's family and didn't even let us go to the backyard to sit. We were implicated by my aunt..." Lian Huaer continued to say to herself.

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Chapter completed!