Chapter 67 Xia Yueliang's Parenting Classics
The chubby round-faced lady has just become a mother again, so she can be gentle no matter how she looks.
It was clearly making ruthless words, but it felt soft and glutinous, without any deterrence.
Xia Yueliang sat up, leaned against the head of the bed and looked at her, and smiled and said, "Let's stop talking about these disappointing things. I couldn't even catch up with the little nephew's washing three after being troubled by Gu Yannan."
When she mentioned this, Xia Fanshuang's anger suddenly rose.
"What are you going to wash? Although the baby returns safely, it seems like a different person.
He was so well-behaved before, but now he has become very clingy and crying. Except for me and Tamir, others will cry even if they look at him.
I found him a wet nurse again, but he refused to drink a sip. These days I have been forced to drink some sheep milk, and it looks like I have lost weight.
In order to take care of him, Tamir didn't sleep for several days.
Now the father and son are sleeping soundly. I am worried that you will be afraid of disturbing them, so I take the time to come and take a look.
But it’s not a big deal to do this!”
Fengguo’s noble daughter didn’t like to breastfeed herself. Xia Fanshuang received this kind of education since she was a child. Xia Yueliang knew very well that it was difficult to change her concept.
Therefore, she had never thought of persuading Xia Fanshuang to feed the little prince himself. Anyway, the wet nurse had already arranged it and she couldn't be hungry at all.
It’s different now. If you’re just a few days old, drinking breast milk is the best choice.
"Second sister, my little nephew refuses to accept the wet nurse, then haven't you ever thought about feeding him yourself?"
"I... feed myself?" Xia Fanshuang did not think so.
"Isn't it natural for mothers to feed their children? Who can afford to hire a wet nurse for those women from ordinary people?"
Xia Fanshuang felt a little embarrassed: "But I don't seem to have..."
"If you don't feed it, you will definitely be gone. You will go back and ask the kitchen to stew some soup for you and drink more.
If it still doesn't work, then ask the imperial physician to prescribe you. Anyway, you can't starve your nephew."
After ten months of pregnancy, the most important person in Xia Fanshuang's heart is of course his son, and both parents, brothers and husbands have to lean back.
"Then I'll try it when I go back later. It's not a big deal for babies to always drink sheep's milk.
But..."
She looked at Xia Yueliang with her eyes squintingly: "Every time I think something is wrong with you, you will always have all kinds of words to convince me.
But how do you explain this time? A girl who is not yet married knows how to raise a child."
Xia Yueliang smiled and said, "What's so strange about this? There are so many women in the world, not necessarily all talented women who have learned a lot, but there are many women who have been mothers.
There are so many servants in our mansion and Banchi Villa, and people have children every year, and they can even listen to them.
There is a woman in Banchi Villa who gave birth to more than a dozen children. What she likes the most is talking about raising children with others. Do you think she has rich experience?”
Xia Fanshuang has no mother-in-law and her mother Luo is not around, so she is of course interested in raising children.
"Then you can tell me what you are useful according to my situation."
Of course there are many servants in the Taishi Mansion and Banchi Villa, and many children are indeed born every year.
But Xia Yueliang is an unmarried girl after all, so how could they talk about having children in front of her?
Even the woman who gave birth to more than a dozen children was fabricated by her.
The so-called experience comes from her in her previous life, and there is no problem in giving Xia Fanshuang a few words.
"There are many benefits of feeding children in person. Don't be careful that they are still young and ignorant, they are actually emotional.
If you feed your nephew yourself, you will have more opportunities to get along with your mother and son, and he will be particularly close to you in the future."
Xia Fanshuang specifically agrees with this statement.
This is how the noble ladies in Fengguo Capital are. After giving birth to children, they are handed over to the wet nurse for feeding. As a result, when the children grow up, they often have deeper feelings for the wet nurse.
On the contrary, they often respect their own mothers more than their feelings, and are not as intimate as the mother and son of the Baixing family.
She was similar to her mother at the beginning. Although the wet nurse was sent away early, she was more gentle and kind than her mother.
She took such a lot of effort to have a son, and of course she didn't want to be compared by a wet nurse.
"Your words make sense. In the future, I will not only feed my baby myself, but also do his diet, daily life and upbringing."
"Everything needs to be considered as a matter of course. I know your temper very well. I will overdo it if I accidentally do it.
Boys are different from girls, so you can’t keep them too delicate.”
In fact, in her opinion, girls cannot be too delicate or too obedient.
Too cute can easily make people disgusted, and too obedient can easily be bullied.
Xia Fanshuang was a little confused.
"The baby is still young..."
"The child grows very fast. The little nephew is the eldest son of King Yasu. In the future, he will help his father defend his territory and govern the country.
If you make him so cute because of your heartache, how can he stand firm in the future and how can he sit firmly on the throne?"
Xia Fanshuang pouted: "I will just say something casually, and you will immediately come back ten or eight sentences.
Rather than scolding me like this, it is better to teach me how to raise children."
Xia Yueliang said: "As a mother, the most important thing is to take good care of the children's lives.
In addition, you must also strictly demand yourself, read more books and learn more skills, let your children be influenced by them, and be someone who likes to learn.
Besides, you must not be petty in front of your children. A petty woman can easily develop a son who is also petty."
Xia Yueliang also took the initiative and wished he could teach Xia Fanshuang all the experience of parenting in his previous life.
Ah Li is beautiful and smart, but what everyone likes the most is his personality.
If the little nephew can be a generous and refreshing boy like him, it will only benefit him in the future.
Xia Fanshuang frowned. This was too difficult...
She is not a smart person and has a not so generous and refreshing personality. How should she raise her son?
"Three sisters, I actually think it's okay to take care of the baby's life, but it's okay to leave his upbringing to Tamir.
He is also the baby's father, wouldn't it be better to be raised by him personally?"
The summer moon is cool and choked.
In her previous life, Yan Jingshen rarely went home, so the matter of raising children naturally fell on her.
She also tried her best to educate him well.
Even though she had tried her best, Ah Li was excellent enough, but there were still some unsatisfactory things.
A boy's growth cannot be separated from his father. This is what the older generation said, and later she often thought so.
If Yan Jingshen had been with them, mother and son, perhaps she would have lived a more relaxed life, Ali would have been better and more popular.
But when she was teaching parenting, she actually forgot that her nephew had a father and that Li Yuanyu was responsible for his upbringing.
Chapter completed!