Chapter 181 Preparing for the breakup(1/2)
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Although Su An's words are not wrong in theory, they are very harsh to anyone's ears.
Chen Wenjie turned around and climbed up, looking at Su An lying there with her eyes closed and having complicated thoughts.
If it were an ordinary woman, she would be like a cat whose tail was stepped on at this moment, with her hair exploding and bouncing very high.
Everyone has a protective mentality. Even if their parents are clearly wrong, there is no need for an outsider to blame them.
What's more, there is no right or wrong in this matter.
There is no black or white position on this matter, and neither the parents nor Su An are right.
"My parents just don't want me to take on unnecessary pressure when we fall in love.
I can feel your love. Regarding buying a house, I believe I am the happiest woman in the world.
I was very touched, really really touched.
However, I think now is not the time.
No matter from my perspective or from my parents' perspective, I feel that now is not the best time.
If in the future…
If we can get married in the future, it won't be too late for you to buy me a house." After Chen Wenjie said this, she gently pressed her chin on Su An's shoulder.
After Chen Wenjie finished speaking, Su An did not return immediately, and the room suddenly fell into an atmosphere of silence.
After a long time, Su An said slowly: "I will write you a gift agreement and go to the notary office to notarize it.
Even if we don't reach the end in the future, even if I regret it in the future, I don't have any right to ask for it again.
What I give you is not just a house, but the true love behind the house.
Do you think the rejection was a property?
Nowadays, many newlyweds are getting married, and how many of them are forced to break up when they are about to get married.
Among them, money plays a decisive role.
Nowadays, women are demanding that their men must have a new house.
Tracing back to the reason, the reason is simply that the woman is unwilling to live with the man's parents, and at the same time she is unwilling to mention that she wants to have a joint property between husband and wife.
If two people buy a new house and write it in their names, the woman can get half of it in the event of a divorce in the future.
Today, all my efforts cannot be exchanged for your sincere acceptance.
Think about it, if I were still a poor boy now.
You and your parents..." Su An suddenly stopped talking at this point because the next words were hard to hear.
If Su An was still a poor boy, it would be difficult for Chen Wenjie to fall in love with Su An in a short time.
Past history has truly witnessed all this. It was not until Chen Wenjie was in a car accident that her life was about to come to an end, that she realized that she had fallen in love with Su An.
From an emotional perspective alone, the ending is pretty perfect.
At least after being a bitch for so many years, my goddess still gave me the answer I wanted most.
Su An didn't have too many questions about Chen Wenjie, but Chen Wenjie's parents hardly had to think too much.
How could her parents allow such a proud person, a proud graduate of Tsinghua University, and a student studying abroad, to fall in love and get married to a useless technical secondary school student?
This is something that is unthinkable. If such a thing really happens, I am afraid that the ridicule from relatives will last for decades.
It is estimated that every year and festival, as long as relatives meet, there will definitely be a topic they talk about.
"Your daughter is so promising and has been abroad for so many years. Why did she marry a poor technical secondary school student?"
This is a topic that cannot be avoided until death. Chen Wenjie's parents will definitely be very embarrassed.
Although society now emphasizes freedom of love, the prerequisite for this freedom, at least from the perspective of parents, is that they hope that their daughters can find a husband who is well-matched to their family.
Even if this son-in-law has no experience of going abroad, he is at least a graduate of Tsinghua University.
Even if this son-in-law does not have dazzling academic qualifications, he should be a big boss who has proven his worth in society.
If you think about it from another perspective, if Su An were Chen Wenjie's father, it would be difficult to accept that such an outstanding daughter would choose such a husband.
Although Su An's words were not finished, they penetrated deeply into Chen Wenjie's heart like a sharp sword.
Ever since Chen Wenjie started dating Su An, what she was most afraid of and worried about was that she was afraid that people would misunderstand that she was coveting Su An's wealth.
When Su An was a poor boy, although he did not pursue her fiercely, she did express her love.
More importantly, he also used this love to let Su An pretend to be her boyfriend and spend the period before the college entrance examination peacefully.
Not only that, he also caused Su An's mother to lose her job.
At that time, if I had agreed to Su An's pursuit early, instead of waiting until Su An suddenly made money from selling songs, perhaps this suffering would not have existed.
God will not give anyone a chance to come back again. If you fail to make the most correct choice at the most appropriate time, you are destined to bear something that you should not bear.
If any third party were to comment, I am afraid that 99% of people would think that Chen Wenjie was just greedy for wealth.
Otherwise, how could he choose to become Su An's girlfriend at such a coincidental time?
It is precisely because she does not want to be stabbed in the back that Chen Wenjie has the most primitive resistance to accepting this mansion worth 8.7 million yuan.
I also hope that by not accepting this luxury house, I can silence all those who have doubts.
If you accept it calmly like this, wouldn't it be sufficient evidence to all those who question you?
Now, Su An said such words in front of her, which is indeed very hurtful.
However, although the words were particularly unpleasant, Chen Wenjie had to accept a reality.
If Su An is still a poor boy, his parents may...
I'm afraid I won't allow myself to associate with him.
When he announced that he was Su An's girlfriend before the college entrance examination, his parents interrogated him severely.
Moreover, her mother repeatedly warned that Gen Suan would not be allowed to make false claims come true under any circumstances.
Chen Wenjie is not a child. Although some of her parents' words are not so explicit, how can she not understand their parents' true inner thoughts.
The word "dislike the poor and love the rich" may sound a little too ugly, but no parent wants their children to live in poverty.
Every parent wants their children to live a good life, so they make this financial choice.
Chen Wenjie can understand her parents' concerns, but she can also understand Su An's emotions when she said this.
If Su An hadn't become successful, her parents would definitely still disagree.
In the emotional world between the two, Su An is indeed the one who always gives. No matter whether he is poor or rich, he always does better than himself.
Now he spent so much money to buy such a good house, but he only considered the feelings of himself and his family.
He didn't consider any issues for Su An from his standpoint at all.
People say that you need to learn to think from someone else’s perspective.
Now that I think about it, I did not do well enough and was even a little selfish.
Chen Wenjie understood that some of Su An's words were irritating, especially the sentence that if her parents disagreed, it meant that their parents did not love her.
This is a mansion worth RMB 8.7 million, an amount that many people cannot afford in their lifetime.
If the father is worried about being affected, it is not a bad idea to proactively request a transfer.
At least this logic has no problem with Su An's position.
As a daughter, asking her father to sacrifice so much for her is simply impossible.
At this time, Chen Wenjie was in a dilemma. Falling in love would be so stressful. This was something she had never thought of before.
We all think that falling in love is a sweet thing, but why can we feel so breathless and suffocating?
"I don't want you to write any gift agreement, nor do I want you to have it notarized.
The house...I took the house.
I..." Chen Wenjie had a lot to say, but her mind was very confused.
After a brief hesitation, Chen Wenjie reorganized his words.
"It was my first time falling in love. I had no previous experience and no one taught me how to be a good girlfriend.
Moreover, the love relationship between us goes far beyond my understanding of love.
I never thought you would do so much for me.
Buying a house and settling in Tongzhou is already unaffordable for me.
Now, give me such a big house..." At this point, Chen Wenjie's voice suddenly had a strong crying tone.
Accompanying this cry were Chen Wenjie's tears.
Listening to the change in the tone of voice around her, Su An opened her eyes and turned to look at Chen Wenjie beside her.
Chen Wenjie, who was feeling a little out of control, suddenly couldn't help but said when she saw Su An's concerned eyes, "Husband, I love you!"
To be continued...