183 [Breakout and Re-promise](1/2)
A more interesting phenomenon is that in China in the 21st century, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the main outbreak of family conflicts.
It is also a problem that has troubled thousands of families.
Judging from Chen Yang's two-life experience in his past and present life, he has hardly encountered several families where the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are absolutely eliminated and harmonious. Most of the families have conflicts, and the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in some families are very sharp. Once at the point where they never interact with each other and completely cut off their relationship.
And the root cause is that there are many different opinions. If the mother-in-law has a good idea, the daughter-in-law has a good idea.
It is difficult to figure out which one is right and which one is wrong.
However, judging from my mother's attitude, this seems to be the case in their family in the future.
From Chen Yang's perspective, his mother's love for Jiang Yibai is even less than her love for her sister Chen Xue.
On the other hand, Jiang Yibai's respect for his mother is also from the bottom of his heart and obvious to all.
This made Chen Yang understand a truth.
Perhaps, there is no absolutely irreconcilable contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this world.
Only when neither the mother-in-law nor the daughter-in-law will heal this conflict, will the final deterioration result.
"Since you are planning to get married at the end of the year, do you have any plans to buy a house? Or if we still live together after getting married, then two days will be summer vacation, and this year's renovation seems to be a must."
Father Chen Deren mentioned it.
If it were the past, of course he hoped that Chen Yang would live with the old couple, and the fundamental purpose was to save marriage costs. After all, the family was very poor at that time and he was unable to buy another house for Chen Yang to get married.
But now it’s different. On the one hand, the family has no foreign debt and the situation is getting better and better. On the other hand, Chen Yang is no longer the same as before, and is far from the repairman he used to be.
Even from Chen Yang's perspective, Chen Deren felt that Chen Yang could buy a new house elsewhere when he got married.
Of course, although he thought so, he still hoped that Chen Yang could live with the old couple in his heart.
After all, no parent in the world is unwilling to live with their children.
"Just get married at home. Just get married. There is no need to mobilize so many people. Moreover, with Jiang Yibai's family background, his parents might just give us a few houses. Haha."
Chen Yang replied with a smile.
Getting married at the end of the year is also the decision he just made.
In fact, Chen Yang never seriously considered some of the specific steps that might be involved in regards to marriage.
For example, buying a house.
I am still in a state of confusion and vagueness about many things or many links.
Of course, the reason why Chen Yang has this current attitude may also be related to the fact that he got married once in his previous life.
It’s a very simple truth. When you have been to the Peach Blossom Land once, the curiosity and desire deep in your heart will become stronger.
Of course, from Jiang Yibai's perspective, this is extremely unfair.
It is destined that Chen Yang will not tell Jiang Yibai this. He will consider everything clearly and plan as much as possible in the next six months.
Even if it is just for Jiang Yibai's happiness, Chen Yang will consider this matter as a top priority.
"You guy thinks beautifully, you marry a wife, and it's not the daughter of the Liu family."
Chen Deren gave Chen Yang a blank look, and he felt that Chen Yang was a little whimsical.
After all, in Haishi, there is no saying that the woman will give her dowry.
"If you want to buy it, buy it. Anyway, our family can afford a house now. Are you still in a real estate business? It should be no problem to leave a good house for yourself, right?"
Chen Deren hopes that Chen Yang can live with their old couple after getting married. Such a family is harmonious and lively. From beginning to end, no one will feel deserted.
But as a veteran, he felt that this was not realistic.
Even if there is no such thing as a conflict between Jiang Yibai and his wife, they are not from the same era after all. It is inevitable that there are some generation gaps in the process of getting along.
And it is not convenient at some point. The pace of life of young people is different from that of older people, and they need their own space.
So I also feel that Chen Yang should buy another house for his marriage.
Chen Deren thought a lot, and he even thought about the issue of raising children after marriage.
Every Monday to Friday weekdays, Chen Yang and Jiang Yibai took their children to live at their homes to watch the competition. On Saturday and Sunday, they drove back to the old house together, and everyone happily spent the weekend together.
Chen Deren thinks this kind of scene is quite happy, and it is also a scene he has seen in TV series many times.
"Your dad is right. Even if our house needs to be renovated in two days, the area is still limited. Moreover, it is a separate yard, and it is not as convenient and clean as the community unit building. If you have money, just buy one for yourself."
Liang Yumei also spoke.
He mainly considers the issue from the perspective of his daughter-in-law Jiang Yibai.
Before getting married, Jiang Yibai lived in a luxurious villa with very superior conditions.
After getting married, even if the living conditions have decreased, they cannot drop too much.
And even if the old house where the Chen family lives is to be renovated or renovated, it is impossible to install too expensive things and materials.
"Let's talk about it in two days."
Chen Yang nodded in response to his parents' instructions. As his mother said, he is now engaged in a real estate business, and it is indeed very convenient if he wants to buy a house.
You can buy it anytime, as long as he is willing to buy it.
But Chen Yang felt that once he decided to buy a house, he should discuss it with Jiang Yibai and ask the latter what kind of decoration style he liked.
After all, the mistress of the new house will be Jiang Yibai in the future
Compared with buying a house, Chen Yang is now having another headache.
That is, he once promised Jiang Yibai that he would buy every luxury car when he got married in the future.
The real luxury car is worth millions or even tens of millions.
This goal was originally possible in a few years.
But now, he suddenly decided to get married at the end of the year. If he still wants to achieve this goal, it seems unlikely now.
Chen Yang didn't want to break his promise in this matter, so he was crazy. How should this matter be handled is more appropriate.
Of course, he knew that Jiang Yibai was not the kind of woman who was unhappy without a luxury car. Perhaps she did not take the promise Chen Yang had made in the heart, and now she might have forgotten it.
But Chen Yang cannot pretend that nothing has happened because of this. He has to be responsible for his promise.
That night, Chen Yang returned home, lay on the bed and called Jiang Yibai.
On the phone, he explained to Jiang Yibai what he talked to his parents this afternoon.
"Look at how beautiful you think, when did I say I would marry you?"
On the other end of the phone.
Jiang Yibai's tone was full of excitement, but she was still very arrogant and said something opposite to the meaning in her heart.
"What do you mean? If you don't want to marry me, who else do you want to marry? I want to see who else dares to marry you in the entire Haicheng except me, Chen Yang?"
If you have any more, you need a supporting actor.
Chen Yang also said deliberately.
"Look at you, but those who don't know think you are the boss of Haishi?"
The two of them teased each other for a while, and then they immediately talked about the main business.
"I think we should own another house of our own. Although I also want to live with my future in-laws, sometimes it is really not convenient for two generations to get entangled together."
Regarding buying a house, Jiang Yibai was very straightforward and directly explained his meaning.
"Of course, you don't have to worry about the money. I'll let my dad pay it."
What is the elbow turning out before getting married?
Chen Yang has seen it now.
This girl was very reasonable. Those who didn't know thought that Liu Rufang and his wife owed her.
"How can you be so embarrassed?"
Before Chen Yang could say half of it, he couldn't help but laugh first.
If he guessed correctly, when he married Jiang Yibai at the end of the year, Liu Rufang would be much more willing than buying a house.
After all, he is a woman with a net worth of over 100 million. He only has two daughters. If he doesn't express his feelings well when his daughter gets married, what is the meaning of lifelong struggle?
Not to mention that people like Liu Rufang are very face-consuming people. When their daughter gets married, they cannot fail to express their feelings.
"The house matter is easy to solve. With my strength, we can buy the house smoothly in the entire Haishi. The key now is the luxury car I promised to buy for you before. If we get married at the end of the year, it may be a bit difficult."
Chen Yang took the initiative to mention what he had promised Jiang Yibai before.
According to his plan, he and Jiang Yibai had to get married two years later, and as long as they were given a surplus of one or two years. Not to mention a luxury car worth hundreds of millions of dollars, even if they doubled, he was sure to afford it.
But now the time has suddenly gotten so much ahead. Even if he gets married at the end of this year, he made this decision. It was very funny. He caught himself off guard.
"You really take this matter seriously. I have no interest in luxury cars. If you really feel sorry for it, then you will owe you credit first. When you really have money in the future, it will not be too late to buy it."
Jiang Yibai chuckled on the other end of the phone.
She laughed at Chen Yang who still remembered her original promise, and also laughed at Chen Yang who took his original promise so seriously.
To be continued...