"Okay, stop asking, grandma." Ning Yunxi walked over to give the old man a walk, otherwise the old man would feel that the child was really unreasonable and had to make a fuss.

Grandma Ning turned around and asked her granddaughter: "What did you think this is going on?"

Ning Yunxi sat down and whispered to his grandmother: "Grandma, you and grandpa, don't give them something when the child cries, do you know?"

Grandma Ning opened her mouth: Is it the reason for herself and the old man?

Who doesn’t know that Grandpa Ning’s grandma Ning’s heart is the softest. When the child cries, the two old people are willing to cut off their own flesh for the child. This can be seen from the last time the two old people came here to visit relatives. Grandpa Meng and Grandpa Meng could tolerate Ning Yunxi’s strict discipline on his son, but Grandpa Ning felt sorry for the child so much that he couldn’t accept it.

"A child of Honghong's age has not achieved the ability to think independently as an adult. Her habits are all developed by parents' teachings or feedback from parents' unconscious habits. You can refer to the way to raise a dog. If the dog barks at you twice, you will feel sorry for the dog. If you give it two pieces of meat, the dog will stop barking. Over time, the dog develops such a functional reflex, and if you bark, you will eat meat. So, if you ask her why she cries now, she cannot answer this question."

After hearing what her granddaughter said, Grandma Ning was surprised: "How could she be a dog?"

"I'm just an example. The child is definitely not a dog, but a child of this age will definitely not be able to understand what adults say. Education is like this. If a child does good deeds, the adults praise her. She will continue to do this good deeds in the future. If she does bad deeds, don't she criticize them the same way. Shouldn't the child prevent her child from doing the same bad deeds?" Ning Yunxi carefully guided her grandmother to pay attention to raising children.

Listening to the granddaughter's words, Grandma Ning felt it made sense, but: "I always raised you like this at that time.

, why don't you be like her?"

"Grandma, don't you know the reason?" Ning Yunxi looked at Qiaoqiao, who was holding in Grandma Ning's hand with a deep look.

When raising Ning Yunxi, Grandpa Ning only raised Ning Yunxi, and all her love was concentrated on one person. Honghong was different, and a sick sister came to compete for favor. If she did not win over Grandpa Ning's attention to her, it would mean that she was abandoned by Grandpa Ning again.

So don’t say that this child is not good, it’s just that this child is exercising an instinctive survival response.

"Oh," Grandma Ning finally figured out what her granddaughter said, and sighed. She and her old man had raised so long, but they didn't even think about the root of these problems.

I can only say: "Yunxi, it is right to send you to college."

Only with education and knowledge can I not raise children blindly. As a result, I didn’t know why the child suddenly cried for a long time, which made me feel bad. Grandma Meng was always next to her. Tg, and after hearing this, I had a question: "It’s the same thing that she cries. What are you talking about Leilei and Chencheng?

"Grandma." Ning Yunxi turned around and explained to the other grandma, "They felt what she wanted to do from Honghong. Every child would have the mentality of competing for favor. Because children were the most insecure when they were young, they would pay great attention to the attitude of adults towards their every move. Once adults favored another child, they would feel abandoned and were very scared, so they made a fuss to win the attention of adults again. This is the instinct of natural survival."

"What should I do?"

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Good night 16, dear
Chapter completed!