I'm in a particularly bad mood today, or I can't even describe it as bad.

If you can't continue writing, feel free to listen to me pour out my frustrations when you have time. Book friends who are not interested can just click X.

Let me talk about the background first: I am from a single-parent family. In 1993, when I was eight years old, my biological father achieved a millionaire achievement. Then he divorced my mother and married a new wife who was ten years younger than him - me.

My mother was stupid at the time and didn't ask for anything, so she took me to the village and lived on the monthly living expenses and odd jobs.

At the end of 1996 or in the spring of 1997, my own father got into a serious life-threatening lawsuit because of the song and dance hall he opened. The decoration company couldn't continue to operate because of the damage. He took the remaining 800,000 yuan to go out to do the lumber business.

He was defrauded of all his savings by his comrades, divorced again, and began a wandering life.

I came back for two years, used the gimmick of three marriages to get some money to start a small business, and finally lost all my money and left for the south again, finally settling down in Ningbo for some unknown reason.

That seemed to be at the end of 2001.

Then, I saw him twice in the past 20 years, once when he came back to apply for an ID card, and once when my grandma died - and then he didn't come back when my grandpa died.

Our contact was intermittent. In 2021, he changed his mobile phone number and didn't tell me, so I couldn't contact him. At that time, I wanted to apply for a pension insurance in the village for him, but I asked all my relatives, but they couldn't.

I know his new phone number - I didn't add him on WeChat before, and he didn't add his relatives on WeChat either.

Then today, I got back in touch with my biological father, whom I had lost contact with for 2 and a half years.

He said that he was unemployed outside and couldn't survive. He said that he wanted to go back to his hometown, but he couldn't bear to ask my uncle and aunt for help. I asked them if they could help find a suitable job...

How can I ask this?

He can't lose face, how can I lose face?

In the end, I sent him 2,000 yuan and paid him 7,500 yuan in rural pension. [The monthly payment is less than 190 yuan, which is better than nothing. When he comes back, I will ask him to look for veterans' subsidies. It can add up to

Three hundred and five hundred a month, maybe], and then ask him to contact my uncle and my aunt - or try to find another job there.

Alas~

More than ten years ago, I predicted that he would end up in poverty sooner or later. At that time, I advised him to either come back early and find a job, or save money there - he would not pay for pension insurance, nor would he save money.

What he said was: "Don't worry, I won't be a drag on you even if I die outside."

The results of it?

I am 61 years old and penniless. After losing my job, I have trouble even eating. I rely on borrowing money to live. I want to go back to my hometown, but I still can’t bear to ask my relatives for help...

I don't know what to do when he comes back. I can barely live in a place with him, but it's very awkward. My wife is not willing to live with him. After all, she has only seen him once in so many years. My mother has always been in charge of us.

The child was more of a stranger to him than a stranger - when he came back last time, his daughter was only one year old.

My mother later remarried [when I was nineteen years old]. The two of them were workmates. Both husband and wife had pensions. We got along very well with them over the years. My stepfather only has a daughter who is still in Guangzhou.

People will probably murmur when he comes back.

Alas~

Sorry, I'm used to getting by. I've always been lazy and have no ambition. I just need to eat, drink and spend enough money.

Now that I think about it, I should have worked harder to earn more money to buy another house. Then I would move out and live there by myself, leaving the small courtyard in the urban village left by my grandfather to him. He would rent out half of it and find a street sweeper.

The job of janitor is enough for daily expenses.

It would be great if I didn’t change my car in June. With this extra 120,000 yuan, I can collect 30% to 40% down payment [zero down payment or 10% to 20% is too heavy a burden, I dare not do it] - I originally thought it was a small waste

Local housing prices have only dropped but not risen. I wanted to wait another three to five years to lower the loan ratio, so I changed my car first. After all, I have been driving QQ for ten years, and my children are getting older and I can’t afford it.

Now I can only hope that he will find a new job there and let me save up money to buy a house and move out in another two years.

If you come back now...

Sometimes I want to be a villain like Jiao Shun, just take advantage and not suffer any losses, and make fun of me as much as I want - but I just can't do it!

As everyone knows, this book has entered the final stage of finishing, and it is already too late to work harder.

Next book, I must work hard and save money as soon as possible to buy a second-hand house in Hengshui City - just in time to get my daughter a household registration in the main urban area of ​​Hengshui, otherwise she will have to go to a rubbish school in the county in two years [Hengshui All Rights Reserved]

Rank last among dozens of high schools in cities and counties], or go to high-priced private high schools [The problem is that Hengshui’s private high schools have been changing recently, which is very confusing].

Work hard, work hard, work hard!
Chapter completed!