Chapter 790 She is not sick, it is you who is sick
Chapter 790: She is not sick, it is you who is sick
"However, when answering my third question, you lost the wit and calmness you should have and seemed at a loss. After my analysis and questioning, you broke the bottom line of the principle of never lying without lying," Xin Quji said calmly but bloody words: "You know the best about what kind of feelings do you have for Yuanyuan. You have both siblings and other feelings other than family affection, but you dare not admit the existence of this feeling, so you bear a heavy psychological burden, feel guilty and panic - this is my diagnosis. When you feel that you have a secret that cannot be spoken to by others in your heart and feel nervous or stressed about it, you have become a patient."
Xin Quji paused and asked, "I still remember before eating, I asked Shu Tong, saying, 'You have done everything I taught you on the phone a few times, right?"
I didn't know if there was sweat on my face, but subconsciously wiped my cheeks with the back of my hand, "Remember, she said she kept doing what you taught her..."
"I asked again, 'What's the result? Is it the same as what I said?'..."
“She said ‘exactly the same’” I said, “What did you ask her to do?”
"What I asked her to do is very simple. Assuming that a person with psychological problems is, she will call or text messages every day to ask you about your brother and sister's situation, and see if your reaction and reply will be the same as what I guess..." Xin Quji stared at my eyes with a burning look, and then accurately captured the timidity I tried to escape after I realized it. "Yes, it's this reaction - for this week, she has been gossiping about your brother and sister's relationship every day without any tactfulness, asking you questions like 'Does Yuanyuan have a love complex' and 'What if you plan to do', but you either silence and avoid it or change the topic, and have never answered it positively. This is a manifestation of guilt or nervousness."
It turns out that Shu Tong’s gossip about me every day is not entirely because she is curious about it. It is also what Xin Quji told me...
I tried to keep my superficial calm and said, "I came to consult my sister's problem, but you said I was mentally ill. This seems to be a serious off-topic, right?"
"For you, yes, to me, no," Xin Quji shook the paper fan calmly and said with a smile: "I said that from the beginning, I thought you were my patient. Although there are not many signs yet, if you leave it alone, I think the possibility of you suffering from depression in the future will be 100% - rejecting your sister and denying that you are a girl is equivalent to violating your true feelings. He has already suffered a lot of psychological pressure. The guilty mentality that hurts her will continue to torture you. After rejecting her, there are at least two changes that you are unlikely to accept. First, the way you get along with each other will inevitably change, for example, she will no longer stick to her.
You no longer show dependence on you, and the usual way of getting along will completely disappear. Can you accept it? This change must be chain and extended. If she avoids you, she will avoid the people around you, especially your girlfriend, your future family, and her attitude towards you will change, which will definitely cause your family to be sensitive, etc. These are all changes that will have a direct impact on your life, because you are not an ordinary couple, but relatives who have lived together for ten years as family members. "If you are together, you will go if you don't get along, you will be strangers." "Love is not in friendship." This kind of happy thing cannot happen to you because "family"
The shackles of the "family" will always be bound to you and cannot be free for a lifetime. Do you have the awareness of carrying it for a lifetime? The second change is the psychological change of fate. The setbacks of emotions are unacceptable for anyone in a short period of time. However, she still has to face the person who likes her for ten years every day but refuses to accept her feelings. A sixteen-year-old girl who is not mature enough in age and psychology, has just entered adolescence and is full of expectations and hopes for love and the future. The feelings that have been suppressed in her heart for ten years are so easily denied in the moment of venting... If you were her, can you bear it? It would not be too much to say that this is a doomsday destruction for her?
Or give up on yourself, no longer believe in love, or force your face to smile, just like you, pretend to be a brother and sister every day, but suffer in your heart, or develop into the best result, she accepts the reality of emotional frustration and grows up because of this... But her forgetting of this relationship means that you must hide the true feelings in your heart for the rest of your life, watch her fall in love, watch her get married, watch her have children... As a doctor, I can't control your last choice. I am just a bystander, don't care whether you accept her feelings or use a kind lie to persuade her to give up this relationship, but I will never want you to deceive yourself and torture yourself into a patient."
"I torture myself?"
"Yes, isn't it a torture to bear all the psychological pressure alone, and tolerate negative emotions such as tension, anxiety, depression, distress, irritability, sorrow and other negative emotions, blocking the channels for venting?" Xin Quji said: "Depression is the second largest disease in the world that has caused a heavy burden to humans. The incidence is so high that one depression patient will appear in every seven adults..."
"You said that the possibility of my depression in the future may be 100%, proving that I am not yet..."
Xin Quji was stunned, Xuan'er smiled and said, "Yes, you are not yet - as long as you are willing to face your true feelings honestly, and then..." Speaking of this, he paused a moment, turned to Shu Tong who was silent for a while, and smiled and said, "It doesn't take too much, one is enough. Go and find a friend who is willing to listen to, share your feelings with you, and comfort you. Haha, isn't there one in front of you?"
He pointed to Shu Tong?
"It doesn't matter what I will do in the future..." I have given up arguments, or rather, quibbling. All I care about most from beginning to end is one thing, "Where is my sister? Can you cure her mental illness?"
"No--" Xin Quji's simply stunned me, and also made Shu Tong and Xiao Ge stunned. Then he frowned and asked, "She is different from you. She is not sick. How can I treat it?"
That stinky girl isn't sick?
My brows stood up...
How could she fall in love with me when she is not sick? How could she write such a stingy and harmonious way that is said to be a novel but it is more like a diary? How could she stand on the street on a rainy night, crying and saying seriously to her brother, "I love you", and then tell her brother, "Love is deep love, liking is faint love." Where did she get this kind of poetry without illness?
She is not sick, where did my illness come from?
I am a sister-controlled person! But isn't she a brother-controlled person?! Why do she hate Liusu so much, resist Murphy, and reject Ziyuan?!
I have been forcing myself to remain calm, largely because of Chu Yuan's out of control in emotional catharsis. But in the end, I became a patient, who did not lose control. The stinky girl who said, "Be your sister in the future," but would even become a crazy person because she covered Murphy's photo on her phone and did not have any psychological problems?
Shu Tong and I looked at Xin Quji with the same expression. This guy is indeed a parallel psychologist...
The little princess who blindly trusted him could not help but question: "Xiao Yuanyuan is different from Brother Chu?"
"Different," Xin Quji reached out to wipe off the ice cream on the corner of Princess' mouth, then put his fingers into his mouth, and explained with a loving look: "Didn't I just say it? His condition is that he dare not admit that he is a sister-controlled, not that he is a sister-controlled, but what about Xiao Yuanyuan? She is indeed a very serious brother-controlled, but does she not admit it?"
"This is the problem!"
"This is the problem!"
"This is the problem!"
The three of us looked at each other, but we didn't expect to speak in unison, but it was enough to show our surprise and dissatisfaction with Xin Quji's amateur diagnosis!
A girl who tells others loudly is a girl with a serious love complex and has no psychological problems. Anyone who hears this will find it incredible, right?!
The little princess said laughing and crying: "Xiao Yuanyuan likes her brother!"
Chapter completed!