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Chapter 2737 Disputes with no specific conclusion

Someone quickly left a message below. A woman named the feminist struggler wrote under Li Yifei's article: "Veteran, I am a rational woman. I think what you said makes sense. And what I want to say is that the woman you hung up is not a standard feminist. She is an egoist. Her words and actions are all contrary to the spirit of feminist rights. We will also criticize such people. You also said that the country has developed too fast, which leads to material and spiritual injustice.

All, so we should promote some ideological progress and respect women. This is necessary. As for the problems of bride price, house and car you pointed out, I want to say that I did not do such things. When I got married with my husband, I had nothing. The two of them saved up a down payment for two years. After ten years, they now have a house in the capital. I believe that the two of them are in love with each other and work hard and work hard for the future. Then life will not be too bad!”

This feminist comment was liked by many people, and it was quickly pushed up and commented by many people.

Another male left a message saying, "I don't know where these prejudices come from. On our side, yes, I am from Northeast China, and the girls here are so awesome. Not to mention after marriage, I always listen to my girlfriend before marriage. I give my girlfriend the money I earned after marriage. She decides everything. We call this wife loving her wife, let alone doing it. I can't scold you normally. Now that our child is three years old, my mother and her mother have come to take care of her. This is the old man who helps us. They have no obligation to take care of the children. My wife and I are very grateful to the elderly on both sides. I don't know

If this is not considered respect for women, then what does it count? There are natural physiological differences between men and women. Men have men’s growth and women have women’s growth. Why do we have to advocate equality? It is inherently unequal. Not to mention men and women, there is no absolute equality in society. I think we just be normal people and find a normal person. The buddies around me are like this. No one doesn’t love their wives. This is not decades ago. Now we are all graduates from college and have culture and thoughts. How can we still do things like our ancestors and parents?”

This person was also praised, and it reached more than 10,000 in a short period of time. Li Yifei also took a look. Many of them still agree with him. Because the Li family is so unique, it cannot be used as an example. However, there are many examples in life. Generally speaking, if you fall in love with a normal person, and marry a normal person, your life will not be messy, so everyone just needs to be a normal person. Why bother to be a sensationalist? A real power fighter will not talk about these things all day long. Most of the morality is used to restrain oneself, not others. He also praised the two of them separately.

Similarly, I have seen a lot of abuse. Li Yifei did not leave these abuses to Chu Xiaoyao to investigate. These are two things. Different people have different understandings of such sensitive incidents, and their own opinions are completely normal, so there is no need to curse people. If they have different opinions, then they should hold different opinions.

A person left a message saying: "A veteran has such a background and growth, it is actually not easy to be able to say these things. Think about it, what is even more admirable is that he can take out this matter and say it for everyone to discuss it. This is even more difficult. You should know that this is a big V with more than 10 million fans, equivalent to a public figure, so how difficult it is to say it is. I am a woman, not beautiful, an ordinary person, and there are inconveniences in life and convenience. I can't be because of it.

When you encounter inconvenience, you should resent others. It is not that I am weak. I am justified. I am weak. First of all, I have to think about why I am so weak. I have a way to change and strengthen myself, instead of putting my hands on my waist and calling me a woman to the people around you, you should give in to me. I am a weak person. People with this kind of thinking are terrible. They or they have already blurred the right and wrong of many things. If such a person is not an egoist, then what kind of person is it?”

There are also some people who have shown evidence of what is happening around them, and many of them are also sighing. Overall, most people are still normal. They insist that since they want power, they must pay their obligations first. Many men are also worried about the accounts that Li Yifei has calculated, because that is the biggest reality.

A man said, "Many women say that they want equal rights with men and fight for their own rights. However, when getting married, they turn themselves into weak people, or even the party who is persecuted by marriage, so they want houses, cars, signatures, brides, and many things. What kind of people are like power fighters? Isn't this the most direct egoist? Isn't this the most direct egoist? Isn't I the man, and from my perspective, I am like a veteran. Because I am a man, I am willing to make more money and work harder to make my wife and children live a more comfortable life. This is what I have done for this family. I also hope that my future wife can see these, at least feel sorry for me, right, is this requirement too much? Is this disrespectful to women?"

Another man said: "Human nature is evil. Whether it is a man or a woman, it is acquired education and all aspects of constraints, making us like normal people. So I think it is more important to work hard to improve ourselves. The so-called building a sycamore tree and attracting the phoenix. The vast majority of male compatriots, of course, also include female friends. If you think that your partner does not meet the standards, then you better examine yourself. Is it the same? It is said that if you are a family member, you don't enter the family, but you are not enough, but you ask the other party for whatever. This is also unfair. Isn't there a saying in "Dream of Red Mansions" that your heart is higher than the sky and your life is thinner than paper. If a man or a woman falls to this point, it will be quite miserable. In the end, hard work may not be successful, but if you don't work hard, ordinary people want to succeed, just like a frog in the well lying at the bottom of a well and longing for a white swan to fall from the sky. Even if it can fall, aren't you afraid of being smashed to death?"

Li Yifei didn't expect that his Weibo post was even more popular than the previous secretly filming incident, which actually caused widespread discussion. When everyone had dinner together in the evening, even several women mentioned this matter. They usually go online, watch entertainment news, watch cute animal pets, watch funny videos, and so on. Naturally, they also saw this discussion and increased the popularity.

In Su Mengxin's words: "After the end of the matriarchal clan, China entered a patriarchal society, or a husband's society, which is inevitable, because the problem of fertility is no longer the biggest test of survival. Then, survival and expanding the territory, food is the test, and men have become the leader in this area because of their natural physical advantages. Over the years, China has undergone great changes. We should see clearly that these changes are in a good direction. The most fundamental reason for the change is that culture, education from a young age, reading more books, and broader careers will create different views on the same thing. When you go to a forum with relatively high cultural level, you will find that the views of rights and obligations of men and women above seem to be more appropriate, while ordinary people will not think too much about this aspect, but it does not mean that they do not respect women, or they do so. Such a stereotyped consciousness is simply a manifestation of ignorance!"

"That's right, the girls in our school are simply... men have worked hard to catch up, so it's really unnecessary to say that there is patriarchal rights and feminism. Our family never mentions this matter. Isn't my husband also very nice to us?" Chu Xiaoyao said while gnawing on a piece of meat and competing with it.

"In fact, it is a good thing to cause discussion. This house has crushed many families. Can you save a million in your entire life? Especially ordinary families in China only have the habit of savings, but not the habit of investing. With the interest rate of the bank, even if there is one million, you can't get much interest, and you can't even keep up with the speed of inflation. When the child gets married, he suddenly disappears. With pension insurance and retirement wages, it's okay. If not, it's simply a matter of nowhere to be old. If the son and daughter-in-law are like that, and there is still a situation in their later years, and if the children can't count on it, don't you say this is to ruin their hope in advance!" The person who spoke was Su Yiyi. Some of her relatives in her family have such a thing. Recently, it's even a quarrel.

She came here because her relative's son got married and spent money on his continued life. The old couple had no ability to survive. You said that they would go out to work and be in their sixties. Where would they want it? Especially since the house was gone, they sold it and raised money to buy a wedding house for their son. The daughter-in-law agreed to live with her parents. After getting married, she changed her mind and drove the old couple out. She could only rent a house temporarily. The son was not capable and could not afford the money. The old couple had no choice but to ask her father to come. The old man had no choice. You said that you would give money directly. The old couple had no ability to survive. How much money could they give? Besides, if you give them money, it would probably end up falling into the hands of their son, so this kind of thing was finally asked to Su Yiyi.

She has so many feelings, because such things never happen in the Li family. This is her luck, but many people will be unfortunate.
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