Chapter 3488 Research on Cats and Dogs (Thirty-six)

The issue of intimate relationship between two people has been long-lasting because there are so many things to discuss in this. It can be said that all the knowledge of psychology and sociology may not be able to summarize every situation.

But a noteworthy rule is that there must be a distinction between the emotional relationship between two people alone. One person is strong, one person is weak. Either the east wind overwhelms the west wind or the west wind overwhelms the east wind.

Although many people have long understood this rule and think they can be the strongest man between the two, in fact, they still always become the weaker side after all the tricks.

Whether you search on the Internet or read some emotional books, you can see that many people are teaching the way to become a strong party. Because there are so many benefits to being a strong person.

The situation is under control and you can do whatever you want. The other party is always inseparable from you, and you also have enough means to ensure that the other party is loyal.

But in fact, these methods are not that easy to use. Some tricks, without the support of core forces, will be just rootless duckweed and will only make people laugh.

The key to strong and weak relationships in relationships is actually the ability to control emotions. To put it bluntly, people who do not love enough can always win.

An emotional person can never become the strongest party in an emotional relationship. The richer the relationship, the stronger the suppression will be.

On the contrary, the more you are withdrawn, the more indifferent and ruthless you are, the more you can take the initiative in your emotional relationship.

However, whether it is emotional and whether it is cold and ruthless enough is mostly natural and cannot be changed by skills.

If you look at the principle in depth, you can also sum it up in one sentence. Just as the Injustice Superman controlled by Charles said, "measurement" is a very important part.

Everyone has a scale in their heart. Your evaluation of someone determines your attitude towards him.

If a person hates you, but you are profitable to him, then maybe you can greet him with a smile. If a person has no disputes between you, but you like to get along with him, you can also face him with a happy mood.

If you reveal it too clearly, people will summarize the rules from it. Do you like a certain person? Am I the kind of person you like? How can I do to make you like or dislike? These can be answered through observation.

This will make people understand the relationship with you, make people feel safe, and make people emotionally stable.

However, some people don’t do this. They will deliberately hide their own standards for measuring others.

He seemed to greet some people with a smile, but quietly harmed their interests; he seemed to be indifferent to some people, but he was secretly supporting them.

It sounds like a mental illness, as if the left brain and the right brain are in conflict, and the left hand and the right hand are also fighting.

But this is not the case in many cases. They do this to prevent others from seeing through them and not letting others know their preferences and dislikes.

When you don’t know what kind of person he likes, you can’t give it to his preferences. Then when you need to please him, you are helpless and can only bump into him like a headless fly.

People like to be pleased, what's the point of doing this?

In fact, this can always take the initiative between the emotional relationship between two people.

Because you don’t know what his measurement standard is, you don’t know what position you are in his heart. In order to figure out the standards and to verify your status, you will experiment repeatedly.

The more you don’t understand, the more curious you become. Curiosity kills the cat.

Here we have to mention "focus theory". The more you pay attention to someone, the greater the impact he will have on you, and the easier it will be to manipulate and control you.

They hide their own measurement standards, essentially attracting attention, allowing people to actively explore him and pay attention to him, so as to achieve the goal of manipulating others.

In a simple emotional relationship, you can choose to not understand it, define this person as "a weird personality" and then leave.

But once interests are involved, things will become a hundred times more complicated. Even non-forced social relations like the family are not so easy to break free, let alone more complicated interests disputes.

Once you meet such a person, you have to spend a lot of energy to understand him during the process of getting along with him, and then you will inevitably be manipulated and consumed in the process.

There is probably only one explanation method, that is, if you can't beat it, you can join.

Making yourself weird can be called a hedgehog war technique. Hedgehogs are not very powerful animals, but they can at least breathe before being eaten than ostrichs with their heads buried in the sand.

But unfortunately, most people can't even do this. As the saying goes, emotional self-control is mostly born. Some people are too emotional and cannot show their emotions without showing their emotions. Then they can only learn from their mistakes after they have made mistakes.

In most of the relationship between Superman and Batman, Batman is the one that is relatively difficult to understand. Superman also spent a lot of energy to explore Batman.

Superman is not because he has poor emotional self-control, but because he is too curious. He often walks by the river, so he doesn’t have to wear his shoes. If he walks too much at night, he will always meet Batman.

In the relationship between Injustice Superman and Injustice Batman, Batman made a fatal mistake, that is, he exposed one of his measurement standards.

"Not killing" is Batman's principle and one of his measurement criteria. Usually, he will not tell anyone, "Because you are my friend, you cannot kill people." He will not say, "If you kill someone, I will kick you out of the category of friends and become enemies with you."

It is equivalent to this standard, and it is usually hidden. At least Superman would not have thought of it.

However, after Injustice Superman killed someone, Injustice Batman obviously couldn't control his emotions. He exposed his own criterion and turned "I don't like you because of this" into a certain fact.

The moment the mysterious thing reveals its true colors, the illusory rumors will be broken. The sense of uncertainty and insecurity will all be returned to nothingness.

To put it bluntly, the hanging heart finally died.

Once Superman is sure that everything is irreversible, he will no longer spend his energy on understanding Batman.

And there is no need to talk about how much damage a husky can cause without anyone.

Therefore, Charles is not worried about whether the killing is right or not, or that Marvel people don’t like to worry about this.

As a psychology master, Charles pointed out more bluntly and profoundly the only mistake Batman made - he failed to maintain his strong position in the emotional relationship between the two and lost the initiative, resulting in his failure to successfully restrain Superman and turn the situation into what he is now.

And he also showed up to say that the relationship between the two is either you are weak and I am strong, or you are strong and I am weak. If you Batman becomes weak, then the one who takes the initiative next will be Superman.

"He was panicked." Diana in front of the screen pointed out incisively, "Obviously Superman's reaction exceeded his expectations. He couldn't understand Superman's emotions, just like one day we suddenly couldn't understand the addition problem of 1+1=2, which was really panicking."

"Ginger is still the hottest," Bruce commented. Then he looked at Clark and said, "But some people don't have such troubles. After he couldn't understand my emotions, he didn't stop and want to understand, but chose to continue to push the plot."

"Oh my God, Bruce." Clark covered his face with his hands and pushed his cheek upwards, and then said, "I'm really sorry. I swear I definitely don't care about you... Wait, you didn't mean it, right?"

"You just want me to pay attention to you, and just focus on you, and then mess up everything else." Clark stared at Bruce and said, "I'll say it again! I'll just maintain normal and healthy relationships. Keep away from me!"

Bruce muttered a few words in a low voice, then complained, "It's not because of this. You're obviously too stupid to understand."

"That's my talent, too," Clark said. "My super brain has helped me automatically block your damn fishing behavior. I should buy something delicious to celebrate."

"You want to fish Clark as a fish, and don't think about whether you are good enough." Diana couldn't help it, she said, "If Clark was really a fish, he might even drag his teacher Schiller into the water. Would you actually want to catch him?"

"Not one," said Bruce. "I was a little sad at the time, but it wasn't as exciting as I was. It was just that some people's indifferent attitude made me even more sad..."

Clark left his head with a little guilty conscience, but soon turned back and said, "I realized something was wrong with you, but I asked you what happened, and you didn't say it. I don't understand psychology, so I can only treat it as a daily routine."

"So you usually do less crazy," Diana said, "and you have something to say. No one here has time to read your heart."

Bruce shook his head helplessly and sighed: "You metropolitans are really artistic. Fortunately, I won't be Batman..."

"If you still become Batman, get out of my metropolis." Lex said simply.

On the screen, the expression of the Unrighteous Superman was filled with a hint of joke. In his spiritual world, the young man with blue eyes pushed his glasses and looked at the Unrighteous Superman's spiritual body tied to the chair next to him and said:

"I told you. He is much more fragile than you think. Since you can no longer go back to the past, why not open up a whole new future?"

Superman Injustice stared at the situation outside and was stunned. Batman, who he had never understood before, was distracted in front of him.

There are no heat rays, no freezing breaths, no verbal criticisms. The young man who controls his body now just said a few words and gave him a look.

"Tell me, what should I do."

Charles appeared behind the chair, turned around and walked gently, then lowered his head to see the Unrighteous Superman.

"Never be more curious about him than the other person. Never be more concerned about him than the other person. Once you are free, he is bound to be the one who is tied up."

"I can't control myself." Superman Injustice said. His tone revealed a hint of undetectable pain, but no emotion could be hidden from Charles.

"I can help you." Charles' voice became more and more like a devil's whisper, and he said, "I can help you seal off your excess feelings. Without those things to stop you, you will be invincible."

The hand holding the handrail tightly. The scene after scene in the mind of Injustice appeared in Superman's mind. He was always angry, he was sad. He was venting his emotions, while Batman watched coldly.

"I just want to know if he can really be indifferent forever." Unrighteous Superman slowly closed his eyes and said, "Go on."

Everyone was shocked when Charles appeared in the room under the Luther Manor.

"Why are you back so soon, Professor Xavier? They..."

"I sealed a part of Superman's feelings," Charles said. "It keeps him calm when facing Batman."

Diana said in surprise: "Then he...I mean, he can control Batman? The two of them..."

Charles shook his head and said, "No, human feelings cannot be sealed. The longer it is sealed, the more powerful it will explode."

"When the accumulated feelings burst out, he will understand that ruling the earth is just a cloud. The friendship of the past is better than everything, so naturally there will be no conflict."

The others were stunned.

Charles looked at Bruce again.

"I heard that you and your partner are also a little bit conflicted?"

Bruce and Clark hugged each other in an instant, and Bruce's head shook out afterimage.

"No, absolutely not. We are good friends for life!"
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