Chapter 490 Met a compatriot from the motherland in a foreign country(1/2)
Hunan Province.
A luxury villa.
Tong Lisa said: "Why don't we just give cash and let Master Jiang buy whatever he wants, so that he won't be afraid that the gift he gives is not what he likes."
Ke Baoqiang said with a hilarious cry: "Mom, money is indeed omnipotent, but if you give money directly, it is still too vulgar. It is better to give it as much as possible if you can give it to it."
Xia Yuhe suggested: "I think I can give you something that can preserve value, such as real estate stores, and this kind of gift is not as vulgar as giving money."
Tong Lisa's eyes lit up when she heard this and said in agreement: "Yuhe's proposal is very good. From ancient times to the present, there is no one in our country who doesn't like real estate and shops. This is also worthy of giving."
Ke Baoqiang nodded and said, "Okay, then let's send it to the shop. This not only preserves the value, but also generates profits. Let's leave this matter to you."
Tong Lisa said: "Since I want to give it to the shops, it is best to give it to the same city, so that Master Jiang can manage it. Then I will go to the provincial capital of Guizhou Province to do this tomorrow. I must buy some shops that I can give to Master Jiang."
Ke Baoqiang and Xia Yuhe both nodded and said yes.
After deciding the gift plan, the three of them discussed some of the details.
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Tokyo, Japan.
At noon, Shisa Yamamoto and Teacher Mikami discussed the Chinese poetry culture in the office, but the result was that Shisa Yamamoto was slightly better. After all, Shisa Yamamoto had discussed with many famous artists, and with the natural advantages of women, it was naturally not comparable to Shisa Yamamoto in this regard.
However, it was already very good that Shisa Yamamoto was able to barely keep up with Teacher Mikami’s pace, at least Teacher Mikami was satisfied.
After discussing the poetry culture for more than an hour, both of them felt refreshed, and Teacher Mikami, who had not been having sex with others for a long time, was even more radiant.
"Teacher Mikami, I want to take you back to have a meal with my parents in the evening and introduce you to my parents. I wonder what you think?"
Teacher Mikami blinked and said without objection: "Yamamoto, I didn't prepare the gift in advance. It would be too rude to go to see your parents!"
Yamamoto Shisan said with a smile: "The meeting gift is very simple. There are quite a few in my office. Just pick a few of them. The key is that I want to introduce you to my parents as soon as possible. I can't wait to marry you home now."
After all, I just discussed poetry culture together, and Teacher Mikami said obediently: "Okay, if you insist on it, then I will promise you."
Yamamoto Shisaki said happily: "Thank you, Teacher Mikami, then I will call my mother and make her ready."
Teacher Mikami showed a nervous expression and said cutely: "It's so nervous. I wonder if your parents will like me?"
Yamamoto Shisan smiled and said, "Don't worry, Teacher Mikami, my parents will definitely like you."
Teacher Mikami said, "Then Yamamoto, tell me about your parents' situation, and tell me about their interests and hobbies."
"No problem, I'll call my mother first and then tell you in detail."
"OK."
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Someone once said this: The most perfect life in the world is "living in a British house, eating Chinese food, getting an American salary, and marrying a Japanese woman."
This really makes sense.
According to the survey, the social status of Japanese women is at the lowest level in Asia.
A Japanese woman who is not working must prepare the meal before her husband returns home, put the bath water and stand at the door to greet her husband, saying, "Thank you for your hard work, bring your slippers, take your coat and briefcase, and then serve her husband for dinner. If the meal is not as good as you taste, it is certain.
Japanese women who have a job also have to cook, because Japanese men don’t go to the kitchen at all. They can cook late, but they must not be careless.
Japanese women, regardless of whether they have a job or not, have to send their husbands to work in the morning, and must deliver them to the door, and bow and say goodbye.
Even if your husband has a car, he cannot take a ride by himself. He has to take the bus by himself when he goes out.
Japanese people love cleanliness. Married Japanese women clean the room every day, vacuum and plaster, and there is almost no dust. They will dress their homes beautifully and exquisitely.
Which Japanese woman who is so virtuous and obedient, would you ask which man doesn’t want to marry her?
There is a saying in Japan that "a woman has no home in the three realms", that is, after a woman is born, her family belongs to her parents. After she grows up and gets married, her family belongs to her husband. After her husband dies, her family belongs to her son.
Therefore, we need to "follow the father at home, and follow the husband after marriage, and follow the son after death."
This is simply a replica of the "Three Followers of Women" in ancient China. However, after China's baptism of "not loving red clothes and loving armed forces" and "women can stand half of the sky", the so-called "feudal legacy" has disappeared, but Japan still has a lot of remaining.
Before Li Shuixiu married into Japan, she actually heard that Japanese women had low social status and family status. However, she was still young at that time and was already blinded by the so-called love. She resolutely chose to marry far away from Japan despite her parents' strong opposition.
I remember that at that time, her parents were really angry. She originally chose to marry a foreigner and had a more traditional minded parents, not to mention that she married a Japanese, how could her parents accept this?
But as an only daughter, Li Shuixiu has been growing up under the favor of her parents. She wanted to marry willfully, but her parents actually couldn't stop her.
In the end, her parents who could not resist her could only agree to her cross-border marriage with a dark face, but they all said the same thing in front of her, that she would definitely regret it.
But at that time, she could not hear such words. She swears directly in front of her parents that she would never regret it if she married the right person.
However, a few years later, Li Shuixiu sat on a rocking chair on the balcony, staring at the sunset in the distance, revealing endless confusion and regret in her eyes.
Now she finally realized that her parents' advice was right, and that Japanese culture and society were far from what she expected.
She didn't expect that life would be so difficult after marriage. Her husband was not only machismo, but also didn't care about his family at all. The first thing he did after get off work was not to go home, but to go to some taverns and izakayas for a drink, and always drink it until late at night.
For this reason, she had a quarrel with him, but he was so hampered that she couldn't speak, because in a strange country in Japan, if a man came home on time after get off work, it would be considered a sign of incompetence.
What else can she say?
Because the atmosphere in the entire Japanese society is the same, her husband dominates the family, and she passively accepts various arrangements.
She longs for independence and wants to pursue her dreams in her career, but finds that her role in the family is limited to the traditional image of a housewife.
Moreover, Japan lacks an environment to help women raise children and work at the same time.
In China, if you have children at home, you are usually raised by the elderly at home, so that the couple can work with peace of mind to make money.
However, in Japan, the parent-child relationship is relatively weak. Children are raised by their mothers after they are born. Grandma, grandma and other elders rarely participate in raising grandchildren.
Judging from the traditional Japanese family concepts and educational concepts, children become independent after marriage and have to solve everything themselves, especially raising children, and parents will not intervene too much.
As a result, her study experience and professional ability were forced to be left behind, and she was occupied by the endless housework and education of her children.
This is really not the life she wants!
Tears of regret rolled in Li Shuixiu's eyes. She regretted not following her parents' advice and not considering her decision carefully.
She thought of divorce more than once, but her self-esteem did not allow her to do so.
After all, she swears in front of her parents that she will never regret it if she married the right man. But she went back in a mess after a few years. Even if her parents don’t say anything about her, she, who has always been concerned about face, cannot accept this ending.
Therefore, she has been trying hard to support her over the past two years. To be precise, the unyielding spirit is supporting her.
But now, she is really about to be unable to hold on because she discovered a sad thing: her husband cheated! And it wasn't that she had cheated on recently, she had already cheated on her!
This is actually not surprising at all.
According to the survey, the cheating rate of Japanese women is as high as 49%. Basically half of women will cheat after marriage, and 6% of people have thoughts of cheating.
This data is incredible in China, but it is normal in Japan.
Think about it, even women have such a high cheating rate, let alone a man who is born lustful, the cheating rate is definitely higher than that of women.
After discovering that her husband cheated, Li Shuixiu completely gave up on the marriage. Her idea of divorce became stronger and stronger. However, there were two things that had not been resolved, which made her unable to implement the divorce.
The first thing is the child's problem.
From birth to now, she has brought the child out of hand and foot. She is absolutely unable to give up this child. If you divorce, you have to take the child away.
The second thing is to face your parents without any face.
She was so full of words at the beginning. In the past few years, she called her parents and reported good news but not bad news. When she suddenly got divorced, how to deal with her parents is also a problem.
The more I thought about it, the more irritated she felt, Li Shuixiu simply stopped staying at home and planned to go out for a walk and relax. Anyway, her husband would not come back so early.
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A five-star hotel.
Jiang Feng looked at the time and said to the two bodyguards: "Sister Bingbing, Sister Wutong, it's still late now. Let's go out for a meal. What do you want to eat today?"
Baili Wutong said, "Boss, please take the initiative. We will eat whatever you want."
Guo Bingbing nodded and said, "Let's listen to you, boss."
Jiang Feng smiled and said, "Then let's go out and take a look to see if there are any special snacks in Tokyo or other foods that we like to look at."
Baili Wutong and Guo Bingbing naturally had no objection.
So the three of them went out and wandered around aimlessly.
After about ten or twenty minutes of walking, Jiang Feng and the other two saw a snack bar.
The name of the snack bar reads もんゃゃん. Jiang Feng didn't understand Japanese, but just recognized one of the words "王天" and asked, "Sister Baili, what kind of snack does this snack bar make?"
He didn't ask casually. His two bodyguards were elites among the elites of the army and were all-round bodyguards. In terms of language speaking, Baili Wutong was proficient in English and Japanese, while Guo Bingbing was proficient in English and German.
Before Baili Wutong could answer, a lady next to her rushed to answer: "My fellow, the snacks made in this snack bar are called Wenzi Shao, which is one of the most famous snacks in Japan."
This person who rushed to reply was not someone else, but Li Shuixiu, who was in a irritable mood and relaxed.
It is a happy thing to meet compatriots in a foreign country. At this time, Li Shuixiu felt that the boredom in her heart had been relieved a lot.
Although the Chinese have nearly one million people in Japan, these nearly one million people are scattered all over the place. As long as you don’t look for them specifically, it is actually difficult to meet a compatriot in your life.
Even if they encounter it, if both sides do not speak Chinese, they cannot tell whether the other party is a Japanese or a Chinese compatriot just by looking at their appearance.
After all, Japan has a deep connection with our country, and the two peoples do not look as obvious as Westerners.
To be continued...