"This..., what's going on? What's wrong with my dantian? What about the true qi in my body? Is this I dreaming?! Is it really me dreaming? Otherwise, how could I not feel the true qi in my body? Monkey, you said, am I dreaming? {"

Leng Xin's words were full of madness and panic. His eyes were red and he looked at the monkey in the distance, and a gray look appeared on his face. It was obvious that Leng Xin's heart was completely broken now.

Yes, any warrior, no matter which warrior is, will collapse like this when he knows that his martial arts are being abolished.

When I got used to the powerful power in my body and the noble status brought to him by this power, I suddenly realized that I had lost all this. When I encountered such a thing, I would feel a breakdown in my heart.

Leng Xin is just an ordinary warrior, so it is understandable that he feels such a collapsed feeling in his heart.

Leng Xin would ask the monkey this way, but in fact he wanted to get some comfort from the monkey and get the answer that he was dreaming. Unfortunately, soon, reality shattered Leng Xin's "beautiful dream".

"Boss, your martial arts have also been destroyed?" The monkey's retort directly shattered Leng Xin's "beautiful dream" in his heart. Leng Xin's face is really gray and white. The black hair, which was originally full of vitality on his head, suddenly began to fade away. The dark brilliance completely disappeared, replaced by gray hair...

Leng Xin now gives people the feeling of being a useless person.

"It's also ruined..." Leng Xin repeated this sentence, and then he looked at the monkey with an incredible look on his face: "Monkey, you were so disappointed just now. It's so difficult that your martial arts have also been ruined?"

"Yes, brother, I just discovered that my martial arts were destroyed. My dantian had been shattered, so I was so disappointed and almost got into a magical disease.

Here, I have to thank you, brother. If the piece of soil you threw you into my mind, I would probably have been deviled now. By then, I would not be saved. Thank you, brother!”

This time, the monkey thanked Leng Xin very sincerely. Of course, the monkey apologized sincerely. Perhaps Leng Xin also said that his martial arts skills were also deposed, so the monkey's face now looks much better and he is in the mood to thank Leng Xin.

It is actually very common for monkeys to have this mentality, and this is actually a manifestation of jealousy of talents.

In modern society, there are countless people with such a mentality, and many people have some mentality of jealousy and jealousy in their hearts. They can’t stand others better than themselves, especially in the current empty society. Such mentality of jealousy and jealousy is even more common. I believe everyone has experienced such things or seen such people.

In fact, jealousy of the virtuous is a kind of "peacock mentality" of people.

For example, I don’t know when it started, but you like to compare yourself with others: a colleague bought a brand-name clothing, and you also bought a more expensive one; a colleague called a higher voice, and you also deliberately called and called at the top of your voice; and once some aspects of others are better than you, you feel like you have a bottle of five flavors in your heart, which is very uncomfortable... These are actually a typical "peacock psychology".

The peacock mentality, or peacock psychology, is a kind of winning mentality and a competing mentality. This mentality often brings trouble to itself due to its competitive spirit, which is also a very common psychological hazard in the hearts of modern people.

"Peacock spreads its tail" is a very gorgeous and spectacular scene, but it also has the meaning of showing off and domineering.

Once a person has a "peacock mentality" when dealing with people, he will easily fall into a situation where he is constantly competing for victory, and he often blindly competes for the sake of making a move.

Just like the other side of arrogance is inferiority complex, the "peacock psychology" actually originates from a deeply rooted sense of insecurity. Society emphasizes success and achievement too much, which can easily make people feel impetuous and eager to win.

Many people nowadays "shame" their colleagues in the company dress better and use them better than themselves, so these people will try their best to "compare".

For example, when you like to compare yourself with others in your work, women are more prominent in this regard. For example, colleagues in the same office spent 3,000 yuan to buy a brand-name clothing, and many women would spend 5,000 yuan to buy a better one;

When I saw a colleague wearing a diamond ring, I pestered my husband to buy a bigger one to show off; when my colleague called a higher voice, some women would deliberately call a phone and call with a louder voice...and so on.

Of course, not only women have such mentality, but also men are very strong. For example, old classmates in middle school or college, or even relatives in their own family bought a car. Many men will be very jealous. Men with conditions at home will try their best to buy a car. Even if they owe a lot of money for this, they don’t care.

If the situation at home does not allow it and you cannot buy a car at this time, the man will feel very disappointed, and even so serious that he has not recovered for a whole week...

Wait, there are countless such things. In fact, people have such a mind that they are showing off and comparative mentality is "making trouble", that is, the "peacock psychology" in psychology.

This mentality will put you in a situation of comparison and victory, and it will be blind comparison.

Psychological experts say that everyone will face setbacks, blows and various pressures. If you get infected with the "peacock psychology", it is easy to cause psychological imbalance and thus lead to physical and mental illness.

People who like to compete and have strong self-esteem are advised to learn not to be too demanding on themselves, relax and learn to be content and enjoy.

"Peacock psychology" is a very common psychological hidden danger for modern people. In the final analysis, it is an inflated vanity.

Vanity refers to a person borrowing external, superficial or other people's glory to make up for his inner and substantial shortcomings in order to win the attention and respect of others and society. It is a very complex psychological phenomenon.

Lanxi philosopher Begsen once said: "Vii is hard to say that it is a kind of evil deed. However, all evil deeds are born around vanity, and they are just means to satisfy vanity."

Of course, people are inevitably vain. Everyone actually has vain in their hearts, but if a person's inner vanity is too much, there will be psychological imbalance, that is, "peacock psychology".

At this time, you might as well check whether you are out of reality and that you must often expand yourself so that you can achieve the perfect image in your mind.

People with strong vanity will unconsciously incorporate factors such as selfishness, hypocrisy, and fraud in their thoughts. This is in sharp contrast to virtues such as modesty, prudence, and openness, and not seeking fame.

So how to avoid the "peacock psychology"?

In fact, it is very simple to defeat the "peacock mentality". As long as you do the following points, you can completely defeat the "peacock mentality" and become the big winner in life!

First, you know that you are content and happy:

There are ten people who are not satisfied with life. No one can live a smooth life. The so-called "all the best" is just a kind of good blessing.

In the workplace, each of us will encounter various setbacks and failures, and will also encounter various temptations. If we can be content and enjoy ourselves, we will cause ourselves less trouble and trouble.

Second, your inner experience has a mortal mentality:

There are thousands of reasons for happiness in a person’s heart, but the reasons for unhappiness are relatively concentrated: the hope for oneself is too high.

In the workplace, there are always people who think that "the great responsibility is given to this person", so they set their goals very high and have "sweeping ambitions". In fact, there are many goals and lofty ideals that are separated from personal reality and from personal abilities. This brings people all the time to trouble.

Therefore, in the workplace, we should lower our mindset, hold on to the "mortal mentality", give ourselves a goal that can be achieved, or set our ideals within our ability, so that we can see hope from the achievements we have achieved and enjoy the joy of success.

Third, you have fewer opponents in your inner experience:

In the workplace, many people like to treat colleagues as their "opponents" in their workplace, so that they are always in a tense state of competition. In fact, there are not so many opponents in the workplace, and there is no need to put others on their opposites all the time.

A true worker should have a peaceful mindset in his heart, changing the concept of "opponent" to the concept of "helpers" and advocating "harmony is the most important", because taking advantage of the power is always faster than walking before the battle.

In addition, you should see your own strengths more. There is no need to use yourself to cover up other people's life patterns and life trajectories.

Maintaining personal independence and integrity is the basis of a successful life.

Fourth, you have to learn to be tolerant of others:

A psychologist once said: "People who like to compete often place their expectations on the closest people around them when they have limited abilities. Some wives want their husbands to be noble, while others want their children to be successful."

Once this "expectation" is not realized, it will inevitably bring great disappointment or even a loss of hope to the parties involved.

Everyone has their own life and life trajectory. As the saying goes, "Everyone has aspirations." Since this is the case, why do you have to impose your own ideas on others? This is not only unwise, but also unrealistic.

"Don't worry about lack of worries but unevenness" is Confucius' famous saying, and it still applies in today's society.

If a person gets promoted because of hard work, someone will say sarcastic words behind his back and say sourly that you have obtained it based on special relationships. When attending a class reunion, you will suddenly feel empty in your heart when you see others wearing famous brands and driving a good car, and your tone and expression become unnatural; in the market, many merchants will not hesitate to suppress their opponents by losing money and reducing prices, and end up in a loss-making situation... etc.

An old saying goes: "Woods are beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy them." It is unpredictable to others, and it has been a phenomenon of pulling people back since ancient times, and it is also uncommon in China today.

Often, when interests are involved, such things that "damage others and do not benefit oneself" will happen. There are three main reasons.

1. Human nature triggers jealousy.

In life, when people see others being better than themselves in some aspects, they often think that others are living better than themselves. However, this kind of "goodness" is mostly their own guess, which can easily make people feel psychologically unbalanced and thus jealousy.

Under the influence of jealousy, people with different personalities will have different manifestations: some are motivated and work hard; some will blame themselves and their self-confidence will be hit; some are cautious and their inner unbalanced. They make bad things behind their backs and make others unhappy, which is what the saying goes, "pull the back."

Some people criticize people who are close to others for their success, such as their wife scolds their husband for "making more money than Lao Wang next door" (hehe, Lao Wang next door got shot again), which leads to discord in family relations.

In short, being able to show others is mostly caused by jealousy. Of course, the existence of this kind of psychology is normal, and it is due to human nature. Don’t make a fuss.

2. Historical inheritance brings insecurity.

Traditional culture makes others' "good" bring great insecurity to the Chinese people. In the past, the comfortable life of "wife, children, and warm bed" was the pursuit of most Chinese people, and the sense of security brought by "one acre and three-point land" was real.

Now, houses, cars and children have become the ideals for Chinese people's life. When you see others own more houses, better cars and better children, the insecurity is triggered.

In modern China, internal and external troubles, and several ethnic dangers have deepened this sense of insecurity. The gap between the rich and the poor in modern society has increased, limited social resources, and unfair distribution have allowed the Chinese people to transform this sense of insecurity into a mentality of hating the rich.

Various reasons will make others feel bad. This mentality is deeply rooted in the hearts of Chinese people and forms a deep-rooted "psychological gene".

3. Misleading education solidifies bad mentality.

The insecurity deeply embedded in the hearts of Chinese people makes parents worry that their descendants will not be able to receive better treatment in their future lives, or even gain a foothold.

Therefore, parents cultivate their children's sense of crisis from an early age. Compare other people's children's strengths with their own children's weaknesses, and hope that their children can learn from their strengths and weaknesses.

This practice makes children feel resistant and even deeper jealousy.

Such unreasonable traditional education methods are a fertile ground for breeding the mentality of "not being ashamed of others".

Always holding a mentality that you can't stand others better than you, not only will you live a tiring life, but you will also make people around you uncomfortable; it will not only damage the morale of the team, but also make yourself rejected by the team. This mentality will intensify in specific social periods and social change periods.

With the development of society, this social psychology will gradually weaken.

For example, the insecurity of the post-80s generation is much weaker than that of their parents, so they dare to fight, dare to break out, and dare to work hard in a strange city.

Modern society is developing faster and faster, and the pace of life is also getting faster and faster. Therefore, everyone will face setbacks, blows and various pressures at different times and times. Therefore, many people are easily infected with the "peacock psychology" and can easily cause psychological imbalances, which will lead to physical and mental illnesses, and of course, will ruin your life.

Therefore, there is no end to show off and compare. Show off and compare will inevitably lead to happiness being far away from you. If you want the happiness of life and become a strong person in life, then you must overcome the vanity in your heart and the "peacock mentality"!

However, although that is the case, when you really face such a thing, many times, your heart will be unknowingly affected by this jealous and jealous mentality. Then, you will do something that you can't imagine, and eventually you will make a big mistake that makes you regret.

At that time, even if you wake up, it’s too late. The big mistake has been made and it’s already irreversible.

Therefore, when you feel that your inner jealousy and jealousy mentality is about to appear, and you don’t want this inner jealousy and jealousy mentality to appear, you can try the following ways to overcome the jealousy and jealousy in your heart.

First of all, you have to know clearly that comparison is necessary, but comparison is not acceptable.

If you want to set appropriate comparison goals for yourself, such as comparing yourself with celebrities, you will definitely not be able to compare yourself. It is best to compare yourself with yourself, are you making progress now than before, are you working harder than yesterday, etc.

Secondly, when encountering unfairness or an unbalanced mentality due to some trivial matters, try to calm yourself down and not let others' "goodness" become the fuse for your unhappiness.

You can try taking a deep breath and tell yourself in time that “others are good only I think they are good”, “Everyone has a difficult sutra”, “There is no absolute good or bad in the world”, etc.

Another point, and the most important point, is that you must have confidence in yourself, and you must firmly believe that as long as you work hard, you will be able to succeed and become a strong person in life.

Finally, you must grasp the degree of communication when communicating with people you are close to. Some people like to be motivated, while others want to be encouraged. Otherwise, blindly flattering the former and nitpicking the latter will be counterproductive.

In short, jealousy and jealousy are a difficult time you must overcome to become a strong man in life. If you want to become a strong man in life and to truly and completely control your own life, then you must overcome the jealous and jealousy in your heart. Only in this way can your life usher in the rainbow of success.

Leng Xin repeatedly asked the monkey loudly before, why didn't the monkey answer, and there was no reaction at all. In fact, at this time, the monkey's jealousy in his heart could be a big deal. He was jealous of Leng Xin as a warrior.

After the monkey woke up, he checked his physical condition immediately. Therefore, the monkey quickly knew that he had lost his martial arts. Moreover, based on the situation inside his body and luck, the monkey immediately knew that his dantian had been completely destroyed.

In other words, the monkey's martial arts have been abolished, and it is still a very completely abolished. (To be continued, please search for Astronomy, the novel is better, updated and faster!

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