The first thousand four hundred and seventy-ninth chapters love him more... (every day ten thousand(1/2)
Li Liping didn't know that Zhao Chaogang had countless spirit stones, but she knew that at least the medium-grade spirit stones were definitely not a problem for Zhao Chaogang.
The storage rings she and Jingjing were wearing alone, there were tens of thousands of medium-grade spirit stones, not to mention the number of spirit stones on Zhao Chaogang himself. Therefore, it was completely a slight idea to arrange one or dozens or hundreds of spirit gathering arrays for Zhao Chaogang.
When he arrived here, someone might ask. Since Li Liping is so clear about the preciousness of medium-grade spirit stones in the cultivation world, even cultivators in the foundation-building stage will be moved when they see the medium-grade spirit stones. However, Zhao Chaogang, a cultivator who is only in the middle-level foundation-building stage, actually took out tens of thousands of medium-grade spirit stones. Zhao Chaogang's wealth is absolutely unimaginable.
When Li Liping arrived here, wouldn’t she doubt Zhao Chaogang? She wasn’t curious about why Zhao Chaogang had a deep wealth?
To be honest, after Li Liping learned about the preciousness of medium-grade spirit stones in the cultivation world, she was indeed very curious about why Zhao Chaogang had such a deep wealth. However, Li Liping was curious, she would not really ask Zhao Chaogang this question.
Why? In fact, the answer is very simple, that is, Li Liping loves Zhao Chaogang more than herself...!
Love: generally refers to the love between men and women, and also refers to the love between love.
Love is a human emotion, a mysterious emotion that human beings cannot ignore! Love is a strong attachment, closeness, yearning, and selfless and dedicated and omnipotent emotion between people. It is usually a contrast between emotions and desires.
In Chinese culture, love is to embrace the other person's heart, with the attributes of intimacy, love, desire, commitment, attachment, and emotion. It also has confidence in the long-term nature of this relationship and can also share a private life with the other person.
Based on the emotions of love, in addition to the cross-cultural differences in love, the concept of love has also changed greatly over time (different national cultures have also developed different characteristics).
Love is an integral part of human nature. In a narrow sense, it refers to the love between couples, and in a broad sense, it also includes the love between friends and the love between relatives (love feelings).
Love is divided into true love and "fake love". Love belongs to everyone, and whether a person can meet the best life partner for you needs to work hard to pursue and treat it sincerely can only find it. Encountering in life is fate, not necessarily love. But once you really miss the right person, you will regret it.
True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart (the key is self-love, such as cherishing one's body and reputation, and having one's own moral bottom line). It is not a perfect match in the eyes of others. It is the hearts of two people who love each other. They know how to cherish when they can love, and know how to let go when they cannot love, and do not distinguish between genders. There are no gorgeous words and no sensational actions. Only in every word and action can you feel it, plain and firm. On the contrary, swearing, promises show its uncertainty, and never believe sweet words.
Sex is the physiological basis of love. The reason why people have love is because of it. Without sexual desires and desires, how can there be the cuteness of love? On the surface, it seems to be sweet love, but in fact, it must be implemented in sex in the end.
In the process of modern people pursuing love, they need to pay attention to distinguishing the difference between spiritual love and actual love or marriage that needs to be recognized. Spiritual love can have no boundaries. However, in the process of practice, it is necessary to emphasize the adherence to social ethics and rationality, and emphasize the consideration of reality and rationality. Otherwise, it will bring infinite harm.
Our country's marriage has not yet had a philosophical theoretical basis. This is a recognized fact, and there is no unified theory in the world.
Simply put, love ethics-reason relationship is a loyal relationship between the same and the same sexes that originate from love. According to general ethical principles, love relationships transcend love emotions.
The metaphysical love we have never mentioned, or emotional relationships - rational relationships (referred to as love).
Many things are metaphysical and physical, such as time. For example, all clocks and watches have more or less errors, which is metaphysical. So is there absolutely correct time? Some, absolutely correct time only exists in the world of ideas (metaphysical), and in religious terms it is called being with God.
Only with respect to the absolutely correct time standard (idea), can we know how many errors the metaphysical clocks have.
For example, when building cars, there are standards for building cars, houses, and houses. The standards (concepts) always transcend the physical form. For example, the standards for building cars are absolutely correct, but the cars built may have errors and errors.
Love Ethics - Reason is actually the standard of love. At first, love emotions that conform to love ethics must have produced metaphysical love relationships. Metaphysical love relationships must transcend metaphysical love emotions.
Only because of the metaphysical love ethics - the relationship between reason and love, can we know whether our love behavior is right or wrong.
In school, the teacher will only say that love in psychology, love in biology, and ethical, love is just a process of pre-marital selection and preparation, but the truth of history is not like this. True love ethics - rational concepts, real marriage ethics - rational concepts, and current love and marriage ethics - rational concepts are three completely different things.
True love-ethics-reason can allow men and women to directly pursue a lifelong loyal relationship without pursuing it through marriage (including homosexuality). Love-ethics-reason relationships arise from emotions and transcend emotions.
Love ethics - The emergence of a rational relationship means that the relationship between two people is already sacred, that is, when the love emotion ends, the love ethics relationship between two people will still exist in a transcendent period.
Divide love into two stages: the first is the stage of love selection, and the second is the stage of love belief (love ethics-reason relationship).
It is recommended that general love ethics - transcendence of rational relationships - sex - time is at least one month after the end of love emotions. The transcendence of love ethics - relations can be determined according to the specific situation.
Why does love have such an important position in people's hearts? In fact, this is inseparable from the characteristics of love.
1) Love will give people a special attraction and special feeling, and once you are with the girl/boy you love, you will feel the special feeling and attractiveness.
2) Love will make a beautiful feeling in your heart. When you are with the girl/boy you love, you will have a beautiful feeling. This beautiful feeling comes from two aspects, on the one hand, it comes from the beauty of the girl/boy you love. On the other hand, it comes from the beauty of the love life, that is, living a beautiful love life with the girl/boy you love, thus creating a beautiful feeling.
3) Love will make you feel excited and happy inside. Love a girl/boy and when you are with her/him, you will feel very excited and happy. If you love deeply, this excitement and happiness will not fade with the repetition of time and life.
With love as sacred, how does love come about? Attraction is the fundamental factor that produces love, and is influenced by known factors such as distance, similarity, and cross-cultural differences.
Attraction includes the following aspects:
1) Charm: There are two types of charm that attracts the opposite sex. One is the charm that has nothing to do with sex. Both men and women can have this charm, such as: good-looking and beautiful emotions, and the other is the charm that is related to sex, such as: men's burly and tall, successful career, and women's gentleness and cuteness.
2) Genes: Scientists discover that love is related to genes. Find a perfume that is perfect for yourself, a romance that may make you irresistible, but even if they can’t unite people, perfume can still be used to amplify natural body odors.
Some people tend to find the opposite sex that complements their genes, while others tend to find the opposite sex that is similar to their genes. (The reason is that a group of genes that are closely related to the immune system is related to the main histocompatibility complex)
3) Co-existence: Have had a wonderful experience together. They may be attracted to each other. They have experienced suffering together, helped each other in suffering, and felt warm to each other, and may also be attracted to each other.
4) Shadow personality: Everyone has a "explicit" and "implicit" personality. In addition to expressing the "explicit personality" seen by everyone, each person also has a "implicit personality" that is exactly the opposite, which hides from the heart. That is, "shadow personality".
Psychologists believe that one of the reasons for the strong attraction of lovers is to pursue a complete self, because falling in love with someone who has his own "shadow personality" can promote the integrity of his own personality.
5) Face-related contact: After contacting all kinds of people, you will subconsciously connect various faces with various emotions.
For example: if you meet a beautiful and kind person, and then meet someone who looks similar to him, you may think that this person is also a beautiful and kind person, and therefore may feel attractive.
Love is often expressed through the behaviors of kissing, hugging, loving, caressing and sex between partners. The most important manifestation of love is that a person can do everything he wants to his lover.
Love will bring psychological and logical changes to both parties in love. First of all, idealization. Two people in love will ignore each other's shortcomings and exaggerate each other's strengths. Idealization can prompt both parties to believe that they are making the most correct choice.
The second is to endure pain. Even if it is rejected by the person you like, the person will justify the unrewarded behavior by enduring the pain.
The third is fantasy. People in love will have some fantasy or even unrealistic fantasy about the future.
In addition, love can also make a person highly sensitive, especially to emotional reactions to the other person's behavior. This not only brings insecurity, but also comes with a sense of satisfaction.
The quality of love can be determined through the above characteristics. Love makes one person feel emotional and physically dependent on another person, and when losing a lover, he is often accompanied by chest tightness, appetitelessness, insomnia, anger, depression, nostalgia, emptiness, loneliness, despair, depression, fatigue, nausea, crying and loss of confidence.
The best way to treat a broken heart is to divert attention and force yourself to focus on what you are good at to increase your brain dopamine concentration and increase self-confidence and hope.
In addition, exercise and sunshine are also good ways to cure love breakups. At the same time, it is also crucial to help the love breakups confirm the rewards and costs that love can bring.
Love is so sacred, so we need to establish correct concepts of love in terms of treatment.
, dedicated emotions.
Love is a love relationship between a pair of same-sex or different-sex. This relationship includes one's own unique feelings and obligations. It can only exist between two people in love and is not allowed to intervene. Moreover, love is not a joke. Both parties should treat each other sincerely, treat themselves truthfully, and treat each other in truth.
Countless facts have proved that using deception to deceive love will not be happy.
In addition, once the two parties establish a romantic relationship, they must be loyal and dedicated, and they must be single-minded; they cannot be distracted or distorted. Anyone who engages in a love triangle or a love triangle is immoral.
, the relationship between careers.
Love is beauty, it is an important part of life content. But it is not the whole of life. It should obey career and promote the development of career.
Only when a person succeeds in his studies and career can his love flowers bloom more brightly and fragrantly. Therefore, put studies and career first, put the relationship between love and study and career, and do not spend all his precious time on love and love and relax his study and career.
Without studies, love in career is like sowing in the desert. Without solid foundation and soil, it will wither sooner or later. Only love is like a combination of studies and career. Love has vigorous and lasting vitality.
: Promote like-minded love.
In love, you should put consistent thoughts, common beliefs and pursuits first, and put beautiful hearts, noble sentiments, and psychological integration as the first criterion for choosing a partner.
Shaspi-Ah once said: Love is not a sweet word under the shade of a tree, nor a honey word in the peach blossom land, nor a light tears. It is not a deadly forced force, but a spiritual communication based on a common basis.
Therefore, the most important condition for choosing a lover should be like-mindedness, and the ideology, career ideals and life interests are generally consistent.
The lofty love between Ma Kesi and Yan Ni is based on like-mindedness. It is precisely because of the romance that their love withstands the test of hardships and is passed down as a good story.
The concept of love should be an organic combination of ideals, morals, obligations, careers and sex--love.
Love is not only about gain, but more importantly, a kind of responsibility and dedication. In social life, people have two responsibilities: one is the responsibility that individuals should fulfill to society; the other is the responsibility of individuals to family, parents, children, friends and love-couples.
The second aspect of responsibility belongs to the nature of private life, and is the most weak area of life where social intervention is concerned, and is mainly maintained by good moral cultivation and a conscious sense of responsibility. Because of this, it reflects a person's personal charm.
Once you enter the kingdom of love, you must have a strong sense of responsibility and dedication in order to obtain noble love.
, more understanding, trust and tolerance, respect each other, and make progress together.
Love is the unity of mutual love. Both parties in love have their own personality and spiritual world. They cannot completely depend on each other, nor can they require them to completely occupy each other.
Love is like being a human being. Understanding, trust, honesty and tolerance are all valuable qualities.
Love often means a kind of dedication, to know each other, respect each other, and give in. "There is no perfect person in the world". Two people are together are not a simple combination, they must accommodate each other; love must accept everything about them, including their shortcomings.
Only by establishing the correct concept of love in your heart can your love path be smoother and smoother!
Love does not have time limitations. Whether in ancient times or in modern times, love actually exists. The essence of the past and back is the same. The only difference is that the time point where love is located is different.
In the eyes of Chinese people, love often cannot escape anxiety, sadness and melancholy. The long-term confinement of Chinese women has always made Chinese love poetry always have a sad and sad mood.
After the Tang Dynasty, more love poems expressed desire and disappointment, nostalgia and longing after parting.
Li Qingzhao, a female poet of the Song Dynasty, mostly described the feelings of boudoir and scenery in the early days. The sentence "Search and search, cold and deserted, miserable and miserable." It expresses the loneliness and emptiness in his heart.
To change the point of view, novels should describe stories. The most common model is: at a gathering, or at home, a guest of similar age comes. Since they rarely go out to meet people, they can easily develop admiration.
Then there are natural troubles and sadness. Under the suppression of society and the constraints of tradition, she can only do her best to hide this vague and strong desire. Then she has personal relationships, and then there will always be some episodes. Either the war makes the two in a different place, or who is the one who is toughly arranged by her parents, or a change occurs during the exam, causing both parties to wait, look forward to, and be anxious. If the relationship is sincere and passionate, she will have a lovesickness. This pattern is surprisingly similar in Chinese love stories.
Being trapped by love, with no blood on his face. His eyes were dull and his parents were worried, so they quickly arranged a marriage, just as the last sentence of the usual happy ending of Chinese operas sang: "I hope that lovers in the world will eventually get married."
Compared with this sad situation, modern lovers should be considered quite happy.
There is no so-called "marriage grant" from superiors to subordinates; no marriage that begins in the mother's belly; there is no social ethical requirement of a woman serving only one husband.
The level of civilization in society can change the way love is, but it cannot kill love.
No matter what social attributes are, how the ruling class confines women to instill a complete set of traditional moral education, love exists objectively and will not change due to changes in social background. What changes are only formal phenomena.
So even though we look at the past and present, has society suddenly changed its understanding and become open now?
Dating back to ancient times, human beings have been born about 3 million years. Although there were some instincts of animals at that time, there were also some taboos. This should be the beginning of human social attributes!
There was no love at that time. Of course, this was just a single statement and had no basis.
There must be at least three conditions for the emergence of love. The first is dedicated; the second is equal; the third is cultural quality.
Love is a comprehensive experience of many aspects of feelings, related to concepts such as personal taste, ideals, morality, and aspirations.
"The doves are singing in the river island. A beautiful lady is a gentleman." In the Book of Songs, the standards for the object that both men and women admire are clearly written.
In "Li Sao", the great patriotic poet of Chu State, he also directly expressed his longing for lovers and his hard pursuit.
The canvas that unfold the world horizontally, time is exactly in line with the Western Platonic love that has far-reaching influence. It is the earliest existing document in the development of Western love civilization.
Platonic love, as an idea, has influenced generations of Westerners.
"Platonic love" is also called "spiritual love". This kind of love believes that the combination of flesh and body is impure and dirty, and believes that love and sexual desire are two opposite states.
To be continued...