"I understand Chao Gang!" Li Liping quickly stopped her figure and for safety reasons, Li Liping retreated a little longer. Since Chao Gang said that the yin energy in his hands was harmful to the children in her belly, Li Liping would not take risks. It is always safer to keep a little distance, right?

Seeing Li Liping retreat a little, Zhao Chaogang felt relieved. Yin Qi is really harmful to the health of the unborn baby. The unborn baby has poor physical fitness and is easily affected by the outside world.

Even if it is air pollution, it has a great impact on unborn babies. Otherwise, why are there so many deformed babies born every year? There are reasons for air pollution.

"Pingping, your distance is safe now, you don't have to retreat anymore!" Seeing that Li Liping was still retreating, Zhao Chaogang was born and stopped. Li Liping had the magic weapon he gave her, and Li Liping herself is a cultivator in the first level of the Qi Refining Stage. Therefore, as long as you do not have close contact with the Yin Qi, these Yin Qi will not have any impact on Li Liping.

"I understand, Chaogang, I won't retreat!" Li Liping stopped moving backwards. Li Liping believed Zhao Chaogang's words 100%.

"Very good, Pingping, you just stay like this. Anyway, Pingping, you can still see how I activated the Yin-Yang Qi Array." As he said this, Zhao Chaogang turned around, from half facing Li Liping to facing Li Liping. In this way, Li Liping could see more clearly.

"How is it, Pingping. You can see clearly this way." As soon as he turned around, Zhao Chaogang asked Li Liping directly.

"Well. This is just right, my vision can be clearly seen. Chaogang, let's do it!" Zhao Chaogang is now facing Li Liping, so Li Liping can see Zhao Chaogang very clearly now.

"Okay, then let's continue!" Zhao Chaogang began to activate the Yin-Yang two qi array; "Pingping, Jingjing, and the core of the Yin-Yang two qi array is the Yin-Yang fish. Only by activating these Yin-Yang fish can the Yin-Yang two qi array be considered to be activated.

However, the activation of Yin-Yang fish is not that simple, especially how to ensure the balance of Yin-Yang energy in Yin-Yang fish is extremely difficult. Ordinary cultivators will be helpless when facing such a difficult problem." Zhao Chaogang said that, but his face was full of confidence. Obviously, Zhao Chaogang's cultivators who said that Zhao Chaogang did not include him.

"Then Chaogang, you..." Liu Jingjing didn't finish her words, but Li Liping and Zhao Chaogang on one side knew what Liu Jingjing had in her words. That is, are you, Zhao Chaogang, also helpless?

"Haha, Jingjing, I don't include it!" Zhao Chaogang replied playfully: "Why are cultivators difficult to control the yin and yang energy? In essence, they can't refine the yin and yang energy. The yin and yang energy in the cultivation world are flooded in the air in the cultivation world, and the proportion of yin and yang energy in these airs is very low, and even one ten thousand cannot reach it.

In addition, the Yin and Yang Qi has a very sensitive reaction to the spiritual energy of other attributes. In particular, the true fire of the cultivator causes great harm to the Yin Qi, so it is difficult for the cultivator to refine the Yin and Yang Qi!

However, I have the method of refining water, and water is the source of life, so it is much better for me to refine the yin and yang energy from the air than other cultivators. Look, this yin energy was refined by me before using the method of refining water!"

When Zhao Chaogang talked about this, he looked confident. Indeed, the problem of cultivators in the nine-level nine-level cultivation world refining the yin and yang energy was solved so easily by Zhao Chaogang. It would be strange if Zhao Chaogang was not confident!

"Hehehe..., Chaogang is now like a peacock spreading its wings, extremely proud!" Liu Jingjing on the side pointed out Zhao Chaogang's pride directly, causing a hint of blush on Zhao Chaogang's face. He was embarrassed by Liu Jingjing's words.

"Jingjing, if you do this, let's see how I deal with you later. You must know that you are the only one now, so..., hehe...!" Zhao Chaogang smiled indifferently. This was what Liu Jingjing said, "It's a bit unlucky to come to Taiwan, so he directly began to threaten Liu Jingjing.

"Sister Pingping, look at Chaogang!" Liu Jingjing had some ways to deal with Zhao Chaogang, and asking Li Liping to complain was one of the ways. For Li Liping, Zhao Chaogang ended in a complete defeat every time, so Li Liping could be regarded as Liu Jingjing's savior.

"Chao Gang..." Li Liping called Zhao Chao Gang, and there was a hint of blame inside the shout. It was obvious that she was helping Liu Jingjing.

"Okay, I surrender!" Zhao Chaogang was very straightforward. As soon as Li Liping said, he surrendered immediately. This was not that Zhao Chaogang was a 'tracheitis', but that this was how Zhao Chaogang and his wife got along.

There are always some contradictions when couples get along with each other. Once these contradictions arise, couples have to find some solutions to these contradictions. I believe that many couples have such a thing.

All the scenes that exist between husband and wife, all the various things that happen after marriage, happy, sad, inspirational, painful, sweet, happy, and the tastes are all in marriage. Therefore, marriage is complex and hard, and can be said to be involved in all aspects and full of contradictions.

Life after marriage is like trying hands, knowing the warmth and coldness of a marriage. How couples get along determines the direction of a marriage. In daily life, conflicts between couples will intensify due to multiple quarrels. Therefore, the conflicts and frictions between couples will fill the entire marriage. If they are not dealt with carefully, they will become a marriage crisis.

Just like a manic and restless child, if you do not comfort him in time, but swear and violently, he will immediately break out and turn into a wild horse. Therefore, when conflicts between husband and wife occur, you must know how to get along and learn to manage your own marriage.

In the marriage life, couples will encounter many problems and contradictions. The two people have lived in different environments since childhood, two lifestyles and two ways of thinking. The two ideas will have many opinions, opinions and opinions. This is a natural thing and is inevitable in family relationships.

The problem is how to solve the conflict when encountering conflicts. Whether you can face it with correct thinking and correct attitude, whether your actions can be recognized and supported by most people is reasonable or not. This is the most important thing.

Marriage requires two people to run together. The two of them fell in love together for many years and experienced so many ups and downs together, both sweet and bitter. It is okay to have a good relationship, but how can they not resolve the conflict when encountering conflicts? It is really inappropriate!

There are some conflicts between husband and wife, and even noisy. This is normal, and there is no big deal.

As the saying goes, "Teen and tongue are so good, there will be times when you bite them." What's more, two individuals with different growth environments, different family backgrounds, different experiences, different knowledge, and different thoughts. They live together for a long time and face the ups and downs of life, how can there be no conflicts? How can there be no noise?

The world itself is in the interweaving of contradictions, such as top and bottom, height and short, front and back, big and small, day and night, winter and summer, rain and sun... It is normal to have contradictions, but it is terrible to have contradictions without contradictions. It is precisely because of contradictions that this world continues to develop in the emergence of contradictions, entanglement and reconciliation.

Just imagine, if there were no contradictions in this world, what kind of situation would it be? If there were only sunshine, no storm, only day, no night, only spring, no winter, only men, no women, only sweetness, no bitterness, only... If you were to let you live in such a world, would you be willing? Will your emotions still be as rich as it is now? Is it hard to imagine what it feels like to live in such a world!

However, we cannot deliberately create conflicts, and we cannot expand them. We cannot use a magnifying glass to magnify conflicts, turn small things into big things, and big things to the point where they cannot be reconciled and resolved.

We must understand that in life, there are some conflicts and some quarrels, it is as normal as the sun is sunny, rainy, and the sun is coming out. There is nothing strange about it. There is no need to take them to heart, and don’t easily say the word “divorce” because of this. Some people, after a conflict, do not find a way to reconcile, but always want to “divorce”, as if only this is the best way to solve the problem.

In life, some couples divorce is not because of the breakdown of their relationship, but because of a temporary aura. No one knows the preciousness of giving in. They often use "divorce" and threaten the Shangfang sword with no time, and eventually they are in an inexhaustible way. You should know that the word "divorce" is a "double-edged sword". When this sword is unsheathed and you wield it, it is not only the other party, but also yourself; what is destroyed is your originally warm marriage and sweet home.

It is not scary to have conflicts between husband and wife. The key lies in what kind of mentality we treat. Different mentality will naturally have different results.

Some couples are quarreling all their lives on the surface, but why do they hold hands until they are old without divorce? Some couples seem to be loving and sweet on the surface, giving people a feeling of "a role model", but why can't they grow old together? This is a question that we must think deeply about.

In their eyes, marriage is the home and the nest for their homes. They regard conflicts in life as seasonings. As long as there is no harm and no impact on this home and this nest, things will pass, and they will not care about it or take it to heart. You must know that in today's society where life is faster than airplanes, no one will avoid the pressure of life or work. If these pressures are not effectively released, they will cause harm to people's psychology like chronic poisons.

Appropriate noise between husband and wife is actually a way to relieve stress. As long as it is used properly, it should be said that it is the best way to relieve stress.

Speaking of this, one thing must be emphasized, that is, no matter how noisy you make, you must pay attention to your sense of duty. You cannot use the excuse of being under pressure to quarrel and quarrel, and you must be restrained. During the quarrel, if the other party loses his mind and has excessive words and behaviors, we must also tolerate it with a tolerant attitude and must not be confronted. But when everyone is relatively calm, point it out again. In this way, the other party will be more likely to accept it.

Now, let's turn to look at the couples who seem to be loving and finally break up halfway. Why can't they grow old together? Is the relationship broken? Or is there something else?

These couples seem to be loving on the surface. In fact, they do not understand what love is; they do not know that the sublimation of love is marriage, and the essence of marriage is family and nest. Although they have entered the palace of marriage, their feelings are still in the love stage and have not been sublimated. They regard marriage as too sacred and mysterious, and treat and care as eyes, so they cannot tolerate even half a grain of sand. Once there is a conflict, they cannot accept it and are at a loss, so that the conflict cannot be reconciled and resolved, and eventually lead to parting ways.

What is marriage? To put it bluntly, it means that two people of different genders and have a certain emotional foundation (love) voluntarily combine together for a long time, and this long-term life relationship is determined by national laws and protected by national laws. If we put it bluntly, marriage is the home built by two people of different genders who live together for a long time.

Although two people in marriage are not related by blood, they are the closest people in the world when they live together day and night, because other relationships are derived from husband and wife relationships.

In married life, since the partner is the closest we are in this world, and it is through searching and falling in love that we finally decide to live together for a long time. How can we easily say the word "divorce"? How can we wield that double-edged sword casually and destroy the carefully managed home? If it is not absolutely possible, it is not possible to break the relationship that cannot be broken, it is best not to say the word "divorce"!

In reality, many divorced couples have a feeling: "Why do I understand why I live now? But if I understand, can time go backwards?"

From this point of view, it is impossible to resolve some conflicts between husband and wife in a short time. At some point, instead of being red and red in a quarrel, it is better to put the problem aside first, because husband and wife conflicts require a process of cleaning up, digesting, summarizing and absorbing. If you can't hurry, you have to face them one by one, and the effect will definitely be better.

If you are so angry, don't talk, stand up and go out

Also, when a couple has conflicts, you must pay attention to a few points:

1. Don't run away from home

After a quarrel, either party should not run away from home and never return, as this will make the relationship between the couple even more rigid. But don’t be particularly annoyed because the spouse is wrong to run away from home. Sometimes, perhaps the spouse is also a cold way for both parties to deal with it. She lets her go, wait for three days or a few days, the man will be more stubborn and take the spouse home in time and take the initiative to take the spouse home. Otherwise, the more angry you are because of her run away, the more she will run away.

2. Don't quarrel with your wife about your child

When a wife and her child have a conflict, then you should pull her away from her and then relieve her anger. Don’t distinguish who is right and who is wrong.

Third, don't be angry because your wife says you are not in front of others.

When you often have conflicts, when she often tells you what you are wrong in front of others, especially in front of your common friends or colleagues, don’t mind. After all, everyone will understand it over time. And after all, others’ impression of you is not important. The key is that you must properly handle the relationship between husband and wife. If you are happy, it is the best.

4. More communication

When facing the incident of Ni Zhen stealing, Zhou Huimin shouted: "My partner can definitely afford this mistake." Therefore, if you choose to repair the relationship between husband and wife, then let go of the so-called face, take the initiative to get back together and communicate with your lover in time. Never wait for the other party to surrender first because of worrying about face. That may cause a long period of cold war and grief, because the cold war is also one of the killers that destroy the relationship between husband and wife. Besides, lovers are not enemies, and there is no unilateral hatred. What's more, he just commits life locks, not stealing food. What's wrong with it? You can also tell him generously: "In fact, not only you are wrong, but I am also wrong."

Five, garbage can

A garbage can is indispensable in life, and a garbage can be used in marriage, which can come in new use. After the conflict between husband and wife is resolved, don’t mention the old things again. Don’t take out the previous things when the conflict occurs next time, and nag them endlessly. Instead, you must learn to settle every matter and throw all the conflicts that affect the relationship between husband and wife into the garbage can, and completely eliminate them, otherwise there will be endless troubles.

6. Cold treatment

When an quarrel occurs, both parties must follow the principle of "cold handling" and do not always want to gain the upper hand. You cannot insist on obeying your own point of view. Because when both parties are not calm in their minds, some problems will be difficult to explain clearly. Let's calm down for a while and deal with them after the anger is gone, which will be easier to solve.

7. Listen to the other party’s opinions

Neither party should only emphasize his own reasoning and not pay attention to the other party's opinions.

Eight, suppress impulses

When explaining your opinions, you should explain the truth calmly, don’t be too impulsive, and the voice should not be too loud. If you have reason, don’t be loud, so that the other party will not think that you are suppressing others with power.

Nine, don't expose the shortcoming

Do not attack the other party's weaknesses or expose the other party's weaknesses during quarrels. Do not expand the scope of arguments and settle old accounts, otherwise it will only intensify the conflict and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

10. Don't beat and scold

You cannot use insults instead of reasoning, and you cannot do anything to avoid causing irreparable mental trauma. To be honest, when you are angry, any problem cannot be solved between husband and wife. Apart from fighting, it is a divorce, and no problem cannot be solved. At this time, you can only deal with it in a cold manner. Either you run away from home or she runs away from home. Both parties avoid it, and this is the only way.

Eleven, try to be tolerant

If one party is physically and mentally exhausted or encountering unpleasant things and is in a irritable mood, the other party should try to avoid quarrels. Because at this time, the other party is often irrational or prone to excitement, it is difficult for both parties to communicate.

Twelve, red light

After the conflict between husband and wife arises, the parties should display the 'red light' in time, stop quarrels, and hang up the truce sign. Otherwise, the good husband will quarrel for you. Remember that a friend said, "Once a quarrel with my husband, I quarrel for a week, from early morning to early morning. Her husband was so angry that he threw the pillow, "Do you still want to sleep? You can't live this day." After such a fuss, he finally woke her up. Timely truce is more conducive to restoring the relationship between husband and wife than quarrel.

Thirteen, no blockage, separation

After a couple has a quarrel, do not live in separate rooms or beds, and ignore each other. This will make the mood of both parties more difficult to calm down and will not be conducive to the improvement of the relationship between the couple.

Fourteen, don't hold grudges to each other

After a quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, don’t regard yourself as the winner, or the loser is mentally disrespectful. It is common for a couple to quarrel together. In fact, no one is right or wrong. You can only work together to live a good life.

Fifteen, don't talk about divorce easily

No party should threaten the other party by divorce, as this can easily lead to misunderstandings, and sometimes it will make false and become true, resulting in uncontrollable consequences that you don’t want to see.

Sixteen, pour cold water

When you are furious, pour a basin of cold water on yourself in time to cool down, think rationally, judge right and wrong calmly, organize your emotions, and reflect on yourself from beginning to end. At critical moments, don’t ignore thinking from the perspective of your lover. Thinking from the perspective of others may save your marriage.

Seventeen, no punishment

After some couples have a conflict, although they have a quarrel, the two sides have entered another harsh "cold war" period. They ignore each other and are even punished by sexually and are lukewarm with their lover. As a result, when your anger fades, you will find that he (she) seems to have changed, withdrawn, indifferent, silent, and less interested in the couple's life they originally long for. The relationship between husband and wife is thus cast a shadow that is difficult to remove.

Therefore, it is unwise to use "sex--punishment" to resolve conflicts between husband and wife. Sex is not a kind of "allowing" and "punishment condition" between husband and wife. It is a kind of emotional communication that both men and women need, and an important bond to maintain the relationship between both parties.

As long as you pay attention to these aspects, no matter how big the conflicts there are, the wedding banquet will not be allowed to fall into a dead end. The couples get along with each other must understand and support each other. Only in this way can the couple achieve spiritual unity!

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The way of getting along with a couple is a great question, and Zhao Chaogang will certainly not underestimate it. Therefore, before getting married, Zhao Chaogang had a full understanding of it. Zhao Chaogang had already made a complete preparation for how to get along with Pingping and Jingjing after getting married. Especially because Zhao Chaogang was very guilty of Li Liping because he married Liu Jingjing at the same time, Zhao Chaogang gave all the strength of the family to Li Liping.

Isn’t there an old saying, “The male leads the outside and the female leads the inside!” Zhao Chaogang now handed over the full strength of the family to Li Liping. It’s not a big deal. The family’s affairs should be left to his wife to be responsible. Only outside things or major things are the husband responsible.

A husband is the pillar of a family and the umbrella of a family. Once the family faces any huge blow, as a husband, you have to stand up and do your best to deal with it. This is the responsibility and obligation of the husband to the family!
To be continued...