"Dad, Dad..." Nannan jumped and rushed towards Zhao Chaogang. When Zhao Chaogang saw Nannan rushing towards him, he hurried forward and hugged Nannan, for fear that Nannan would fall.

"Nannan, be careful in the future and don't just rush over like this. If you fall and get hurt, then your father will feel heartbroken." Zhao Chaogang slapped the dust on Nannan's body while warning Nannan.

"Well, dad, Nannan knows." Nannan nodded obediently, then she looked at Li Liping and Liu Jingjing and the others with excitement, and boasted loudly to them: "Mom, Jingjing Mom, I just went swimming with the dolphin baby with my dad. It's really fun."

This is how children like to show off. They can’t help but show off to others if they have good things, or if they get praises, or if they have fun things. This is the nature of children.

"Oh, that mother really envies you Nannan, why don't you call me when you go to play?" Li Liping cooperated and showed an envious look, and stepped forward to help Zhao Chaogang sort out the wrinkles on Nannan's clothes.

"Look, Nannan, you're so crazy about playing with your clothes. Nannan, don't we play like this in the future, ah?" Li Liping helped Nannan smooth her clothes while reminding Nannan.

"Well, mom, Nannan knows!" Nannan answered very readily, and it seemed that Nannan was indeed very obedient, but soon, Nannan revealed her true nature.

"Dad, can we still play with the dolphin baby? We will go together in the afternoon. Mom and Jingjing's mother have not played with the dolphin baby yet. I have to accompany Mom and Jingjing's mother to play with the dolphin baby."

Nannan's face looked like she was considering Li Liping and Liu Jingjing. It seemed that she went to play with the dolphin baby not because Nannan liked it, but Li Liping and Liu Jingjing liked it. Such a little adult made Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping laugh and laughed: "Hahahahaha..."

"Mom, Dad..." Nannan was very confused about Zhao Chaogang and the others' laughter.

"Nannan, didn't my mother say that, don't lie, why are you lying now?" Li Liping ignored Nannan's doubts, and she opened a book and talked about Nannan's coming.

"Mom, Nannan didn't say anything..." Under Li Liping's stern and gaze, Nannan couldn't say the last word of panic. She pouted in grievance and apologized: "Mom, Nannan was wrong, Nannan shouldn't have lie!"

"Okay, okay, Pingping, Nannan has apologized, so don't talk about her anymore." Zhao Chaogang, who was still on the side, couldn't stand it anymore. So, before Li Liping spoke, she stood up and said nice things to Nannan.

"Come on, Nannan. Come to Dad." Zhao Chaogang stretched out his hands to Nannan. Nannan did not hesitate and ran into Zhao Chaogang's arms very quickly. Then he buried his head in Zhao Chaogang's arms and stopped coming out.

And he kept muttering: "Mom is a bad mother. Nannan doesn't like her mother anymore. Nannan will only like her father in the future. Dad, Nannan will only like you in the future, okay?"

Nannan's words were so childish that Li Liping, who was on the other side, patted her forehead speechlessly.

"Okay, okay, Nannan only likes dad, and dad only likes dad." Zhao Chaogang continued to follow Nannan's words, which made Nannan very happy. She couldn't help but hug Zhao Chaogang's neck tightly and said coquettishly to Zhao Chaogang: "Dad is the best, Nannan likes dad the most, um..., boo...!"

In joy, Nannan kissed Zhao Chaogang's face heavily, and then laughed "giggled..."

"Chaogang, you are really. No matter how much you spoil Nannan, if Nannan learns bad things in the future, it will be your responsibility." Li Liping said Zhao Chaogang angrily. Li Liping was very dissatisfied with Zhao Chaogang's spoiling Nannan like this.

In fact, Li Liping is so dissatisfied. It’s not that Li Liping is really dissatisfied. She is also very nervous about her daughter Li Liping. Li Liping will scold her, but she has never beaten her, which shows that she is also very nervous about her daughter Li Liping.

So why does Li Liping say that to Zhao Chaogang now? The reason is very simple, that is, Li Liping is jealous of Zhao Chaogang. Originally, Nannan has always been close to Li Liping, but now she is even more close to Zhao Chaogang, which makes Li Liping jealous.

I believe everyone understands what jealousy means and has experienced it personally. The feeling of sourness that comes out of my heart is definitely something that will be unforgettable for a lifetime.

When a man and a woman fall in love, a third party intervenes, and jealousy often occurs. What exactly is "jealousy"?

It turned out that Emperor Taizong of Tang Li Shimin gave Fang Xuanling several beauties as concubines, but the house did not dare to accept it. Li Shimin expected that the wife of the house was a shrew and refused to agree.

So Emperor Taizong of Tang sent eunuchs to order Mrs. Fang to take a pot of "poisonous wine". If they did not accept these beautiful concubines, they would give them poisonous wine.

The lady was not afraid and took the "poisonous wine" and drank it all. When Mrs. Fang finished drinking it with tears, she found that it was not poisonous wine in the forest. She did not die, but was a strong vinegar with a sweet and sour aroma.

The emperor used this to test her and made a joke.

So the story of "jealousy" has become a story that has been passed down through the ages.

In modern life, some people are jealous and jealous when they see others being praised or rewarded, and are also nicknamed "jealousy". From then on, they combine "jealousy" and "jealousy" and "jealousy" become a metaphor for jealousy.

Originally, this allusion was just a legend and there were not many written records. However, in the 31st chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions", Mr. Cao Xueqin, a famous Chinese writer, linked "jealousy" with "jealousy".

The original text is written like this: "Xiren heard this... He had to endure it and said, 'Sister, you go out for a walk, it's not ours." Qingfei heard her say 'we', so naturally she and Baoyu became jealous again...."

After writing by Mr. Cao, the meaning of jealousy in "Cihai" is added to the meaning of jealousy: "I feel sad because of jealousy." "Jealousy" is extended to "jealousy". This is also the result.

The legendary "Swallow Note" of the Ming Dynasty also records that "the two of them just want to be jealous and don't look like they are."

As we all know, if a man and a woman develop jealousy, or even quarrels or fights, it is commonly known as "jealousy" or "twist (twist) sour and jealousy". Then why is jealousy linked to vinegar? There are three statements to trace the root cause.

The first one is called the "Lion Roar Theory". Some modern classics hold this theory. The main basis is the "Zaige Zhixinlu" about "the world compares the lion with jealous women. "Su Wenxian Tongkao" records: "The lion eats vinegar every day, and each cheese is one bottle. "The jealousy is based on this."

Li Rihua, a eruditionist in the Ming Dynasty, said in "Zhidezhong (1565-1635", in "Zi Taoxuan Redeem", "Zhengdezhong (1506-1521 AD). Lion House No. 2 eclipses one live sheep, four taels of white sugar, two bottles of sheep milk, and two bottles of vinegar..." It shows that lions do have the habit of eating vinegar, so what does lion eat vinegar have to do with jealous women? It turns out that there is an allusion about "The Roar of the Lion in Hedong".

Buddhist scriptures say that "a lion roars and a hundred beasts hide", so Buddhists use "a lion roar" to describe the majesty of the Buddha's preaching sound that shocks the world.

Su Dongpo, a great poet of the Song Dynasty, had a friend named Chen Jichang. His wife, Liu, was a very jealous woman. Whenever Chen Jichang had a banquet for guests and had a singing girl accompany him, Liu would knock on the wall with a wooden stick and scold the guests away.

Chen Jichang usually likes to talk about Buddhist affairs, but afterwards Su Dongpo used lion roar drama to describe his fierce wife's angry scolding. He wrote a long poem titled "Send to Wu Deren and scribbling Chen Jichang. There are a few sentences in it: "Mr. Dongpo has no money... only his hair is unforgettable. The lay Buddhist Longqiu is also pitiful, and he talks about it and says he can't sleep at night. Suddenly, he heard the roar of a lion in Hedong, and his palms fell down with his hands."

The Longqiu lay Buddhist in the poem refers to Chen Jichang; Hedong borrows the poem "The daughter of Hedong is named Liu" from the Tang Dynasty poet Du Fu's poem "The daughter of Hedong is named Liu" and implies Chen's wife Liu. In addition, Liu is also a noble surname in Hedong County (now Shan === West === Province).

This poem vividly describes the author's embarrassment, Liu's fierceness and Ji Chang's helplessness.

Later, people used "Hedong Lion Roar" as a synonym for jealous wives and shrewd wives.

The second type is called the "bad vinegar theory". Some people in the Qing Dynasty believed that the jealousy theory originated from a prejudice.

In some southern regions, people believe that two tanks of vinegar should not be brewed at the same time in a family, otherwise one tank will break. Therefore, two tanks of vinegar should not coexist in a family at the same time.

It is a metaphor: only monogamous should be maintained in a family, otherwise jealousy will inevitably arise between wives and concubines.

As early as the Southern and Northern Dynasties, "Qimin Yaoshu" mentioned the phenomenon of "bad vinegar" many times. It can be seen that the difficulty of brewing is obvious.

However, the idea that two tanks of home brewed can be broken is far-fetched, but it reflects the people's hopes for a monogamous marriage system.

The third type is called "sour taste theory". There is a passage in the 27th chapter of the Qing Dynasty chapter "The Legend of the Heroes of Children": "Don't be jealous if you sell sweet sauce. If you make money by selling sweet sauce, you will suffer from a jealousy child. You will have a beautiful name for a 'jealous lady'."

It seems that this passage by Wen Kang, the author of the novel, was inspired by the practical activities of buying vinegar and eating vinegar.

In ancient my country, vinegar was the main sour seasoning. It can be extended to be sour and sour; sour and painful, so people linked jealousy to jealousy to metaphorically sadness.

Sometimes it is also called jealousy and jealousy. For example, Chapter 31 of "Dream of Red Mansions": "Qingwen heard him (referring to Xiren) say the word "we". Of course, it was him and Baoyu, so she didn't feel jealous again..."

There are synonyms of jealousy, such as jealousy, jealousy and jealousy in the wind. The second chapter of the novel "Qingye Bell" of the late Ming Dynasty novel "The Stoneman Fan Ba... is afraid that Chen is jealous... and is afraid that Chen is blamed for him";

The 45th chapter of the Qing Dynasty novel "The Scholars" also contains a plot about "The two wives of the Ling family are confused... jealous and quarreling."

People also call those who show jealousy who love to be vinegar jars, vinegar jars, vinegar bowls, vinegar jars, vinegar jars or vinegar bottles.

Sometimes, unreasonable jealousy is called jealousy. For example, in the drama "Baihuating", there is "I have called him a few times. They are all because of his love for me. Why are you doing this jealousy?"

Some people wrote a book saying that the Tang people's "Chaoye Qianzai" records that Fang Xuanling's wife was so jealous, and Li Shimin once gave him a pot of jealousy. "So there was a 'jealousy' scripture."

After verification, the "Chaoye Qianzai" records an anecdote about Ren Guan, the Minister of War: Emperor Taizong of Tang Dynasty, Li Shimin, gave Ren Guan's custody. When he heard that the palace maid was persecuted by Ren's wife, Li Shimin was furious and sent a wine to "drink it and die" to shock him. Ren's wife drank it all, but the wine was not poisoned.

Liu Xi of the Tang Dynasty recorded similar stories about the Zhongshu Ling Fang Xuanling in the book "Jiahua of Sui and Tang Dynasties": In the early Tang Dynasty, Fang Xuanling made contributions to assisting, Emperor Taizong of Tang wanted to reward him with a beautiful woman several times, but he was politely rejected. Later, he heard that the Fang family had a jealous wife, and the queen personally took the initiative to do work for his wife Lu. She also failed.

Li Shimin was angry and said that if he insisted on his mistake, there would be only a dead end. Lu still refused to surrender and said that he would rather die from jealousy.

Emperor Taizong of Tang asked someone to make a pot of wine and said, "If this is the case, just drink this poisonous wine!" Lu took it up and drank it all. In fact, the pot of wine did not poison it.

Later, Li Shimin said: "I am still afraid of seeing her, let alone Fang Xuanling!"

According to the "New Book of Tang Dynasty Biography of Women", Fang Xuanling and his wife were very loving.

I got seriously ill in my room in my early years and said, "I'm afraid I won't be cured. You are still young, so let's start another family in the future!"

Lu cried and gritted his teeth and blinded his eyes to express his determination to end one's life.

Fang Xuanling recovered soon after, and the two eventually grew old together. It seems that these two allusions about jealous wife have nothing to do with jealousy.

With the popularization and development of the brewing industry, vinegar has not only gradually entered the field of social life, but also integrated into people's psychological activities and moral relations. Therefore, there should be relevant reflections in literary works of the Tang Dynasty.

After a lot of hooking and sinking work, precious clues were finally discovered in the document treasure house of Mingshashan Grottoes in Dunhuang.

In "The Great Joy of the Heaven and Earth Yin and Yang" there are already sentences about "When you hear jealousy, you always think of a woman who is a chaff; you are desolate and unrequited. How can you think of a girl who is a pillow and a mat?"

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Looking at the content of the whole sentence, the relationship between vinegar and jealousy is vividly revealed on paper.

The author of this famous fu is Bai Xingjian, the younger brother of the Tang Dynasty poet Bai Juyi, so it can be determined that the "marriage" between "jealousy" and "jealousy" should be traced back to the Tang Dynasty.

To sum up, the saying "sorbing sore and jealous" should originate from the Tang Dynasty. The "liu roar theory" in the Song Dynasty was its tributary, while the "bad jealousy theory" in the Qing Dynasty could only be a kind of connotation.

In fact, jealousy is a normal psychological reaction, a different manifestation of love and care. Subconsciously, it is a protection that is exclusive to feelings and fear of losing.

In love or marriage, if two people turn a blind eye to each other and don’t eat any jealousy, love will become light and tasteless. Occasionally, you may be able to "eat" a vast world for mediocre and trivial life, but if you are jealous, it will be too much or too much.

In emotions, jealousy is a common psychological feeling. Even if you fall in love deeply, one of them will be jealous because of an event.

Rational jealousy will not lead to extreme measures, but will only allow you to deal with love when you encounter emotional problems, that is, make up for your own love and tie the other person firmly with more perfect love.

Jealousy seems to be a derogatory term, but in fact, jealousy has a very positive effect.

First of all, being jealous can deepen the relationship between the two parties.

When love is deeply meaningful, one party deliberately eats the jealousy of his imaginary rival in front of his love in order to show his love. The purpose is to remind him of the love, give him an epidemic prevention shot, and let him relive his vows and repay "I am the one who belongs to you". In this way, he will eliminate the thoughts of his love and monopolize the love he loves.

This is a jealous top-quality product, but it is not suitable to eat it often. Eating it once is enough. Eating too much will hurt both parties' relationships.

Secondly, being jealous can test whether the other party’s feelings for him are real and profound?

After expressing love many times, I learned that the person I liked had promised me and had devoted my love to another person. Although the feeling was so sour in my heart, I would never continue to entangle the person I like or love, but I sincerely wish her or him to find true happiness. This is a jealous and worthy of praise.

Finally, I would like to warn that excessive jealousy will worsen the relationship between the two parties.

Even though you know that the person you like or love is distracted, the love is no longer in yourself, and the emotional gap between the two parties cannot be compensated. If you are unwilling to give up, you still have to break the jealous jar. When you are jealous, you will be evil and will be brave enough to lead to a tragedy that will eventually lead to a tragedy that will eventually lead to a death-death battle, and even bring disaster to the innocent. This is a jealousy and makes people sigh and can't help but say: It's not worth it.

Jealousy is not limited to us adults, but also to children and even babies.

A study by Maple Leaf Guoyou-Ke--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

The expert team conducted four experiments on 50 3-month-old, 6-month-old babies. The experimental report shows that when mothers turn their attention to others (such as chat or other forms of interaction), 3-month-old babies usually kick their legs and make sounds. The conclusions drawn by this study are different from some existing theories.

The existing theory believes that babies will not begin to show more complex psychology such as jealousy, shyness, and pride until they are 2 years old.
To be continued...