Zhou You waved his hand and said, "Just listen to me. Raising a child is boring and troublesome, but in fact it is also very meaningful. She gave me a perspective and witnessed a person growing from nothing to something, from an animal that relies on instinct to a human being in a civilized world. She will make every mistake I have made, eat every loss I have suffered, and then understand the meaning of life bit by bit and know what is worth cherishing. But this process is not smooth, such as her now-"

Zhou You said and pointed to the dormitory building, and there was still a sound of Wonton coming from inside. He said distressedly: "She did not complete the learning progress according to my idea, because I always instinctively prefer the little girl, and let her play around with sweets, and did not fulfill her obligation to tutor her in studies. As a guardian, I must be unqualified."

"I can't control my spoiling for children." Pai Daxing pointed his head, "My cognitive level is abominable and thinks they are ignorant and barbaric, but on the perceptual level, they still cannot resist the smiles of children. My opinion is most likely wrong, but in my eyes, children are the devil who "kidnapped your life with a smile."

"You are really an extreme personality, but what I want to say is not who kidnapped whom, but how should I deal with it already." Zhou Youbi said, "I used to think that I had a clear mind and knew how to educate my children, but when I really faced her, I realized my powerlessness, her willfulness, my instincts, and my requirements. These things will be intertwined and become a mess. At the same time, I have to be busy with my affairs. Sometimes I really can't do it and don't know how to face her."

Pai Daxing nodded and said, "Many parents do fill their children with interest classes and use money to transfer the responsibility of education. While they are famous for their comprehensive development, they use interest classes to relieve their guilt of not being able to accompany their children."

"The interest class is of course a solution, but the problem is that the skills learned are all skills, whether it is Chinese, mathematics, music and dance, and children do not have the ability to understand those skills at all, so they can only memorize them by rote. In an era where farming is the main focus, this problem is not big. Children may only need to master the skills of farming to deal with everything, but it is obviously not possible now. You don't know what skills you need in the future, let alone what kind of person your children will grow into."

Pai Daxing nodded frequently: "Indeed, what children need to master is not a certain skill, but a skill to learn a certain skill."

"Yes. So in my eyes, modern education should be to give children the ability to learn and be good at thinking, while maintaining mental health and not to get into misunderstandings. Once such education is achieved, children can learn all skills freely and re-examine their behavioral thoughts and values ​​in the meantime." Zhou You turned his head and said, "At this point, I think 99% of the guardians, including me, are negligent."

Paid Star said with his chin: "My culture and education undoubtedly value practical effects, or directly attaches tradition to it."

"But now the situation is different. All parents realize the importance of education. Unfortunately, they don't know what to do. They just blindly enroll in interest classes to cultivate skills and only teach infertility."

"If we don't say anything, our entire education system is like this, which also explains the fact that our education is decoupled from quality, morality, and three views." The Pai Daxing Speaker pointed to himself again, "When I say this, I am a typical example of high-level moral corruption, and my personality is very poor, and I can easily get into blind spots and go to extremes."

"I agree with your self-depreciation." Zhou Youbi said, "Then is there a 'education system' that allows children to develop healthily in the direction I described, rather than rote memorization, and rely on mechanical learning and oppression to master some skills. I want to say that the existing educational theories lag too much behind this era."

"This is a research in the field of education..." Paid Xing bowed his head and fell into deep thought. "Unfortunately, pedagogy is also a science, which requires a lot of practical observations and comparisons to form a conclusion. Even if there are new theories, it is difficult to verify."

"Then look for the basis from existing theories. I believe there must be many scholars studying and many achievements. But those achievements are too boring and forgotten in the ivory tower, covered with dust." Zhou You nodded, "And you have the ability to make them vivid, interesting and practical."

"Well... this is indeed a breakthrough in demand." Pai Daxing recalled, "Five years ago, I saw a video of a female educator on how to educate children. The content was probably that it could not satisfy the child blindly. When the child cried for an unreasonable request, he could neither satisfy nor beat and scold him. Instead, he used a normal attitude to make him realize that 'not how you want it', and experienced 'setbacks', and then guided the child to realize that 'persevere efforts will gain', 'long-term vision can benefit more

’Wait the facts. Although children educated in this way may not necessarily become successful, they will not at least become people who output negative energy. The scholar's statement is very good and practical. Then, I saw this video three years ago, and I saw it again a year ago, and recently I saw it again - in five years, the interest class exploded dozens of times, and even the freaks like 'children's programming' have popped up, but in terms of 'non-skill education', there has been no progress in educational content, and this video is still being reprinted over and over again."

After Paid Xing's speech, he pursed his lips again: "The difficulty is that the content in this area is too professional, it takes a long time to prepare, and it needs to consult many scholars, and then design the expression method to make it interesting and practical... it is very difficult. But it is undeniable that if the theory is sound and reliable and spread widely enough, it will be a very effective thing for society, and it will also make money."

"Yes." Zhou You also sighed, "In addition, I think it can also resolve the conflict in your heart."

"The conflict in my heart?"

"I thought you were an 'emotional official account' at first, but now I know that you are the leader of the navy, but it doesn't matter. The meaning is almost the same. They all use the stupidity of a large number of people to achieve their goals." Zhou You joked, "It's not convenient to reveal why you are doing this?"

"Money." Pai Daxing waved his hand and smiled.

"Why are you doing this?" Zhou You asked again, but he didn't seem to hear that answer.
Chapter completed!