232、You can't see Jin Ruyi(2/2)
Shang Ni: "The easiest way is to plant tea trees in a flower pot as big as a tank, and then transport them in like a pot... Well, this idea is really stupid, so why not just plant it outside."
Zhuang Mengzhou: "It's stupid, but it's really feasible. A big boss like him will not bother to show off."
Ding Qi sighed: "This person is very interesting and very clever!"
Zhuang Mengzhou: "Oh, what do Teacher Ding thinks?"
Ding Qi: "No matter how rich the boss, how big the official, how knowledgeable the expert, or how fierce the gangster, the characteristics of some aspects are no different from those of others. There is no need to complicate and mysterious it, especially from the perspective of psychological analysis, they all follow the common model. This is what the mentor specifically emphasized when I was a psychoanalyst.
A big boss and a small employee may encounter different things, but there is no difference in their psychological problems. We just need to observe the behavioral characteristics reflected by his behavioral patterns, which are the common human nature as the saying goes. The psychological characteristics of Tian Zhongluo's behavioral reaction are not complicated, first of all, a transfer and compensation psychology."
A Quan smiled and said, "Teacher Ding is in class again!"
Shang Ni: "Don't interrupt, don't speak randomly in class, let Teacher Ding speak well!"
Ding Qi continued: "Many people who like to show off and even disgusted are often subconsciously inferior, both strong and lack self-confidence, so they are eager to make people pay attention to their existence in some way.
This kind of person is often very sensitive and often in a state of self-doubt. After all, it is because of the lack of self-fullness and inclusiveness that it is necessary to use such an external form to gain a sense of satisfaction of being paid attention to."
Xian Hao interrupted, "I have seen many such people, but it seems that this is not the case in Tian Zhongluo. Boss Tian is not confident."
Ding Qi nodded and said, "Yes, Tian Zhongluo is another situation, a little more complicated. This person is actually not pretending to be arrogant. The fact is just the opposite. He is already very, very low-key. Needless to say, the identity of the Lord of the Qiyan Realm is impossible to publicly promote it outside. Having such a piece of the outer world but cannot be known to people. It is like walking in the night in a brocade clothes.
On the other hand, although I don’t know what business he does, I must be very rich and do a lot of business and successful business. He should have a lot of contacts in some small circles of political and business, but in the public opinion, who knows that such a successful entrepreneur and collector is like him? I haven’t even heard of it, and I can’t even find his news on the Internet.”
Zhuang Mengzhou interrupted again: "Even if there is news, I'm afraid I'll have to delete it with a public relations company. The transactions he does are not suitable for exposure, and he has always been behind the scenes. Some news that cannot be deleted will also bribe search engines and put them on dozens of pages of keyword search. Anyway, you won't notice it."
Ding Qi: "That's right! This person will never be inferior. On the contrary, he should be very confident and even conceited. He can have a world outside and have such a successful career, but he has to choose a low-key way of survival. Deep in his heart, he will definitely think that if he makes another choice, he will definitely become famous all over the world.
As long as he has this kind of subconsciousness, he will have inner conflicts. This inner conflict is not necessarily a psychological abnormality, it is a very normal phenomenon. Therefore, in daily life, he will be compensated in another way, and he is particularly generous. Everyone around him respects him very much. At first glance, he is a very tall figure, which is in line with his own psychological positioning."
Zhuang Mengzhou narrowed his eyes and said, "It's interesting, but it's not entirely the reason, right?"
Ding Qi: "Of course it's not entirely the reason, so I said that this person is very clever and a veteran in the world. His behavior not only reflects a psychological transfer and compensation, but also a means of role protection."
Shangni: "Role cover? I haven't heard of this."
Ding Qi: "Simply put, it is to play a role, and the audience sees this role. Use a prominent behavioral feature to attract all attention, so that everyone can only pay attention to this feature, and invisibly ignore many other things. Tian Zhongluo's approach is very simple, just to show off his style, and what is particular about is not necessarily pomp but atmosphere.
For example, this time he followed with two subordinates, one sipped with Master Tian, one served a tea cup and one carried a bag, and only drank the tea brought from Qiyan Realm. How simple this person is, so simple that you can only see him pretending at a glance, and you already have a preconceived impression when dealing with him, but you don’t know that this impression was what he gave you on purpose…”
Zhuang Mengzhou laughed and said, "It's not simple, it's really not simple!"
Ding Qi: "It's really not simple. When a person shows a certain characteristic that is too strong, many other details are often ignored."
Zhuang Mengzhou: "I mean, Teacher Ding, you are not simple either!"
Shang Ni asked curiously: "Mr. Zhuang, when we first met, you joked with Tian Zhongluo and said that he sold fake soap, and he was not angry with you. What is this allusion?"
Zhuang Mengzhou smiled again: "This is not an allusion, he really sells fake soap!"
Chapter completed!