Yi Yang, Zhang Bushou and Zhao Qiang.

They all heard the crying outside.

The final exams for physical education have been taking place these past few days, so the equipment room has been very messy. Da Hei Niu wanted to find a few businessmen to help clean up, because Da Hei Niu had asked Da Hei Niu to help several times before, so Da Hei Niu said

When this happened, Yi Yang basically didn't think about it, so he took Zhang Bushou and Zhao Qiang and asked for leave to work illegally... People are mutually beneficial. If you don't want to help others, then no one will help when you need help.

you.

Yi Yang said: "I'll go out and see what's going on."

Zhao Qiang and Zhang Bushou nodded.

As soon as Yi Yang walked to the door, he was stunned when he saw Yi Xiaoqing.

Teacher Wu also saw Yi Yang, and she felt relieved for a while. She naturally knew Yi Yang. Her specialty was basketball. Last time in the county basketball game, she was also kicked out for calling the referee. Later at school

She also watched the finals, and Yi Yang left a deep impression on her. This time, Yi Yang volunteered to help organize the equipment room and chatted for a few words. Yi Yang's comfortable conversation made her even more fond of Yi Yang.

Yi Yang asked: "Teacher Wu, what happened?"

Teacher Wu changed his expression towards Yi Yang, showed him the messy skipping rope, and explained seriously: "It's not a big problem. This girl did it, and I didn't say anything, so she cried...

..." Then he turned around and glared at Yi Xiaoqing: "Did I scold you or hit you? Are you crying so sadly? Which class of junior high school are you in?"

The female teacher spoke gently to Yi Yang and changed her demeanor as soon as she faced her. This scene naturally fell into Yi Xiaoqing's eyes. She didn't have time to think about why Yi Yang appeared here. She just felt more aggrieved.

, cried until I started sobbing...

Teacher Wu also has a headache... She has always been straightforward and has a bold personality, but she is not very good at dealing with this kind of thing. She came out at this time because she had something urgent to do. Being delayed here, she couldn't help but feel even more angry. She was about to say something, at this moment

Yi Yang interrupted: "Teacher Wu... let me handle it."

Teacher Wu glanced at Yi Yang in surprise.

"You handle it?"

"She...hey, my cousin."

Teacher Wu was slightly startled. It would be much easier if she was a cousin. According to their family’s tradition, if she was acting a little ill-tempered, she would be beaten by her cousin. She nodded and said, "Okay, discipline me well."

Call me your cousin." After saying that, he ignored Yi Xiaoqing who was still crying and walked away.

I saw Yi Yang walking up to Yi Xiaoqing, silently picking up the skipping rope, and untying the knots one by one. Halfway through, he was caught by Yi Xiaoqing. She had stopped crying and just bit

Looking at him with pursed lips.

Yi Yang sighed slightly and did not discuss this matter with her. He asked: "Physical education class?"

Yi Xiaoqing looked at her cousin in front of her, feeling an indescribable emotion in her heart, and nodded silently.

Yi Yang pointed to the skipping rope: "It's okay to be idle. Once you get it out, come in with me to pack up the equipment."

Yi Xiaoqing was silent for a long time. Yi Yang took it as her consent and turned around to go in... Just then he heard her voice from behind: "Yi Yang... am I very annoying?"

Yi Yang was slightly startled, then turned around and saw Yi Xiaoqing looking at him with a very complicated look. To be honest, for a long time, he didn't like his cousin, but more

It is a house of hatred towards Wang Hua. But no matter how you put it, Wang Hua is a person who has no blood relationship with him, but Yi Xiaoqing is, and is even very close. This is the case in this small place, and the patriarchal relationship tied by blood is reflected.

It’s so vivid that it can’t be given up no matter what.

Yi Yang sighed, decided to have a good chat with her, and said: "Wait for me." Then he took away the skipping rope, walked in and threw it to Zhang Bushou: "Open the knot, you two will work for a while, I will

Go out for a while."

Zhao Qiao asked: "What's wrong?"

"Nothing, I'll buy you some bottles of drinks."

"Okay... go ahead."

After coming out, Yi Xiaoqing still maintained the same posture as before, but lowered his head and said again: "Am I very annoying?"

Yi Yang said: "Let's go and have a look."

Yi Xiaoqing hesitated for a moment and nodded silently.

The two began to walk aimlessly on the playground track. After walking for a while, Yi Yang said, "You... you are not a bad person."

In fact, how bad can a person like Yi Xiaoqing be in nature? Children before puberty are the mirror of their parents in their conduct and behavior. Their words and actions are copied from their parents. The way their parents communicate directly affects their children. If

If parents speak softly and consider other people's feelings at all times, then children will probably do the same. If parents speak harshly and take the smallest matters seriously, then there is a high chance that children will also become people who like to attack others personally.

The essential reason is that the way parents speak directly makes children feel that it is a normal way of communication.

For example, his cousin is accused by Wang Hua every day because of some trivial things, such as not washing his socks, "a lazy person who can't help the wall with mud, a dirty critic." So, Yi Xiaoqing can learn from this.

In this way, in school, because a classmate said he wanted to lose weight but didn't stick to it, he would scold him: "Look, I know you are talking about a person who gives up halfway."

Who will like it?

Yi Yang has experienced Yi Xiaoqing's rise from one thing to the evaluation of other people's personalities many times.

And she may not be aware of all this.

People like Yi Xiaoqing often need many years to grow up and hit enough walls, and then one day they become that kind of people-pleasing personality. And the people-pleasing personality does not mean to please everyone, but to "put the best in everything"

Give the best side to strangers, and leave the worst side to the people closest to you." Then there is a high probability that this method of communication will be passed on to the next generation.

Yi Yang suddenly felt a little lucky. Neither his grandma nor his father, whom he had much memory of, were like that. Their social habits gave him a very high ability to detect and even control other people's emotions... Emotional intelligence. The essence of emotional intelligence.

, not eloquence, but many people like to confuse the two.

Yi Xiaoqing said: "Then why..."

"Why do others always target you or even isolate you? Isn't that right?"

Yi Xiaoqing was startled and looked at Yi Yang in disbelief. His eyes seemed to say, how did you know?

Yi Yang thought for a while and said, "I want to ask you a question."

"Um……"

"You tied a knot in your skipping rope today... and then I said, you are a guy who can't control his own hands and has a brain problem when he has nothing to do."

"I just..." Yi Xiaoqing tried to explain.

"You just feel uncomfortable in your heart, probably because you have just suffered the grievances from other places... and then you tied the knot in the skipping rope subconsciously. I know."

Yi Xiaoqing looked at him: "Then you...still said that..."

Yi Yang smiled slightly: "So, in the previous sentence, because you knotted the rope, I have to judge you. Have you found the problem?"

Suddenly, Yi Xiaoqing was stunned.

Many images flashed through my mind at once.

"Then you have quite a strong taste..."

"I knew you were a careless guy."

"You wear black clothes, you must be a dark person..."

All kinds of things, and there are more scenes of mocking others... Enlightenment happened in a moment. For a moment, she felt a sudden awakening, but then she felt deep fear... Unknowingly, she had already said

Are there so many hurtful words? And every time, he seems to be complacent about his "wit".

Looking at Yi Yang again, his expression was extremely complicated.

Yi Yang didn't speak either, but seeing her expression, he felt a little comfort in his heart... Of course, it was impossible for her to change all of a sudden, but as long as she could be aware of her own problems... Slowly, she would still be there.

changing.

At this time, the two of them walked to the school cafeteria, where there was a canteen.

Yi Yang went in and bought a few bottles of drinks, threw one to Yi Xiaoqing, and said, "It doesn't matter. When you talk in the future, just go through it in your mind before speaking. Don't define a person easily.

"

For a moment, Yi Xiaoqing felt extremely ashamed of her low emotional intelligence. She took the bottle of water and remained silent. At this time, she also realized that even if Yi Yang was talking about her problems, it was not uncomfortable at all.

feeling.

He didn't say that he had low emotional intelligence or no brains because of this incident.

Yi Yang said again: "Chatting means telling stories and feelings. Don't always express your opinions, but also have to be accepted." After saying that, he also knew that she would definitely need to digest what he said.

In fact, I am not sure how much my cousin can hear. But after saying this, he smiled slightly: "I have to go there to work for a while, so I won't accompany you."

Yi Xiaoqing nodded silently.

After Yi Yang left, she turned around and glanced at Yi Yang's back, then silently held the bottle of drink and whispered...
Chapter completed!