[093] Good man and black fungus
The third guy who shared the story is tall and big, with a good appearance and temperament. On the campus more than ten years ago, even if he is still a gap in school grass, he is probably considered a grass-level figure.
This person is obviously much more confident than Lao Yang, and he is concise and finished his story in a few words: "My name is Lao Sun. I got married in 1982. I got divorced during the 2008 Olympics and divorced last Christmas. The reason for my divorce is very simple. I found that I don't love her anymore. If I force her to live, I will divorce."
The reason for this guy's divorce was indeed very simple, and I was stunned.
After careful comparison, Lao Sun and I are of the same age and get married at the same time, and even the divorce date is not a few days apart. The only difference is probably the reason for divorce.
When I saw the fourth person sharing the story, I suddenly remembered Tietou. This guy gives people the feeling that he is honest and honest, more honest than Tietou. He is the kind of person who you think he is very reliable just as soon as you meet him.
His voice was also very simple. When I heard it, I wanted to be friends with this person. He only heard him say, "My name is Lao Li, 36 years old. I don't know if I'm married or divorced."
The others all looked clear and clear, obviously Lao Li told me the story.
Lao Li's story is different from everyone: "I have a girl next door who grew up with childhood sweethearts. I always like her, and she knows that I like her. She doesn't like me, and thinks I'm very boring. She likes the kind of man who can take her adventures and excite her. At the beginning, my story was the same as Lao Yang. In 1997, I deliberately failed the college entrance examination without telling my family and accompanied her to the third year of high school. As a result, she got along with a boy in school who pretended to be cool all day long. I had a fight with that man, because of this, she ignored me from high school to college. Our family is still neighbors. I often visited each other during the holidays. When she saw me, she ignored me like the air."
"I graduated from college for two thousand years and gave her a letter, which I wrote. I told her that I would not like others. I would wait for her. When she was tired, I would come to me. I will always be her safe haven. During SARS in 2003, she ran to the house I rented and asked me if what I said before was still counted? I said, counted forever. She reacted very much that day and had sex with me that night..."
"I thought I had been so happy, just like the one I played in the movie, the woman who had been wandering for a long time finally understood who was really good to her. But real life was not so developed. She told me about her experiences. From the third year of high school to the SARS period, she dated a total of eight men, and I was the ninth..."
"She asked me if I mind her past. I said I didn't mind, and I felt a little uncomfortable. At that time, I thought, no matter what, she finally came back, and it would be fine if I came back. After the SARS ended, she left without saying goodbye. It was not considered a complete farewell. She left me a note saying: There is a man she can't forget. Now that the SARS is over, she wants to find that man..."
When I heard this, my thoughts flew.
I remembered Nana and the days when I was a substitute.
I felt an inexplicable gratitude. Fortunately, I used my revenge to put her on her first, otherwise the person who was left with the note in the end might be me.
Old Li is not as sarcastic as me. He is a good person, but he is not rewarded. In the end, all the woman left him a note.
Old Li was still saying: "Three years later, about the 2006 World Cup, she found me again. She asked me if I still hate her, and I said, I never hated her. That day she cried for a long time and called me a fool. I thought she was injured again and wanted to find me as a substitute. Even if I could only be with her for a few days, I would be willing. Unexpectedly, she didn't want to relive the old love with me that time. The next day she didn't beat around and asked me to borrow money. I borrowed her 80,000..."
Hearing this, the men who surrounded him all showed an indignant expression.
Obviously, no one agrees with Lao Li doing this.
Anyone with a little experience understands that the result of doing this will inevitably be that meat buns will go and go but never return.
I remembered Tietou again. Lao Li and Tietou have something in common. This kind of person is easy to talk about, but once he becomes stubborn, he is extremely stubborn. He has to hold on to something. When such a person makes a decision, he can't even pull back.
"In 2009, I went back to my hometown for the New Year and saw her. That Lantern Festival happened to be her birthday, and she was thirty years old. Her parents always blamed her for not getting married yet. My parents were also urging me. I was thirty-two that year, and the elderly in our two families complained to each other when they met. That day, she joked to me, "Or why we get married, and both families are worry-free. I agreed. I don't know what she was thinking. Anyway, as long as she is willing to marry me, I can't ask for it."
"According to the customs of our hometown, we will hold a wedding first and then get a marriage certificate. In March 2009, we held a wedding with great fanfare. On the wedding day, a plot that only exists in the movie happened. She received a call and ran out. She said she went outside the door to meet an old friend who came to attend a friend, but when she left, she never came back..."
"Just like that, she disappeared. I still haven't figured out whether she is my wife or have we ever been married. The male protagonist in the movie will rush into the wedding scene to express his feelings affectionately. The female protagonist is moved and will run away with him. That man is more bullish than the male protagonist in the movie, and he took the person away with a phone call. From beginning to end, I didn't see what the man looked like..."
I was completely stunned, and I didn't expect Lao Li's story to be so dramatic.
"Old Li, listen to my brother's advice, stop being honest. Those who are injured are always honest people like you." A brother who is wearing glasses sitting next to me was particularly excited and expressed his opinion.
"Old Li, listen to your brother, don't wait for her. She has been running away for four years. Why don't you find a woman to start a new life? So what if you are good to her? So what if you are good to her? So what if you are a cow and a horse for her? Hei Muyou always loves the man who has played with her in her youth." Lao Zhang was also very excited and advised: "It's not that I'm talking about you, Lao Li, you can't say that you are a friend of your personality. If you go to pick up girls in this personality, you will die once and once."
Lao Li was still insisting: "I don't believe it, she is not as bad as you said."
Brother Glasses was angry: "Why don't you listen to me every time? You can't even get into the oil and salt! Ask Lao Sun and Lao Lin, these two are veterans of flower clusters. Ask them what the black fungus thinks."
Lao Sun immediately took over the conversation: "Lao Li, glasses and Lao Zhang are right. You have a big problem with picking up girls in your personality. Unless you are lucky enough to meet a woman who truly appreciates you, but this kind of woman is not easy to meet, and the probability is like buying a lottery. I guess even if you meet, you will not feel at ease. The black fungus that hurts you again and again, and how can you tolerate other girls? The eyes of the masses are sharp, just believe us once, don't wait for that woman again and again! Let me take my example myself. There were many girls who chased me in the past. It's strange that the colder I am to those girls, the more fierce they pounced. This makes me suspect that young girls really like bastards. The more bastards you are, the more they care about you. Just like what Lao Zhang said, black fungus always loves to play with their men."
Lao Li didn't say anything, he seemed unable to accept this setting.
"Old Li, you have to think about it carefully. One or two people say that the woman is not good, it may be too one-sided. When everyone says that she is not good, then you have to think about the problem carefully." Lin Shao expressed his opinion and said, "Lao Zhang's statement is a bit one-sided. In fact, men and women are the same. Women cannot forget the man who hurt her the deepest, and men cannot forget the woman who hurt her the deepest. Lao Li, you are a living example. To be honest, I don't think you love that woman at all. I think she hurt you countless times, so you will never forget her in your life. You are thirty-six, and you are not a non-marriager. If you don't think about yourself, you have to think about your parents. What should your parents do if you are in the fourth year of your life and don't get married and have children?"
Old Li raised his head suddenly and shouted loudly: "What should you do if you want me to go on a blind date like Lao Yang, or get married and divorced like Lao Zhang?"
This question has caused everyone to ask.
Marriage is indeed not a topic that can be easily touched.
Lao Zhang suddenly looked at me and asked, "What do you think, this new friend? Don't worry, we can speak freely here, and we can understand whatever you say."
As soon as I heard him say this, I became bolder: "Old Li, you have a problem with your mentality. We might as well divide the problem into several steps to solve it. Regardless of whether you get married or not, the most urgent thing is to forget that woman, she is not suitable for you."
Old Li was still angry: "What if I can't forget it?"
I said, "It's impossible to forget that. As long as you stop loving it, it's good to treat her as an eternal memory. I like to study some irrelevant details. Now I will tell you my research results. There are such plots in many romantic dramas. On the day of the heroine's wedding, the hero fell from the sky and hooked up the woman away. I don't know if you have ever thought about what the groom should do when encountering such a thing? As the hero, the runaway dog and the woman are of course romantic, and the audience applauds. But what about the groom? In front of all the relatives and friends, his wife ran away with other men. What do you think he should be in?"
Lao Li's reaction was beyond my expectations. He was stunned for a moment, and then suddenly hugged his head and started crying.
Mr. Lin touched me and whispered: "The relatives and friends of the old Li family are still pointing at him."
I kept saying, "It would be fine to say that the groom is a villain, but everyone has always called for a fight. But in 80% of the movies and TV series I have watched, the groom is not a villain. He is often a good old man, a trustworthy good man, and a good old man worthy of entrusting. Because he is trustworthy, the heroine who was hurt by love will choose to marry him. Such a person is a good substitute. And when the main force, that is, the male protagonist appears, the fate of the substitute is kicked away. I really want to ask, why? Why does such a good person not have good rewards in the end? Why is all disasters borne by this good person? Why does the audience applaud the pair of running dogs and men? Lao Li, please answer me, are you still willing to be such a good person?"
Hearing this, Lao Li cried even harder, his voice as if he was slaughtering a pig.
"This friend's analysis is correct. Speaking of this, I reminded me of a report I read some time ago. An American expert made a new discovery and found that many women have a symptom called rupture addiction. What is rupture addiction? That is, since the day the hymen was ruptured, women have a mentality of liking to be destroyed. For example, many women fantasize that the prince charming jumped out to destroy the wedding and snatched her away on the day of their marriage. This is a typical rupture addiction. There are also some stories about 18X. Many women fantasize that they are walking in a dark place and being raped by a handsome guy. This is also a manifestation of rupture addiction... Old Li, your woman is definitely a symptom. The farther away from her as soon as possible, the better." Brother Glasses is worthy of being gentle and has a gentle and beastly demeanor, and has expressed this somewhat perverted view.
"I heard you say this, it seems that this is true. I used to see the male protagonist rushing into the female protagonist's wedding in the past. It would be boring to watch such an old-fashioned plot a few more times, but the girls around me all reacted very much and were extremely excited. Could this be a rupture addiction?" Lao Sun took over the conversation, but he drew the topic far away. What everyone talked about next has nothing to do with Lao Li.
After a while, I finally got on track.
Chapter completed!