Jiang Xi was no longer aggressive, but looked at Cong Feng silently and listened to his explanation with a respectful attitude.

Cong Feng sighed, "Well! I regret getting married now. At the beginning, there were actually many signs of conflict. But at that time, I really wanted to get married, so I deliberately ignored all the trivial matters. However, the small lesions were left unresolved, and later it turned into a major lesions."

Cong Feng paused for a moment, as if he had recalled what happened a few months ago, "I remember when we decided to get married, I first proposed that we live alone. Her family has three houses, but in fact, just live one for us. If not, I also said, let's rent a house first, and live a two-person world, and cultivate feelings first, right?"

"Yeah!" Jiang Xi nodded, which meant that she agreed with Cong Feng's idea.

Cong Feng lowered his head and continued, "But everyone in their family objected, especially his parents. He was worried about giving their daughter to me at first sight. I could understand this. Thinking that this was not a big deal, I compromised and agreed to live with them. However, they were guarding me like a thief. In the middle of the night, they would listen secretly at our door, as if I would hurt their daughter at any time, but there was no trust at all."

At this time, Jiang Xi interrupted, "Did you and your family do something that they don't trust in their behavior? For example, how did the 300,000 betrothal gift that was agreed to turn into 250,000 when they got married?"

"Well! This is indeed wrong with our family, but there is a reason. I have earned wages over the years, and I have saved up 200,000 yuan in total. My mother originally said to add 100,000 yuan to me so that I could make up 300,000 yuan. As a result, my sister-in-law learned about this, and the family was in chaos. She insisted that our family only gave her 50,000 yuan in total. Why was she so worthless? She refused to give up another 50,000 yuan with my mother? My mother was forced to do so. She felt that in the future, she would have to rely on her eldest daughter-in-law to raise her. My daughter-in-law in the city might not be able to count on her, and she had no other money, so she forced out 50,000 yuan from my wife's bride price. When I told Xiao Yang, Xiao Yang agreed. At that time, we were quite good at that time and we were together."

"Yeah!" Jiang Xi nodded.

I was quite understanding after hearing Cong Feng's words. It seems that many conflicts in rural areas in small places are caused by money, but this is real life, there is no way. Don't think that if you have money, you will not have this trouble. Poor families will cause trouble because of 50,000, while rich families will cause trouble because of 500,000 or 5 million. In short, there will be killings wherever there are people, and the trouble will never stop.

So we have to mention what Jiang Xi said again: If a person is right, everything will be right. If a person is wrong, there will be all kinds of troubles if he has no money!

According to the news, the boss of a company died after arguing with his wife who was twenty years younger than him at home. The cause of death is unknown. Think about what else can this have to do with it? It’s just money, sex, and sex requires money as capital.

Therefore, money can also be said to be a double-sided knife. For some people, it can make life happier, and for some people, it may also become a deadly knife!

"But later, after living with Xiao Yang and his family, Xiao Yang's parents always beat me up with this. When they were in a bad mood, they said that I was so poor that I couldn't even get the money for the bride. Why did they get married? They wanted me to do more housework. At first I tried hard, but I was not good at housework, so no matter how I did it, they could pick up the problem. When they were angry, they would yell at me, "Get out of this house, we don't want you to have nothing, and we don't know how to care about my daughter's useless son-in-law. You said sister-in-law, I also have dignity. Once they drove me away, I had to go out to stay in a hotel. After a long time, I will definitely be sad."

Jiang Xi blinked and asked for hesitation, "Xiao Yang told me something. She said that she asked you to buy roses and cakes on her birthday, but you didn't buy them."

"This is indeed my fault. I was too busy with work that day and forgot it. I didn't have time to order online. When I got off work, it was past 11 o'clock in the middle of the night. The cake shop and flower spots were closed. I did ignore it, but I was not meant to do it."

Jiang Xi looked speechless, "Okay, even if you are not interested in this matter, Xiao Yang said, you don't care about her feelings when it comes to husband and wife affairs, just to satisfy your desires. On her birthday, you didn't buy her roses and cakes. She was in a bad mood and was wet in the rain. She wanted you to pour a cup of hot water in the middle of the night, but you said you were very tired. Then when she just fell asleep, you woke her up again and wanted to do that with her. Didn't these beastly behaviors be done by you?"

Cong Feng looked at Jiang Xi with shock, "Damn, this is what Xiao Yang told you? How could I do that?"

"What the hell is going on? Xiao Yang said that you won't let you touch it anymore. The main reason is that this incident has completely hurt her heart. Think about it, women actually pay great attention to the feeling of being loved and romantic atmosphere in this regard. You will definitely not be able to do it!"

Cong Feng looked aggrieved, "I'm not! I was very tired that night. It was twelve o'clock when I got home. I took a shower and went to bed. I was in a daze. I heard her muttering in my ears. I didn't hear what she said. I was in a daze and might have answered casually, "I'm so sleepy. When I was sleeping until midnight, I felt her toss and turns and not sleeping. I thought to myself, is she uncomfortable? I missed that, isn't she wet in the rain? If she sweats, she will definitely not catch a cold. So, I forced myself to wake up from my sleepy and sticky dream, and then hugged her and started kissing her in a daze, all trying to tell her that I care about her..."

"So, you want to use that method to help her sweat, right?" I couldn't help but interrupt.

"Yes!" Cong Feng looked innocent, then blinked and said, "Actually, I was really tired that day and didn't think much, but I thought she thought! At that time, I wondered why the more I caressed her, the more angry she became? Maybe she simply didn't like me. I suffered 10,000 points of hurt in my heart. The next day I didn't go back to live outside. I lived outside for a week and digested my breath before going back. But after that, when I was thinking about it, she completely resisted."

"Puff!" I finally couldn't help but laughed out loud.

Jiang Xi also smiled bitterly, "Oh! I just said, Cong Feng is not that bad. You are just too ignorant of each other and have not communicated well at all. They are all misunderstandings. The misunderstandings are deep, and every misunderstanding becomes a pit that cannot be filled! It's so sad!"

"Cough!" Cong Feng kept sighing, "I regret getting married too. I feel that I can't communicate with you at all. I don't understand her thoughts, and she also looks down on me. It's really not possible. Even if Xiao Yang and I are not bad people, we still can't make our lives well! We don't trust each other too much."

After listening to this, I feel that Cong Feng's marriage may not be more of a human problem, but rather that they are too fast to get together.

Marriages are like building a building. The foundation (emotional foundation) must be laid strongly so that the floor can be built firmly (feelings gradually warm up). During the process of building, load-bearing walls are generated (feelings become deep affection), and strengthen the stability and security of the entire building (marriage).

Only then will such a marriage resistance become stronger, bigger, and then become more stable and happier.

For buildings without foundations and load-bearing walls, the entire building cracks and collapses when there is a little movement.

For example, if Jiang Xi and I encounter the same problem with Cong Feng and Xiao Yang, I think Jiang Xi and I will definitely not cause such a result for them.

For example, if Jiang Xi is uncomfortable and wants me to pour water for her, if I say I am so tired and sleepy, she will probably not be angry at all, but will kick me to the ground.

You see, this communication method is very effective, right? I’m so awake when I’m confused and my wife feels uncomfortable. As a husband, I can’t even pour a cup of hot water. Do you still have the nerve to call yourself someone else’s husband?

For example, when it comes to the issue of bride money, my family didn't give a penny at that time, and I didn't hear Jiang Xi complain, but I only felt her heartache for me.

For example, if anyone thinks about what happens between a couple, it’s better to just say it out loud. They are all adults, so why are they pretentious?

However, the examples I gave above are only suitable for couples with deep emotional foundations. Two people who do not have enough feelings are suspicious of each other and pretentious of each other, and always hope that the other party can be more good to them.

Therefore, young men and women need time to get along with each other. If they don’t get along with each other, they don’t know whether it’s appropriate! Time is the best way to test scumbags and scumbags.

"Then what are you going to do now? After all, Xiao Yang is pregnant, and he really wants to get a divorce?" Jiang Xi asked Cong Feng this key question.
Chapter completed!